I like this Japanese student at the college I go to but shes very shy and I don't know if shes intrested. How do I get her to notice me?
2006-12-13 07:27:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
send some flowers to her in school saying Happy Holidays.Ask her out to lunch.Ask her for help on an issue in class even if you really don't need it.
2006-12-13 07:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything stupid like send her flowers or candy unless your going to include an engagement ring and even then i think she may just look at u funny and pawn the ring u bought. So anyways girls love humor and confidence and you have the balls to even go up to this girl thats half the battle. Talk to her but dont be nervous and make sure you throw in some humor to make her feel comfortable. You don't get girls to "notice" you because if they do its usually for a bad reason or thats how far its gonna go, to her noticing you.
2006-12-13 15:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by royman337 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bout this? 1 of 2 things, Quickly run up to her, grasping your throat and trying to bulge your eyes, do this for 60 seconds and see if she reacts,..... Wait a minute maybe u oughta do this for 30 secs instead, or.... how bout, try n notice what class she comes out of (this is NOT staulking) and gently walk up 1 day and say "hey, how ya doin"? I see you are takin a class with Mr. So n So " How do u like his class, I thought about taking it next semester or Something like that. Whadaya think?
2006-12-13 15:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by weezie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it rlly doesn't matter about ur skin...a lot of foreign girls are shy because everything is new to them, so don't take it personally. just talk to her, and help her feel more comfortable at the school. she'll definately appreciate it if you help her out. but pretty much, just try to talk to her...say anything that pops into your head. shy girls, most of the time are very nice, so you shouldn't be afraid that she won't like you. Just talk to her and let it go from there, see what happens! good luck!!
2006-12-13 16:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by Surfergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just be yourself, get to know her, show her that your intereted, and initiate meaningful conversations that is what your interested in. If she likes what you like then, you ask her out on a date. Being white does not acffect your chances. Most likely if the girl becomes fond of you, she'll like you because your you (a white guy).
2006-12-13 15:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her. Make her feel like somebody cares about her. It is hard being away at school, she might have left everything she knows at home. Make nice with her.
2006-12-13 15:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jeni Bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. If you need to get her attention stand in front of her wave your arms. and when she askes what youre doing tell you just wanted to get her attention. if she asks why say because you thought she was interesting. and voila begin talking casually
2006-12-13 15:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by crymsyneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she can help you with something trivial (women like to feel needed), then just start telling her jokes and be relaxed, and make her feel relaxed too. We like men who make us laugh and who we feel comfortable around.
2006-12-13 15:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by mafarrar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to her and introduce yourself. Start out slowly, talk to about her country and ask questions about her country. eventually she may open up to you, but remember sheis from a different country and background than yourself.
2006-12-16 21:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by silver fox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lemme hit that thang, and I'll tell you if it's any good!
2006-12-13 15:36:13 · answer #10 · answered by PorchMonkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋