2006-12-13 07:19:41 · 17 answers · asked by mercedes r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like you weren't really committed to the first person in the first place. When you really love someone you close your heart off to anyone else and commit to them. If that agreement wasn't made in the first place then you have to decide who's more right for you. Dating both wouldn't be in anyone's best interests, even yours. What are the REAL reasons you don't want to stay with the first girl? Otherwise you would have no reason to leave her, right?
2006-12-13 07:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relationship with the person that you are currently liking then you need to deal with the matter at hand and that is why am I looking some where else if what I have here is so good? Then on the other hand if you and this guy are just dating then your options are still open to date other people as well, then you can talk to this other person and see if you are compatible. In life I think that people should date before they settle with just one person ,that way they won't feel like they missed out on anything that could have been better than what they have right now.
2006-12-13 15:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by BASHFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love this person? You can't just like them, it has to be something else to it. You can't help your feelings. If you don't want to be with the person that you are with don't be with them. Don't lead that young lady own like you are into her and you are not. That happens. You have someone and you meet someone better.
2006-12-13 15:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by lhpretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, don't cheat, you will feel terrible, the first person won't forgive you and the second one won't respect you. Be honest, have a talk with your current love and find out how he or she feels about you and your future together. Take some comfort in knowing that it is very rare for the "new person" thing to work out (ask the man who left me for the insane person he married - I told him so...).
2006-12-13 15:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by my sign 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to think about all things going on around you and which person would be better for you now and in the furture you don't want to get in a situatio n where you choose one and the other is better for you.
2006-12-13 15:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by crysblood20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with them both. Find out wich one is better in bed and also has a good perosnality. Rate each of their personalit and sexual experiences with points. Do both of them with a point system and then rate them to see wich is the better candidate/sex partner
2006-12-13 15:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time for yourself and make sure that what you want really is a relationship with person A or if you just want to play the field.... if you can't handle being single, you are no good to a relationship.
2006-12-13 15:23:40 · answer #7 · answered by beck o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a decision than let one go so they can get on with they're life.
2006-12-13 15:27:43 · answer #8 · answered by jimbobob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to stop and think who would be better for u. If you like them both then I would say just go with your heart and go with who you think would be the best!!
Andrea
2006-12-13 15:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by chattygrl6913 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have to ask this question, then u prob aren't that serious about the one ur with.
2006-12-13 15:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by [un]bro/ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋