In a relationship or a very low amount but their is love/friendship can it work?
2006-12-05 06:17:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Or will it just slowly and painfully fade?
2006-12-05 06:18:29 · update #1
keep it alive and it wont fade honey :o)
2006-12-05 06:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it can work, as long as both people are on the same page, and are satisfied with the level of the attraction. If both people's sex drive is very low, it will actually work out for the best, since one of them will not have to constantly cater to the sexual needs of the other.
2006-12-05 06:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the saying is....A girls knows from the first 10 minutes she meets a guy if she will have sex with him. So if there is no sexual attraction then I would say no. I mean if I can't see myself wanting to get itimate with him then why would I want waste my time?? Love is a part of sexual attraction. I mean you don't want to date someone your not attractive to do you? Looks at everything but hello you have to admit that looks are what pulls into someone in the beginning.
2006-12-05 06:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there is none, I don't believe it can work out. The love will fade.
There are people who have marriages where there is no real sexual relationship but otherwise they are happy and both just simply do other people. Actually works out for some, but I wouldn't plan on it.
2006-12-05 06:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for the other person, attraction can still develop. When two people care for each other there can be passion that slowly grows. It's not the way things develop many times, but it DOES happen. If you care, give it time.
2006-12-05 06:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the attraction doesn't develop at some point, then no...it won't last indefinitely...some people force themselves to stay well beyond when they should, out of guilt...
If it's not going to work, and you've tried, then the kindest thing for both people is to part...that way each of you are available to meet someone who will be a better match.
2006-12-05 06:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In five years the spouse will be posting miserable questions here about why their partner isn't interested in them, and how the feel hollow and worthless inside.
You're ruining two people's lives getting into that sort of relationship.
2006-12-05 06:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-05 06:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
If your in your twenties then it will just fade away because you cannot have a relationship without sexual attraction. You want to be friends and they want to have sex... It doesn't work out that way.
If your in your teens then it may work out...
2006-12-05 06:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Myke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust fades in any relationship. What lasts is the love and friendship.
2006-12-05 06:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well having a friendly relationship is fine, but eventually youll probably want to have sex. So if your not sexually attracted to him, it may not work. At first you may not be, but his personality may just turn you on and you may change your mind. Good luck
2006-12-05 06:20:59 · answer #11 · answered by courtney b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋