is it normal for a woman to be sexually shy with her husband if he in fact is MORE EXPERICENED than she is?

Question

for instance i want the same things he does but i ask in a different way.......for me to even talk about sex let alone to post it on the internet is unlady-like........what can i do to give him what he wants with out feeling like im sacrificing my beliefs?

Answer 1

Sit down and discuss it with him. I think it's more unlady like not to express how you feel and allow him to understand your feelings. In the same conversation, though, allow him to express what he desires. Then you and he can come up with a mutual decision.

Answer 2

sex with your husband is not a bad thing! u should definetely feel comfortable enough having a conversation with him and telling him what u want and need sexually. he will never know unless u tell him and also u will never know what he wants unless he can tell u. not everyone has the same ideas about sex and what that consists of. the most important thing is to have an open mind and do not make the other person feel embarrased or rejected when they ask for something that u may not be experienced doing. just because it may not be something that u would usually do or have ever done does not make it weird or wrong. in marriage there should not be many limitations sexually u should be open to try new things and decide together if u like them or hate them. this may not be what u want to hear but in some cases what u are not willing to do sexually for your man someone else will! give him what he wants and in return make sure u get what u want and need just dont be to scared to talk about it.

Answer 3

What is he asking you to do that would sacrifice what you believe in? Sex between a married couple can be the most expressive way of showing love. It is normal for women to be shy, but as time goes on, you will learn to put your inhibitions on the shelf and become the wh**e that every man wants in the bedroom. You shower, get dressed, and come out of the bedroom looking and smelling like a "lady"

Answer 4

Aa long as two adults agree on something sexually than there is nothing wrong with doing it!!! If you are uncomfortable doing something then don't do it!!! I really don't know any beleif that even remotely suggest that a husband and wife should not have and ENJOY sex with each other. Let your inhabitions go, have fun and enjoy.

Answer 5

What beliefs? He's your husband, there are no sexual taboos there (or shouldn't be). You're simply shy about discussing it...if you feel you are breaking your own moral code, then you need to re-evaluate that code.

Communication is a key element in any successful relationship, and that includes a sexual one. It's okay not to desire to post about sex on the 'net (where millions can see it) but rather odd not to be able to share your most intimate sexual fantasies and desires with the person you are having sex with.

Answer 6

You dont have to sacrifice your morals, if you want it too, there should be no questions. Sex between two people, is just that. Between them, and if both agree, i say anything goes within reason. dont use the internet, just talk to each other.

Answer 7

how r u sacrificing ur beliefs when u want the same thing as he does....i really dont have an answer because im not real sure what the question is.

Answer 8

Give him only what you are comfortable giving. With time, you may find yourself more relaxed because you have developed deep trust.

Answer 9

Shyness is not a belief.
If your husband is a typical guy he would welcome a little less lady and a lot more tramp behind your bedroom door.

Answer 10

It's not normal, you should be open about those things with him. I'm sure he would like you to be.