he is always arguying that he dont want me hanging out with my guy friends.. he just has an anger management problem and he has a therapist and all bt i dont know wat to to hes worser everyday.. what can i do to show him that his the only one, and that he can trust me? guys plz help me out i really want to make my relationship work.
2006-12-05 05:41:57 · 10 answers · asked by dA bEauTiFul 1! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How come everyone always justifies their abusive boyfriend's actions by saying they love them? Dump him and get a real man!
2006-12-05 05:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Geoff S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is very importmant in a relationship. If he has a hard time trusting you now it will never work. You can try inviting him along with you and you guy friends so he can so the fun you have together. don't give him a reason to think you are hiding anything. Being open is also very important. If you and he can't trust each other and you can't be open you need to move on. That is not love it is just a crush. When you find a trusting and open guy you will understand.
2006-12-05 05:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both need to make sure you have the same feelings. He's your only one and You trust him. so he is only tripping because he is not sure himself how he feels. ask him if he really loves you and wants to be with you, and if he says he will do anything for you then thats whe you say TRUST ME, but then prove it. dont party or hang out with SO many guy friends, and show him that you both can have fun and trust eachother at the same time.
2006-12-05 05:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Chicana_Eyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man gets jealous too n hes a blood.but instead of gettin mad at mell end up threaten or doin somethin to da guy he get jealous of .at the end me n him is cool. he get this bad temper n just idont no.he has an angermanagment problem too but its aight.our fights usually turn into us sayin sorry to each other.i luv him 2.but as someone on yahoo told me-its in there blood n men will get jealous. just show him how much u love hom but if he lays a hand on u ,punch dat **** dead n da n leave him
2006-12-05 05:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by kyrah aka babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its not you at all maybe he is really insecure about himself and is afraid that you will leave him for whatever handsome guy comes in front of you. Don't get so stressed out it happens to a lot of girls. Maybe you need to let him know how much you love him.
Best of Luck.
2006-12-05 05:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by hanna t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is also insecure. If he is abusive, leave. It will take him years to sort out his stuff. Otherwise, explain to him that it is him that you love and that he has nothing to worry about. Are you affectionate to him when your guy friends are around or do you shy away from him? Appearances are all the world to an insecure guy.
2006-12-05 05:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by lbuajlw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything, you're not that powerful. His therapist and he are the only ones who can work this out. You should end it until he grows up and learns to handle his problems. Staying with him isn't helping him.
2006-12-05 05:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there is no trust in the relationship. there is not a relationship babe, let him go.
2006-12-05 05:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you love him but it is time to move on.
2006-12-05 05:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he really loves you.
Yes - say that then he should trust you.
No - well then leave him.
2006-12-05 05:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by Bazsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋