I am askin this question because.....I was with a guy for about 8 1/2 months. We broke up because of alot of different things but neither one of us ever cheated on each other. After being apart for about 5 months and still talking on the phone alot he comes back around and asks me to go back with him. I say yes and now i havent heard from him in a day. I know your reading this and saying a day thats not a long time. But i am scared that i may have done the wrong thing. So can someone please give me some good advice????????????
2006-12-05 05:43:29 · 14 answers · asked by Vanessa O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once agian, I am in this situation. Same exact one down to I haven't talked to him in a week. In my situation, he works alot, he has diabetes, lives in a different time zone, and he is doing just about everything he can to get his life together. He is wanting to buy a house so I can move in with him. I call him once a day when I know he is off work. If he doesn't answer, I know that he is busy and I leave my Yahoo Messenger logged on so if he gets on the computer, he will know that I am on. If he wants to talk, we do, if he doesn't, I know that he has had a hard day.
I guess what I am trying to say is, I trust him.
2006-12-05 05:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by passionate_play270 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW DO YOU KNOW? he has not cheated
we can only assume
but all i know is that love feels like you do and if you want to hear from every day then he should want the same I feel how can you go a day without talking to me.... rember married men even cheat and so do woman if you broke up the first time there was a reason and trust me there will be a reason again.
2006-12-05 13:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by slpry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it another try, but keep in mind that maybe its just the "habit of being together" and not really that he is willing to work at the relationship. Make sure you both communicate with each other your real reasons for getting back together and work at some of the weak areas of the previous time together, otherwise your only going to be repeating the past, which would be a waste of both your time...
2006-12-05 13:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by lee_dumont2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh. Well, it depends on those little issues in the time you were dating. if it was a bunch of little things about each other that you couldn't get over... well, I don't think it would be wise to get back with him. If you arte honestly going to make an effort to work out whatever problems between you, It might be worth a shot.
2006-12-05 13:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by Tyiako. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say don't do anything right now. Just you and your mouth still and wait a day longer. Then when he calls you back, tell him your worry. If he doesn't call you back eventually call him. I hope this helps you in such a common typical relationship puzzle.
2006-12-05 13:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is what you broke-up over to begin with done and gone? Is it still hanging around, and if so can you deal with it now?
There is a reason you are ex's. You couldn't put up with each other's crap then, what's changed?
2006-12-05 13:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
second parts are never good.... i tell you that from experience, people don't usually change and if they do is for the worst. You need to know that if you are going back you gotta be patient
2006-12-05 13:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by Wild_Lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it too much hun.
He will come around so be patient. If he doesn't show up in a week then worry =)
2006-12-05 13:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by xnarx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is an EX leave him there look for something or someone you haven't tried out! explore those options!
if it didn't work out the first time why would it work the 2nd time?
2006-12-05 13:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey ...there's still plenty of fish in the sea
2006-12-05 13:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Fallen_ AngeL♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋