Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

HEY Y'ALL, my friend was worried about stds, so she went for a pelvic examination and got tested for all vanereal diseases, including h.i.v! she had tested negative for all the vanereal diseases, but the doctors said her pap test came back with abnormal cells, which the doctor described as Moderate Dysplasia. we got so worried and we were told that she'd need a biopsy to confirm the cause of the abnormality. my friend had a pap test about 2 years before and it was normal, so the doctor found it strange as to how it could come from normal to moderate as opposed to going in stages! she got her biopsy/colposcopy and the results came back with abnormal cells, but less abnormal than before! to me it was positive as it seems her cells are going back to normal! what do u think? she now has to take another pap test! also out of curiosity if a person is inh.iv positive do thir cell abnormalities get worse, too? my friend needs help, please help her understand what could be wrong with her cervix

2006-12-05 06:59:29 · 7 answers · asked by get outta here howdy 1 in Friends

i can very readily admit that im still hurt by my recent breakup but recognize that i need to move on and do other things to keep myself busy...on one hand i want to get out there and "be with" other guys but then theres another part of me that wants NOTHING to do with men right now...have u experienced this?

2006-12-05 06:59:19 · 51 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Singles & Dating

I met someone about 5 years ago. It was instant chemistry, and we totally fell for each other after starting out just friends. I've never met someone that I could talk to all day and all night the way I did with him. The only thing keeping us apart is that he is two provinces away. I was single but he was dating someone at the time. He broke it off and we were going to meet up..but neither of us ended up being able to afford it. Now..after all these years we have rekindled our friendship, but we are both married now. I have two kids and he has one. We both feel that we are totally in love with each other and that we should be together or else we are never going to be happy. The thing is my husband and his wife are great people who don't deserve to be hurt by our "long distance affair". I was wondering if anyone else has gone through this and has had the courage and strength to follow their heart? He is the one for me, but I don't like the idea of hurting people. What should I do?

2006-12-05 06:58:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Then call and reschedule it that most likely the policeman will not be there on the reschedule. They said I could then plead not guilty and since the cop isn't there I would get off. Does anyone know if this is really true.

2006-12-05 06:58:39 · 8 answers · asked by cindy_cardine 1 in Friends

Is it possible to just love and adore someone without having that animalistic lustful passion for them?

I only ask because I've had that passion before and it was never worth much in the way of a meaningful relationship.

Now I have the meaningful part but I'm not lustfully attracted. I am attracted but it's not that passionate "I want our bodies to be sewn together" type of attraction.

Please tell me if it's possible to have this and it be healthy and normal!!!!

2006-12-05 06:58:39 · 9 answers · asked by Jessie D. 3 in Singles & Dating

he is my father and i would love to find him please help me

2006-12-05 06:58:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i love him, but my friends tell me to leave, and he keeps telling me he wants help im so unsure what to do.

2006-12-05 06:58:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My former Stepfather health has began to decline and now needs daily assistance in meeting personal needs. His doctors have stated that he should not return to his own home to live alone. My youngest half-brother is unwilling to listen to his fathers nor the doctors requests to move him into assisted living. Our former Stepfather has ask us to become involved with his care, which we do not have a problem doing so....within our group he has 3 stepchildren...1 older son from his first marriage who lives out of state and 1 younger son (my youngest half brother). Now for the dilemma...Our former stepfather was extreamly abusive, to our mother and to each of us. Over the years we (stepchildren) have each dealt with his abusiveness and have forgiven him. Youngest half brother has not...and is verbally abusive to his father...bullying him whenever possible.We were all taught to respect our elders.
We are now faced with having to protect our former elderly stepfather from his own son. Help!

2006-12-05 06:58:10 · 3 answers · asked by Bbear 2 in Family

I'm 23 he is 31. We've been dating for 2 years, dealing with a lot of long distance relationship. I'm French &he is American. I've lived with him 5 months last year, then back to France, and 3 this year. Relatives ask us about getting married & afterward I bring the subject to discuss it &see how he feels, but the thing is: I freak out every time. I just somehow &up in tears, and really not knowing what I want. He never told me straight that he wanted to marry me. He said things like "I'm the first of his girlfriends that he could imagine marrying", that he "wants to settle down soon", etc. He did add last time that he knows I'm scared about it & that he doesn't bring the subject much because of that. The thing is I'm trying to get a working visa so I can stay in the US and live with him, but it's hard &I'm afraid that the only way for us to be together is to get married but I don't want to get married to have a visa I want the contary. I feel lost because I really want to be with him.

2006-12-05 06:58:04 · 8 answers · asked by Pyrene 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 06:58:02 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has practically grown up with this one girl. Her parents are good friends with his parents so they have known each other for a long time. So should I be worried that they leave little "I love you" comments to each other on myspace? I know its probably innocent but i think it kinda makes me uncomfortable. Sometimes I wonder if he wants to be with her and I wonder if they are supposed to be together but cant because they live 4 hours apart. I dont know what to do or how to bring this up without him getting really upset and I certainly dont want to pick a fight over something juvenile.

2006-12-05 06:57:55 · 11 answers · asked by georgiabelle87 4 in Singles & Dating

Well, Ive been married for almost 2yrs to the most beautiful person I know, inside and out. There have been things that bother her about me and Ive made changes. I love this person more then anything in this world. We have 3 kids between the both of us. She has 2 and I have 1. The children have grown so close to each other as well as I have grown close to them. She wanted a house and I did everything I could to buy her a house and I did. All I live for is to satisfy and please this woman. Ive gone thru leaps and boundaries. Recently she packed some clothes and said that she isnt happy and that she needs to be by herself. Its close to christmas time and I dont know what to do with myself. There is no other person I want to be with. I dont understand. She says she needs to find herself again. She thinks she lost herself. Im trying to do the best I can to handle this but I fear I may lose this person forever and it breaks my heart more then anyone can imagine. She is my life.

2006-12-05 06:55:49 · 21 answers · asked by money_maker 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-05 06:55:36 · 33 answers · asked by Danielle A 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it just my experience, or are most, if not all guys in the military strictly butt men and not interested in ****? I'm attracted to mil guys because of their experience with loyalty and commitment. But I've been told by several that my natural 36dd's are just too big. My waist is 28" and I'm 5'7" - so I'm thick but not fat. What's the deal?

2006-12-05 06:55:29 · 8 answers · asked by kellynicebigtits 1 in Singles & Dating

I have seen it happen to people I know they are in a relationship of some sort and when they start to talk with someone online they leave who they are with for the one they've been talking to online. just curious as to why. how do these feelings come?

2006-12-05 06:55:18 · 9 answers · asked by lawtation777 1 in Singles & Dating

The one thing that makes Christmas truly special to me is to be spending my first Christmas with the most amazing, loving caring beautiful girlfriend in the world, just to know that she is there on the end of the phone and to be with her is the most special thing to me

2006-12-05 06:55:16 · 13 answers · asked by Chappers 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love wearing girls clothes in private. I dont have a girlfriend but wonder if I did, would she let me dress up in her clothes.

2006-12-05 06:54:58 · 3 answers · asked by Jeff in dress 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 06:54:51 · 23 answers · asked by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i moved in august and my ex boyfriend and i are kinda friends with benifits because he really knows how to make someone feel good if you know what i mean......lol! well anyway i hadn't talked to him in like 3 months so i thought we were like supossed to move on or what ever need less to say i really care about this guy i dated him for 3 years so were still close well i started dating this guy at my new school he is super hot all the girls like him we have been dating for 3 weeks but out of the blue my ex called me last night and he was flirting and wants me to come and hang out with him this weekend i had alrady planned on going down there anyway but what do i do because there is something about him that makes me want to mess around with him every time were together and i kinda want to stay with the guys i'm with now but then again i dont he is to nice of a guy for me i'm into the bad boy type

2006-12-05 06:54:02 · 7 answers · asked by ash16 1 in Singles & Dating

Also, would it smell?

2006-12-05 06:53:27 · 25 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

are bald man attractive to women?

2006-12-05 06:53:26 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 06:53:06 · 2 answers · asked by tinker 1 in Singles & Dating

the girlfriend is a stripper and hates you, because she thinks yoiu are trying to steal her guy. when the whole time you and the guy are just good friends and have no extra feelings for him, but the ring is really big! and you both will be happy. and we have a agreement to get married in 5 years anyway..... i dont know. if the strippers a ***** why should he stay with her???

2006-12-05 06:52:57 · 14 answers · asked by confused 1 in Weddings

2006-12-05 06:52:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

HELP! PLEASE

2006-12-05 06:52:48 · 10 answers · asked by job b 1 in Singles & Dating

i saw my ex today..the same one everyone says they see me getting back with..he came to see his gf at school and we happen to go the same school...anyways...he told me that his best friend..another one of my ex's still has a crush on me and he told him that he put his arm around me the day he came up there....and i go no he didnt put his arm around me and he goes oh ok...whats happening here? is he still not over me and wants me back or was my other ex just telling him that to make him jealous?

2006-12-05 06:52:07 · 11 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Singles & Dating

Just asking your opinion. Don't get any ideas.

2006-12-05 06:50:40 · 24 answers · asked by shiv_music_boi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My son who is the non custodial parent, has asked his ex if she would forgo his support checks, as she is independently wealthy but she claims that it is out of her hands. Is this true?

2006-12-05 06:50:27 · 6 answers · asked by pete 2 in Marriage & Divorce

anything is this ok? also when i stay at his hous i go through her underwear draw is this wrong? she sleeps naked and in the morning i saw her naked icant stop thinking about her what should i do?

2006-12-05 06:49:27 · 18 answers · asked by isthisinuisetoo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 06:49:10 · 9 answers · asked by David W 1 in Singles & Dating