My boyfriend has practically grown up with this one girl. Her parents are good friends with his parents so they have known each other for a long time. So should I be worried that they leave little "I love you" comments to each other on myspace? I know its probably innocent but i think it kinda makes me uncomfortable. Sometimes I wonder if he wants to be with her and I wonder if they are supposed to be together but cant because they live 4 hours apart. I dont know what to do or how to bring this up without him getting really upset and I certainly dont want to pick a fight over something juvenile.
2006-12-05 06:57:55 · 11 answers · asked by georgiabelle87 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If they're that close, I doubt anything could happen. They probably think of it as a brother/sister/cousin kinda relationship, is he stupid enough to leave messages like that if they're serious on her myspace? talk to him anyway though, at least you'll know for sure.
2006-12-05 07:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could be a platonic love, but if I were you I'd say, "It makes me kind of uncomfortable with you telling another girl you love her." And see where the conversation goes from there, he may open up and tell you things you didn't know or he may shut you out, but if the latter does happen, know that you and him were not meant to be.
Good luck hun.
2006-12-05 07:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it IS something to worry about. I dont tell people even close friends that I love them. It is too weird, are you spying on his myspace...or do you have an accnt too and just ran accross it? I suggest that u bring it up to him!
2006-12-05 07:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it if he loves you he'll bring the subject up dont let it happen the other way around because then you'll guys really be arguing over something juvenile
2006-12-05 07:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by gangsta girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts about your relationship, and his feelings for her bother you or make you question your worth, then dump him. You can find someone who is more interested in you and is considerate of your feelings. Trust me I know from experience how things that LOOK innocent usually are NOT.
2006-12-05 07:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by mikeyswifeyof4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it, and if it doesnt work out in the end, just remember how many other guys there are out there looking for a girl like you....just think about that. life is short, but when youre young, youre young once, live life, then worry about junk like that later. Trust me.
2006-12-05 07:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by chrisj7682 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to tell...I have friends that I am close to like that, and I tell them I love them everytime I talk to them...but it is truely a non sexual, brother/sister type love. But I'm sure that their girlfriends are wondering the same thing about me as you are about her...
2006-12-05 07:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend has the same problem. don't spy or get too up in his business but just be careful. if my b/f was saying i love you to another girl even if it was his best friend I'd get pissed, but that's me. just ask him nicely about that situation.
2006-12-05 07:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by lala crazy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be worried,thats just me though, i mean my boyfriend left me for his old friend a while back.
2006-12-05 07:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by i rawkkk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to back off and face the fact that they're friends!!!!!
2006-12-05 07:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by Bex 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋