ok i moved in august and my ex boyfriend and i are kinda friends with benifits because he really knows how to make someone feel good if you know what i mean......lol! well anyway i hadn't talked to him in like 3 months so i thought we were like supossed to move on or what ever need less to say i really care about this guy i dated him for 3 years so were still close well i started dating this guy at my new school he is super hot all the girls like him we have been dating for 3 weeks but out of the blue my ex called me last night and he was flirting and wants me to come and hang out with him this weekend i had alrady planned on going down there anyway but what do i do because there is something about him that makes me want to mess around with him every time were together and i kinda want to stay with the guys i'm with now but then again i dont he is to nice of a guy for me i'm into the bad boy type
2006-12-05 06:54:02 · 7 answers · asked by ash16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stick with the one that "knows how to make someone feel good if you know what I mean" because he's the one you're gonna keep thinking about when your with Mr. Nice Guy!
2006-12-05 07:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Italian_Guy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well my first question is where was your ex bf for the last 3 months? I bet you anything he was "dating" someone. He is your past, you need to move on. It sounds like you like this new guy and if you go and fool around with your ex bf then there's a chance you could ruining your chance with this guy. Even though he may not know, you will. Start off this relationship with sleeping with your ex....your relationship won't go far that's for sure. Take a chance on your new guy. Hell who knows he could be a better lover than your ex. Or he could be the guy of your dreams. But you won't know if you ruin your chance at it. Is it really worth it? I would have to say NO!
2006-12-05 14:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are not ready for a serious relationship.If you really like the guy you are with then you would not go to see your ex full stop,and if the new guy isn't up to scratch in bed then you are going to stray at some point so why prolong his heart break.You have to choose as your ex is only after one thing if your fine with that then you know what you have to do.
2006-12-05 15:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nookie bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FWB only works when both are single. If you're seeing someone now, you shouldn't sleep with your ex. If you do, then you need to let your current guy know of your situation and see if he's okay with it. You already know the answer...don't do it.
2006-12-05 14:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahead and continue to be the hoe that you are and just screw both of them, youre young and apparently single and cant make your mind up over the 2 guys, so, have best of both worlds, does that answer your question?
2006-12-05 14:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by chrisj7682 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out what you really want out of life in order to accurately make the decision that is best for you.
2006-12-05 14:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by jagerbombmeister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure which is which however my advice:
STAY WITH THE BAD BOY
2006-12-05 15:01:13 · answer #7 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋