Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

I am 30 yrs old and a mother of 5 children from the ages of 14 to 5. My kids dont know about my relationship with my so called roommate and I am not sure how to tell them. My older daughter who is 14 and my son who is 11 think that same sex relationships are like so gross and my daughter who is 10 and son who is 9 think that it is ok and that they would love ME no matter what, when asked what there reaction would be if I told them just that...I joke about it all the time with them and then tell them i'm just kidding and we laugh but I would like to be able to tell them...I share a room with my partner but the kids think its because I want them to have there own rooms....My older daughter makes comments as if she knows and i think she does but if I told her that it was true i dont think that she would approve so what should I do?????HELP... I have been with my partner for a little over two years and 3 of my 5 kids have only lived with us for about 1 year due to prior situations.... Help

2006-12-05 05:53:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-05 05:53:01 · 8 answers · asked by DR OLA 1 in Family

so when i was about 13 my mom left me & her other 5 kids 2 be with her boy friend & do drugs + gamble @ casinos all day. we begged her plenty of times to come back & when she wld it wld only last for a couple weeks tops because she was so addicted. i have 3 siblings in foster care and 2 that are amancipated. i was living with my grandparents the last 3 years i am now almost 17 and i have found a famliy who wants me to live with them because my grandpa is an alcaholic and my grandma is always threatning to kick me out. this family i found takes good care of me. anyways the point is my moms boy friend is in jail & she decided to get her life together & i will admit is doing very well. yet, she is very angry with me because i wont give up the family i have now to go live with her @ my grandparents place til she gets her own place & even if she did get her own place how do i know she wont give me up to go do drugs again with her boyfriend?

2006-12-05 05:52:34 · 13 answers · asked by incubusgirl09 1 in Family

I'm 20 and the answer is never never and never, sigh.

Include your age if you want...

2006-12-05 05:52:17 · 9 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

alright I just talked to my boyfriend last night who lives in Idaho-where I used to-and now I live in Arizona I am pregnant with his child but he's being a doosh I love him and when he was supposed to call he was doing things he shouldn't and hanging out with friends I called his cousins phone who was there with him and told her to tell him not to call me when he needs me cause I won't be there for him anymore and I hope he's having fun while I'm pregnant I love him, were so far apart, we've been trying to get him down for christmas break but look how's he is treating me and than I go and call him that same night later on he didn't answer-but not just to me, he never answers his phone to anyone....anyways he told me he would call me that day and didn't he didn't even call me after I talked to his cousin what could I possibly say to snap his *** into shape over the phone? I am too scared being pregnant with his kid not to call him everynight,even like this.

2006-12-05 05:51:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just started this yahoo answers thing. It's a fun way for people to help eachother out with personal issues, or questions they never knew the answer to. Overall, pretty fun! Has anyone met someone here, or on line period? I like meeting people online, gives me an idea of who I would like to meet that has certain things in common with me. Not so much for dating, I like meeting people all together.

Where I live, I do stand out as far as everyone people only into hip hop, smoking weed, street fighting. Yeah, I defenitly don't fit in that crowd, but to each is own!

2006-12-05 05:51:18 · 3 answers · asked by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 05:51:10 · 11 answers · asked by hanna t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a person you know well and regard with affection and trust

ally: an associate who provides assistance

supporter

Individuals in a friendship relationship will seek out each other's company
and exhibit mutually helping behavior.

2006-12-05 05:50:06 · 13 answers · asked by SmartPerson 1 in Friends

Alright, I posted this question before, but my dad is still driving me nuts!! I am not going to re-write everything, but I just need to know again that I am not alone!!! You can look under my Q&As for everything I said.

2006-12-05 05:49:50 · 4 answers · asked by Hockey Girl 4 in Family

What is going through your mind?

2006-12-05 05:49:26 · 12 answers · asked by Win 4 in Singles & Dating

and had been out of a job for a long time and you felt sorry for him though he has never asked for money would you send him some.Would you do it? Would he be offended?

2006-12-05 05:48:44 · 13 answers · asked by beyond paradise 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend is interested in many guys (five at the moment), Last night we went to a party and one of the guys she likes started talking to me... we hit it off right away we had so many things in common jobs, hobbies, food etc. Later on during the night we kissed! Today she called me telling me that I am a bad friend because I knew she liked him & why would I do that? Is it wrong what happened? I know the girls code but does it apply here?

2006-12-05 05:48:04 · 6 answers · asked by maybeline 1 in Singles & Dating

Not including porn/toys or another woman or man...please just something between two people..so it isn't always the same?

2006-12-05 05:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by daisy 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband treats me like I am just a maid. I work two jobs, take care of a four month old, pump breast milk every 6 hours (usually takes an hour), care for our two yellow labs, do laundry, cook, clean, take care of the bills/family finances, etc. However, yesterday, as I was walking out the door at 4:30 to my second job, my husband started to complain to me that I had not cleaned the house yet (I worked both jobs yesterday, AM and PM). All I had done was ask him if he could put a fresh sheet on the bed. I don't get any days off, between both jobs, I work seven days a week (most days I work both jobs) and I'm going insane. He works too, but he gets weekends off and as I work each weekend, he watched television and naps (he lets the baby sit in her swing the whole time I'm gone). I don't mind that I have to work two jobs to keep the family going, but come on, we can't share the household duties? I work too. He's hardley affectinate to me; Why does he treat me like I am just a maid?

2006-12-05 05:46:39 · 21 answers · asked by Peanut Butter 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 05:46:03 · 13 answers · asked by lil' mama 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 05:44:54 · 33 answers · asked by eviljane2004 1 in Weddings

how should i act around my guy. just found out that he has a 15 month old baby. i mean, i love babies and all.....but should i want to meet the baby or just wait until he asks me if i want to meet him. should i ask questions about the baby? i dont know if i should get to involved becuase of the babies mother.....i dont want to make her mad. i've never dated anyone with a baby before and i dont think i really mind. should i just go with the flow?? and see what happens next?

2006-12-05 05:44:50 · 11 answers · asked by bombshell brunette 2 in Singles & Dating

I am askin this question because.....I was with a guy for about 8 1/2 months. We broke up because of alot of different things but neither one of us ever cheated on each other. After being apart for about 5 months and still talking on the phone alot he comes back around and asks me to go back with him. I say yes and now i havent heard from him in a day. I know your reading this and saying a day thats not a long time. But i am scared that i may have done the wrong thing. So can someone please give me some good advice????????????

2006-12-05 05:43:29 · 14 answers · asked by Vanessa O 1 in Singles & Dating

k, i'm 15, just got a 16 year old boy friend, i hardly knew him before we met at a gig and got dancing
a week later he asked me out
after 5 days it started to get serious, by which i mean everything but penetrative sex
is this normal for other couples?
i've talked to him about me feeling slightly used, he was really sweet about it, but nothing really changed
argh
i dont really feel used, just a bit confused as...actually i have no idea, he's my first boy friend and my heads all abit mixed up at the moment

so, my question is, how long did it take u to get serious with your partner? and how old are u?

2006-12-05 05:42:28 · 31 answers · asked by queenie 2 in Singles & Dating

he is always arguying that he dont want me hanging out with my guy friends.. he just has an anger management problem and he has a therapist and all bt i dont know wat to to hes worser everyday.. what can i do to show him that his the only one, and that he can trust me? guys plz help me out i really want to make my relationship work.

2006-12-05 05:41:57 · 10 answers · asked by dA bEauTiFul 1! 1 in Singles & Dating

Their things of fat hanging off the body, where's the appeal?

2006-12-05 05:41:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I really am crazy about this guy, and he doesn't live here :( But we talk a lot online and we get a long REALLY well, and we are very close. He's coming back home just for the holidays, and he'd be here for a month and a little more. He hasn't seen me in a year so I don't know if he'd be attracted to me.. Do you think I should do something like as him out when he's here or should I wait, and if he doesn't ask me out it means he's not interested? We've discussed that we are gonna be hanging out, but we always talk about group things, no one-on-one dates.

2006-12-05 05:41:35 · 7 answers · asked by Shoegal 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating him for 3 months

2006-12-05 05:39:57 · 15 answers · asked by dancegurl 2 in Singles & Dating

I got to know this fine young lady but I discovered that she was a freak. She loved flirting with men, wearing trampy clothes, and taking naked photographs of herself. She even gave a picture to a co-worker who she was not even screwing.

I got a chance to know her and she has been awesome. I was involved in a accident and she has been there through it all. I really like her but she is a freak. Should I dump her or keep her on the team? I have always been caution of a FREAK!

2006-12-05 05:39:55 · 14 answers · asked by Fundough 2 in Singles & Dating

what should i do i want to talk to him but he acts like he is scared to be with me!!!!

2006-12-05 05:39:08 · 12 answers · asked by lil' mama 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and his brother are best friends. I am best friends with his wife. Our kids are the same age, we hang out nearly every weekend.

I recently found out that my brother-in-law is sleeping with his neighbor. He leaves the front door open while my sister-in-law is at work. There is no doubt about the truth. When I confronted him, he said it was none of my damn business. I also found out that this is AT LEAST the third affair he's had.

He has begged my husband to keep me from telling my sister-in-law because he will lose his family. We have a very large extended family, and we're all very close. There will be great pain for a lot of people if I tell her. My husband's brother may very well never speak to him again. Yet I am going crazy with guilt and anger.

Should I tell? Should I give him the chance to tell her first? (I think he's already had his chance)? How should I tell her?

2006-12-05 05:38:56 · 36 answers · asked by Jill414 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Be honest

2006-12-05 05:38:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so here is the problem. I have been in a very serious relationship with a woman I can proudly say that I love. We have been together for a couple of years and things are strong and great, however I met this girl who I can't seem to get out of my head. I mean all I do is think about her constantly and what it would be like to date her. Not only that, but I have been spending alot of time with her, and I believe that she feels the same. I am man with morals who believes in doing the right thing, however I dont know what to do when it comes to this. I believe highly in fidelity in relationships and do not want to cheat, but I also dont want to think about the what if's all day long. Please weigh in on this

2006-12-05 05:37:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So My girlfriend dose this more than I think she relizes. She always asks me if I think that such and such is attractive, and I say yeah sure I think she is attractive. Then she asks me if I think that such and such is prettier than her. Now that puts me in a bind. What do i say? If I say NO your way hotter than her she would think I'm just saying that, b/c I have to. and if I say yeah well, No way thats a huge no no and I know that... But why, Why girl girls have to ask that and put guys ina position.

2006-12-05 05:37:55 · 22 answers · asked by jondavidryan 1 in Singles & Dating

i was 13 and i was wondering if it was normal.. or if i was a sl*t.. lol

2006-12-05 05:37:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating