i have these 2 friends named michelle and norma.. we hang out and we're cool wen we're all together. but ever since i lost my cell-phone they cut school and leave me at school all alone. i have other good friends but they're mostly the 1's i kick it with. and they leave with the guy i like and get drunk and high. i heard they might of kissed him. (they both know i like him)... are they really my friends??
2006-12-05 06:10:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You'll hate to hear this, but I think you need a reality check.
You shouldn't be skipping school anyway or hanging out with boys who will get girls drunk and high. How are you going to get a good job to live if you cut short your education like this? What will you do if you end up pregnant by this fine young man who likes to get girls drunk and high?
There are free educations in college using pell grants and things like that, but you need to at least pass your classes, which you won't do if you skip school. And you will find it much easier to accomplish school if you aren't trying to mother a baby from some guy who was interested in you while drunk and high but who knows how interested he will be once he's a father.
Also, drinking too much alcohol can screw up your liver so that it no longer functions properly and give you diabetes among many other problems. I know this because this is what killed my Uncle.
Smoke inhalation last I checked wasn't all that good for you either! You can get lung cancer from smoking marijuana just like from smoking cigarettes. If you want to get cancer, it'd be cheaper to stick your head in a wood stove and breathe deep!
No these people do not sound like good friends to me for the things you mention, but especially in my mind, they are terrible for encouraging you to do things like skip school, possibly mess up your mind and body with drugs. And this young man sounds even worse. He just wants to take advantage of some girl for his own personal gratification -- and then he'll leave them high and dry and pregnant to boot.
You need to take care of yourself girl and stand up for yourself and don't let some boy take advantage of you. You are worth something better than that! Do something good with your life and start right now by studying hard in school and passing all your classes. Go talk to a counselor about what you need to do and don't let anyone tell you that you aren't smart enough or good enough.
Good luck.
2006-12-05 06:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Rubythorne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
real friends don't do stuff that hurt to an any way. if they can;t stay there than you know what type they are...
You should have higher standards for guys that you like!!! If a friend know that you like someone, they should't go right after them...
there is a rule for this that people know--- DON"T DATE YOUR FRIEND"S THING THINGS" being in this case the guy that u like.
2006-12-05 06:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lordes D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to question their friendship...then No...they aren't your friends....why would you want friends stupid enough to get high and drink anyway?? Who cares if they kissed him....just means they are lil ******....... Apparently he doesn't like you anyway.
Time for a different class of friends...ones that are a good influence on you
2006-12-05 06:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These girls are NOT your friends. You can do so much better. Set your sights higher and don't allow them to drag you down to their level. Put them in your rearview mirror and move on!
2006-12-05 06:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another friend more worthy of your friendship!!!
Your so called friends are not true friends, coz if they are they will not leave you, or cheat on your guy!!!
2006-12-05 06:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by lady_blou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u want friends from chennai only cant make all types of friends
2016-05-22 21:41:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no sweetie a friend would never do such a thing.and you should surround yourself with good ppl. there are ppl out there that will do you right.
2006-12-05 06:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by badgirl2thefullest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** them bitches......find some real friends that won't leave u cuz u lost ur cell that's some dumb ****
2006-12-05 06:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by seanpfan18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no! they ditch you b/c you have no cell phone now? that's screwed up. they are so not your friends. i would lose them.
2006-12-05 06:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by mld122979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they're not your friends, so lose them ... permanently.
2006-12-05 06:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋