Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

2006-12-05 06:23:56 · 4 answers · asked by Mrs. Bond gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

1. Current house is fine, but more space would be nice.
2. Difference is retiring in 20 years, instead of 17 years.

2006-12-05 06:23:46 · 7 answers · asked by splatz 2 in Family

My wife and I have been married for About 8 years. Now we are going through some serious trouble. I think she is cheating on me, the problem is that I think she is being tricked into this. we were having some troubles and I think during this time some one relized this and took advantage of the situation. The real problem is now that it has stsrted every time i approch her about it she gets defensive it starts a fight and the problem gets worse. How do I tell her That I want to understand, Everybody Makes mistakes.. I am loosing My marriage because I cant give my wife what she needs. But how can I give her what she needs While he is envolved.

2006-12-05 06:22:36 · 7 answers · asked by lostandconfused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

..do you feel pressure to get into the "spirit"..especially when your away from your family and kids?

2006-12-05 06:22:26 · 17 answers · asked by Dana 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I will teach them that if they feel like hitting a man they will be hit back, if they don't want to be hit, then they should not hit. Simple as that. A man will only hit a girl if she hits him first, and a man should never hit a girl first. My daughters will know this.

2006-12-05 06:22:24 · 23 answers · asked by Alpha Male 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When you get married, your husbands father is now your father in law. How does your dad now refer to your husbands father?
Father in law removed? Brother in law?

2006-12-05 06:19:44 · 9 answers · asked by electricstapler 2 in Weddings

hey whats up? i really need some help here! at this church that i go to, there is this guy that i like! his name is mark. we flirt all the time! u know, just like friends. but over the last month, i have started to fall for him! im friends with his little brother, who is my age. and if i ask him out, and he rejects me, or if things dont work out between us, i could lose his friendship and his brother's!! i really like mark, and at times i get the feeling that he likes me! but i dont know how to tell! also, i cant figure out how to tell him that i have feelings for him! does anyone have any ideas?? tomorrow (12-06-06) we are going caroling with church and decorating trees around our town, and mark and i have been paired up to decorate a christmas tree. i was excited when i found this out!! but i dont know how to talk to him! how can i tell him i like him, and hope that even if he doesnt like me that i still wanna be friends????? please people! i need some major advice here!!

2006-12-05 06:18:23 · 22 answers · asked by Christina G ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 06:18:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In a relationship or a very low amount but their is love/friendship can it work?

2006-12-05 06:17:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met someone a couple weeks ago & we hit it off but he didnt ask for my number, but he facebooked (haha) me the next day & we made small talk. A couple days after he asked me if I wanted to get together that evening, I couldn't but I suggested we get together next Friday. That Friday we hang out together w/ some friends & it didnt go very well, he was flirting w/ my friends in front of me & I felt like I was being ignored so I left. He called me a few times that night though & asked me to come back, which I didn't. 2 days later I text him looking for an item I left at his house. I had to make an effort to even call it a conversation. He said he was in a movie so I stopped trying to talk, but he didnt bother calling me after to tell me if he had it. I decided that he just wasn't that into me. I was all set until this morning when he texts me & the shoe is on the other foot. He is asking questions etc. Now I don't know what to do? I think I may really like this guy but he is confusing.

2006-12-05 06:17:29 · 11 answers · asked by Bee 2 in Singles & Dating

seduction is a very powerful thing...its one thing to be aware that you can seduce or be seduced...by someone or something even...but how often are you aware of how strong the power of seduction is???...have you ever used your powers of seduction for good...or evil???lol...what or who makes you feel the power of seduction ?...

i dont just mean sexually here...seduction is used in many areas of life...;0)

2006-12-05 06:17:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Oh, this is kind of a long story, but I'm desperate for help, so here I go.

My fiancee and I have been together for almost two years, and we have been living together for one year. He has hurt me before, lying to me about what he was doing on the internet, looking at porn, but he has never actually cheated on me (he swears on his life). So anyway, he was working at a pretty much dead end job while I'm trying to finish my degree. He caught a break and recently got a new job, which pays a lot more and he gets a cubicle with a computer and everything.

Since he has hurt me so many times before, I sometimes ask him what he's doing at work, if there's anything he's hiding from me. He always said no. I would check his history at work, I never found anything suspicious. Well, today, I went a step further. I went to pick him up for lunch, and I asked him if I could look at his Cookies folder (which shows websites visited even if they are deleted from history). He said, "Why, let's go?" I ignored him and checked it anyway as he walked away from the computer. Well, of course I found out that he had been lying to my face for at least the past 2 months.

We get home, and during the hour he was on his lunch break, I packed my clothes and he had a huge fight and I told him that I was leaving him. I threw my engagement ring at him, and it was all I could do not to physically hurt him. He broke down crying, on his knees and everything, saying that he would die if I left him.

The biggest point in all of this is the fact that he was lying to my face. It's bad enough that he has the nerve to do this, and tell me he loves me. He knew I had self-esteem problems and this is supposed to make me feel better about myself? Anyway, this whole event follows a month after the fact that we had a huge fight and I told him I would leave him when I was done with my finals (this week), if he didn't straighten up. He SWORE he would, and then I find out he was doing all this behind my back.

I asked him why he did it. Was I not good enough for him, what was he unhappy with? He says I DON'T KNOW, I WAS BORED. Then he has the nerve to say that maybe he has a problem. Well I am a firm believer in the fact that everyone makes their own choices, that there are not "addictions" when it comes to things like this. I think he was just saying it, anyway.

So, here I stand. He got down on his knees and begged me not to leave. I told him that I had to go, he was only going to let me down again. He said he would kill himself before he hurt me again. I have given him ONE MORE CHANCE so many times. I just don't know if this should be the last chance I give him.

2006-12-05 06:17:11 · 11 answers · asked by jtimberlake240 2 in Singles & Dating

for instance i want the same things he does but i ask in a different way.......for me to even talk about sex let alone to post it on the internet is unlady-like........what can i do to give him what he wants with out feeling like im sacrificing my beliefs?

2006-12-05 06:16:46 · 14 answers · asked by YourBaby3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 06:16:11 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs. Bond gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

k, i kno this girl frm more thn 2 years, we r good friends, we work together, smetimes we go out as well, but she told me few days ago tht she is getting married, after tht day i got a strange kind of feeling abt her, i just wanna see her all da times, m feeling sad without her, shall i tell her tht i like her or not???

2006-12-05 06:16:11 · 6 answers · asked by p 1 in Singles & Dating

aways away from one another in different states and you have been together for 4 years and you love him very much and wanted nothing more than to be with him and have expressed that and have stated that you are willing to move to be with him but there has never really been a date set, what would you make of that?

2006-12-05 06:16:09 · 4 answers · asked by Mariachi 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together a long time and we always talked about starting a family together. he is graduating college this month and has a job waiting for him which pays a lot. i on the other hand am still in school for another 2 semesters.we currently live together a few days a week and a the other days i am at home with my parents. ( this arrangement was made because my parents wouldnt let me move out until i was married) anyways, my boyfriend is saying that he wants to propose to me really soon just so we can move in together sooner. i would love that, but i dont feel that its fair to me that the only reason i am getting a proposal is so i can move in with him full time. i want something special and meaningful, not just something that he "has"to do so we can live together. would i be wrong to tell him not to propose to me until he actually wants to marry me and not just live with me.am i wrong? and i wont move in with him until i am at least engaged due to family issues

2006-12-05 06:15:50 · 18 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

2006-12-05 06:15:39 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.jimhjelmoccasions.com/dress_db_occ/display_dress.php?imageno=5664&multimatch=x

My wedding is in May (at night) and I want a neutral color dress and then add in my bright bold colors through my flowers. My concern is whether this dress will look good on my D-cup bridesmaids. They aren't big, but their boobs are big. Please let me know what you think.

2006-12-05 06:14:42 · 20 answers · asked by southerngirl 2 in Weddings

2006-12-05 06:14:04 · 19 answers · asked by babi natalie 1 in Singles & Dating

Any ideas on how to get my wife to wear more daring and sexy clothes

2006-12-05 06:13:48 · 18 answers · asked by chris 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can You tell me what finger if for wedding ring and engagement ring worn in males . Are they any other specific fingers for specific rings

2006-12-05 06:13:09 · 8 answers · asked by Dave K 2 in Weddings

hey whats up? i really need some help here! at this church that i go to, there is this guy that i like! his name is mark. we flirt all the time! u know, just like friends. but over the last month, i have started to fall for him! im friends with his little brother, who is my age. and if i ask him out, and he rejects me, or if things dont work out between us, i could lose his friendship and his brother's!! i really like mark, and at times i get the feeling that he likes me! but i dont know how to tell! also, i cant figure out how to tell him that i have feelings for him! does anyone have any ideas?? tomorrow (12-06-06) we are going caroling with church and decorating trees around our town, and mark and i have been paired up to decorate a christmas tree. i was excited when i found this out!! but i dont know how to talk to him! how can i tell him i like him, and hope that even if he doesnt like me that i still wanna be friends????? please people! i need some major advice here!!

2006-12-05 06:13:06 · 5 answers · asked by Christina G ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

i fall in love and my girl friend feel the same way for me. but she broke up with beacuse she thinks that im not the one she can spend her life with. if she has feelings for me how come im not the one.

2006-12-05 06:12:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a guy in class I want to ask out, but all I know is his e-mail. Also, I can't sit with him because he comes late to class and he sits at different locations in the classroom. Is there any other way I can contact him?

2006-12-05 06:12:33 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

of*, thinking of Pardonne Moi, Karen, DoubleD, Jennifer and Diamond and sp**ged in my eye, it burns, how can I get them to stop burning?

2006-12-05 06:11:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who wants to be my weight loss buddy???
i need some help !!
maybe some motivation i only need to loose like 8 pounds by christmas i want to feel better about my self i weight 125 pounds. and i am about to turn 18.
i need someone who wants to loose weight too so we can keep eachother motivated!!
any body ???


can i get your e-mail if you are intrested?

2006-12-05 06:11:02 · 30 answers · asked by *********** 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

am in love with a girl by name pinky but am not abl to propose her since many dayz. when ever i move closer to propose her i get scared and just take back my desicion. i love her a lot. may i know on which day its better to propose her and how shall i convence her abt my love.

2006-12-05 06:11:01 · 9 answers · asked by bkj 1 in Singles & Dating

i have these 2 friends named michelle and norma.. we hang out and we're cool wen we're all together. but ever since i lost my cell-phone they cut school and leave me at school all alone. i have other good friends but they're mostly the 1's i kick it with. and they leave with the guy i like and get drunk and high. i heard they might of kissed him. (they both know i like him)... are they really my friends??

2006-12-05 06:10:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We can't afford the cost of travel right now. Also, my husband started his new job this week! We will be going without a paycheck for a month as it is. This is not the kind of family that floats a loan. We don't want to hurt any one! We feel so sad but are in a bind.

2006-12-05 06:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by doodlerah 2 in Family