Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

I am going through the roughest time of my life. I am in a relationship that is strained due to the fact that me and her are of different races (I'm Persian, she is Armenian). Her parents don't approve that I'm of a different race and they keep harrassing her about it. We are both 24 year old university students. I already suffer from depression. I've asked her to marry me and she has said yes, but the parents don't know yet. They don't even want to hear of me only because I'm not Armenian. The uncertainty of this relationship as well as other family problems has taken a toll on me to the point that my progress at the university has droped. I am being dismissed from school unti the fall of 2007. I am going to tell her, but I worry that she will leave me because I'm being dismissed. I'm probably worrying over nothing again, but what is your input on this? Would you drop someone you love if they were in my position.

2006-12-05 06:49:05 · 4 answers · asked by TheT 2 in Singles & Dating

What should someone do if they are dating someone who wants to sleep with them, but the are saving their selves for marrage?

2006-12-05 06:48:56 · 38 answers · asked by Lordes D 3 in Singles & Dating

We were together for 2 years 3 1/2 years ago.

He wants me back....

We are still friends we hang out and stuff but I am not sure about giving the relationship another go...

Whats your opinion on getting back together with an ex?

2006-12-05 06:48:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 06:47:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are planning a Gatlinburg Wedding. I would just like to know if anyone has gotten married there and what chapel they went to and if they liked it or not. Please give me your comments.

2006-12-05 06:47:35 · 5 answers · asked by FarmGirl 2 in Weddings

Okay, so here goes. My boyfriend was with his previous serious gf for six months. They met in Iraq (they are both in the National Guard). So when they came home, she moved in with him for a week, before going back home to get the rest of her stuff, she lives in Wyoming and he lives in Florida. While there, she hooks up with her ex and becomes pregnant by him. They have been broken up for nearly a year now, and i found a conversation they had had on Yahoo messenger about how he missed her. Well, we managed to get over that, and I had added her to his ignore list on his messenger so i would know for sure they were not still talking. Today i found out that he removed her. He swore he would never talk to her, but why would he remove her from ignore, especially since he didn't even know i put her there to begin with...my ? is should i really be mad about it? He is with me now and she does live forever away and she is having another man's baby. Should i confront him about the removal or not

2006-12-05 06:47:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is married to my fiance's brother and is always over at the parents house. I wouldn't care about that so much but when we are both there she interupts constanlty and has been really rude to my daughter. On top of that she recently had a baby and always has his parents watching her (they both work) while her mother is closer and stays at home. Am I being too sensitive or should I just ignore the way she acts? Help! She's driving me nuts!!!

2006-12-05 06:46:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to attract a man, but I don't want my flirtations to be too forward. I am not sure how he feels about me, sometimes I get the vibe that he is interested. What things can I say, email, or do so that he gets my drift without me being too forward ?
And yes, he is married and so am I. I am not looking for judgements here, not to be rude, but you don't have to answer and tell me what I am doing is wrong. I am looking for people who maybe have had an experience and can provide me with some hints.

2006-12-05 06:46:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What's most likely to get you into bed: a perfect body with an average face or a handsome face with a good personality?

2006-12-05 06:46:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Girlfiriend is comming 17 and we have been going out for 7 weeks, should i say something romantic, or keep it safe by going with humour?

2006-12-05 06:45:37 · 8 answers · asked by Cap10kirk 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex broke up like a month ago. She broke up with me. Then she tried to get back and i didnt want to. She still insisted and i finally gave up 3 days ago. So were back. One problem tho. She did all she could to get back right after and bought me gifts but when i txt or call her now she doesnt answer right away. She calls back like 5 mins later and shes always secretive i guess. I told her yesterday and she got mad. Any suggestions.

2006-12-05 06:45:22 · 8 answers · asked by cuzzo 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been off and on for about a year. I'm not sure what I should get him. Right now we are off but I would still like to get him a gift. I just don't know what would be a good gift but not to pricey.

2006-12-05 06:44:03 · 13 answers · asked by JEN33 2 in Singles & Dating

CHRISTMAS CAROLS FOR THE DISTURBED

* 1. Schizophrenia -- Do You Hear What I Hear?

* 2. Multiple Personality Disorder --- We Three Kings Disoriented Are

* 3. Dementia --- I Think I'll be Home for Christmas

* 4. Narcissistic --- Hark the Herald Angels Sing About Me

* 5. Manic -- Deck the Halls and Walls and House and Lawn and Streets and
Stores and Office and Town and Cars and Buses and Trucks and Trees and.....

* 6. Paranoid --- Santa Claus is Coming to Town to Get Me

* 7. Borderline Personality Disorder --- Thoughts of Roasting on an Open
Fire

* 8. Personality Disorder --- You Better Watch Out, I'm Gonna Cry, I'm Gonna
Pout, Maybe I'll Tell You Why

* 9. Attention Deficit Disorder --- Silent night, Holy oooh look at the
Froggy - can I have a chocolate, why is Franc e so far away?

* 10. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder --- Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle
Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells,
Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells,
JingleBells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle
Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells,

2006-12-05 06:43:59 · 9 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

There have been a few times I've said something to my bf about him watching porn and looking at pics online; it makes me feel like crap. I've gained quite a bit of weight that I feel down about as it is but I'm pregnant so I deal with it in knowing I can lose the weight after our son is born. Anyway I obsessively check the pc to see what he looks at when I'm in bed and he's not or when I have to run out and he's home alone. I end up freaking out, feeling less attractive that he has too look at other women and he hardly touches me anymore, maybe we make love once every 2 weeks or more. I told him it makes me feel terrible but he assures me its just a natural guy thing and it has nothing to do with how he feels for me but it still makes me sick to my stomach when I see he's still looking. Should I just get rid of the pc? How do I deal with this without being hysterical? Please someone help me with this!!

2006-12-05 06:43:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay...two of my good friends both got engaged...and picked the same day for their weddings! like i said, both are my good friends. however, one is probably my better friend now, and the other, b/c he moved cities, i don't talk to as much. neither have sent out invitations yet, just let me know verbally. what do i do? i hate to choose, but i can't go to both...! help!

2006-12-05 06:43:35 · 19 answers · asked by farmergirl9 3 in Weddings

I am recently divorced and was previously engaged once before, a long time ago. So now I have two engagement rings, and I don't know what to do with them. I could sell them, only to suffer a large monetary loss on them.

Are women wearing the rings on another finger? Converting them into other pieces of jewelry? Or simply letting them sit in a drawer?

Just curious. . .they're beautiful and it's a shame I can't wear them any longer. They're just sitting around the house now.

2006-12-05 06:43:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

which guy would you choose?
guy A, average street guy, middle class up bringing, in an average paid job,quite clean, rented apartment, great sense of humor.

guy B, below average, rather scruffy, not well educated, bit of a street thug,into gangs,low paid job such as collecting shopping trolleys for war mart,never have enough money,lives in a ghetto suburb

guy C, above average, well educated,wealthy, great job,nice car but allway loves to talk business,own house, and very clean.

2006-12-05 06:43:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in general.. i am not asking personally, i am just curious..

but what if you are in a relationship and got pregnant, do you think having the baby would bring you and the other person together, or do you think it will rip them apart??

2006-12-05 06:43:08 · 9 answers · asked by erika c 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

THey don't call when their supposed to!

2006-12-05 06:42:45 · 39 answers · asked by amandalicious07 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 06:42:36 · 15 answers · asked by Johnny 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

both are working professionals and have bought furniture and not into cooking

2006-12-05 06:41:51 · 20 answers · asked by citygal 1 in Weddings

2006-12-05 06:41:41 · 5 answers · asked by James E 1 in Singles & Dating

My family doctor has been acting inappropriate. He flirts with me, says sexual innuendos, touches me etc., I notice that somtimes he does flirt and other times is not so flirty. He is 39 years old, married and very handsome. And I sometimes notice I do flirt back as maybe I like his attention - I don't know. My instincts say he is flirting and waiting for me to make the first move - testing the waters. What should I do???? I am married to and love my husband dearly although this man can get under my skin and I seem to get caught up in the moment with him.

2006-12-05 06:41:25 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-05 06:40:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 06:40:50 · 11 answers · asked by gurlbabymila 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 06:40:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend is stressed an iv done nothing wrong but she keeps takin her moods out on me how can i make her happy an stop her takin her moods out on me

2006-12-05 06:39:17 · 24 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife keeps yelling his name out when we're in bed. And she has been denying me my sex? Is he s c r e w ing her?

2006-12-05 06:39:14 · 7 answers · asked by No Name Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

brought up my mother. I am adopted and I actually knew my mother and loved her very much. She used it against me in an argument. I told her in a note how I felt. Now I'm upset and really want to cry!

2006-12-05 06:38:15 · 7 answers · asked by Bex 2 in Friends

alpha male, good looking, good provider, takes care of himself and his loved ones, but almost always ends up being an a**hole.
Blah dude, not-so-good looking, caring, sweet, but almoys always ends up as a pain in the a**?
Safer bet?

2006-12-05 06:37:58 · 14 answers · asked by dianabarff 3 in Marriage & Divorce