HELP! PLEASE
2006-12-05 06:52:48 · 10 answers · asked by job b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you have friends/family in a different city that he isn't familiar with? My suggestion is to NOT call the cops, this will only agiate an already violent situation and could result in the worst. You need to get away from him, and fast, but you can't let him know you are going to do it. You need to make an escape plan, if you have any available funds, use them to save yourself, please! You need to take the soonest available chance to get out of there, DO NOT TELL HIM YOU ARE GOING TO LEAVE. DO NOT ACT DIFFERENTLY THAN NORMAL. You need to live life as always until you have any time where he is not around you, then you need to get up and go. Do not worry about your possessions, take a small bag and get out. Nothing you own is as valuable as your life, and if you stay much longer this will be in serious jeopardy. When you get to somewhere safe, DO NOT get a restraining order, this will only give him the knowledge of where you are, and there is very little chance of him respecting it, he'll just come get you. Seriously, if he is grabbing a gun as a means to make you stay, do you think he has much respect for laws regarding these situations. Get out as soon as you can. And when you do NO CONTACT must be made for any reason. You need to cut all ties and start anew. It is scary, but where you are is far scarier when put into perspective. Please please DO NOT call the cops, just run to somewhere he doesn't know about. Someone will help you, you just have to ask. I'm praying for you. I've been through something similar, and it's not a good place to be, but you CAN get out, and things can get better!
2006-12-05 07:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, thats a dangerous thing, a gay guy with a gun. Well, thats what you get go cry to the cops. And, tell him if hes gonna kill you to do it alread cause your sick and tired of his ****** threats and you'd rather be dead then to live that way. He will back the **** up, if not have a small concealable bat on hand and when he gos for the gun bash him, it is called self defense!!!!!!!!!1
2006-12-05 14:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get an adult abuse restraining order Order of Protection from the nearest county court house. If you are living with him, move out and into a protective shelter. Do not answer your cell phone. If you are not living with him, do not see him, do not answer his calls, do not let him in your house. Notify the police. Stay away from this guy! Move out of the city/state if you can. Contact centers for battered women, even if you are a homosexual man they can help you and point you in the right directions. Take care of yourself, sweety, you deserve to be treated better than this and you've gotta love yourslef and get away. Somebody out there loves you and you'll find them sooner you get away from this guy! Be brave! You can do it!
2006-12-05 14:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would arrange to have plans with a friend, and while he was gone during the day, pack a bag and give it to your friends, and the night you go out with your friends, just leave and go to the cops to let them know what is going on, get in touch with a group that protects battered and abused families, their differant in every state, if you search online, make sure to delete your search history so he can't find out
2006-12-05 14:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by adblodgett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like they are too attached to u...they probably want u to think they cant live without u...but ur only gonna get hurt emotionally in the end if ur not already....talk to them and explain to them that if yall are going to be together then u need to work something out and u cant take the fact that they always go and get a gun everytime u try to leave..u should only be in a relationship if both people are happy in it..if they arent then u need to get out of it and find someone else
2006-12-05 14:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look just call the Police. Or move out of where you live
2006-12-05 14:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by katherine A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the prick when he's not home & go get an order of protection.This is serious but you definately need to get out.
2006-12-05 14:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OKAY IS HE HOLDING YOU HOSTAGE ? if not then you need to leave if you are for real and not just say that leave and mean it if you of coarse see agun call the police dont play around because he may not be playin himself
2006-12-05 14:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by slpry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I LOVE GAY people! Second YOU need to ask yourself if you really LOVE HIM. If you do, you need to stop trying to run away. It could be that he really loves you and is afriad to lose you & that is the only way for him to show that he cares.
2006-12-05 15:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by jmorettiknight 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to call the police about this or just stop being gay.
2006-12-05 14:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋