how can i cheer my girlfriend up an keep her happy?

Question

my girlfriend is stressed an iv done nothing wrong but she keeps takin her moods out on me how can i make her happy an stop her takin her moods out on me

Answer 1

Go out with a dude, it's the only way to escape this stuff.........
Sorry.

Answer 2

Unfortunately people always take their moods out on those closest to them - human nature!
Just let her know that you are there for her, ask her if there is anything you can do to help, give her a big cuddle and then give her a bit of space if she needs it.
Are you sure she's not just pre-menstrual, women can be difficult to please at this time but it only lasts a few days so ride the waves and see how it goes.
If she is still the same this time next week she is either having problems in her own life or she is unhappy in her relationship with you. This will be the time to sit down and have a lengthy chat.
Until then don't stress about it - us woman can be contrary creatures! Good luck x

Answer 3

you might be her outlet. if she's gettin pissed because of a bunch of other situations, but can't take it out on anyone or anywhere, you may be her release valve. One thing you can try is paying very close attention to her moods, and then when you see that she's pissed, try and talk to her and tell her that you know something is wrong, and you want to do whatever you can to help her feel better.
this will do a few things:
It'll show her that you're interested in her and her feelings
It'll make her realize that she's pissed and that she may be preparing to take it out on you.
you'll beat her to the punch - you address her anger before she takes it out on you
it'll force her to at least think about why she's mad, and sometimes, if a person is mad over something silly, realizing it is enough to calm them down.

Another thing, whenever she gets mad and flips on you. Don't say ANYTHING to her until she calms down. This is a whole lot easier said than done, but after a while, she'll see that flipping on you doesn't do anything but get her the silent treatment

Answer 4

You are not responsible for anyone else's happiness, period. You can do your part to ensure you are not adding to her stress, and to make your time together "happy". This includes not adding extra work to her life (i.e: if you go to her place or live together, don't make messes for her to clean up), not taking up all of her time (sometimes when people get really stressed they just need chill time to themselves), and not getting yourself all stressed out over what your part in her unhappiness is. If you do have a part in it, stressing about it is probably going to make it worse. If you don't, well, acting stressed about it and being insecure will make it worse as well. Just be supportive, caring, and available, but DO NOT try to be there every second of every day constantly asking what you can do to make it better. While the intentions are quite noble, the result is often annnoying. (sorry, you really are just trying to do the right thing, that's obvious, but stress does funny things to people's perception of that).
If she is blowing up at you constantly, removing yourself from the situation for a few days may help her to put things into perspective. You are probably not the cause of the problem, and when you aren't there to attach to it, she'll realize this. So, give her space and help only when asked; otherwise just treat her well and try to make the time you share stress free and happy.

Answer 5

hey bro that is easy, aske your girl out to a nice but not to expensive resturant for dinner, buy her a nice dress and shoe, get her some chocolate and some roses and a nice perfume, dont let her know which resturant you are going, at the table let her order what so ever she wants but make sure you order the wine say little at the table let her do the talking but if she refuse to say anything even better, after the dinner take her up by her hands and lead her out side then hold her close to you, take a nice strole and come to a nice comfortable spot then you holdher looking into her eyes then you ask whats on her mind and what have you done to her do the asking in a nice romantic way ok bro.

Answer 6

How longs this been going on? Give her some space, try and talk to her about her problems, offer support and all that. If that does not help and she is just goes on, she is taking the p.i.s.s and needs to be told to stop treating you like s.h.i.t. If you dont, guess what - it will continue.
We all get in bad moods and stressed at times and yes, we do have a go at our partners for no reason but should only be on the odd occasation
If she cant respect you and talk to you like adult, kick her to curb, she need a shock to grow up!

Answer 7

Well ok if your girlfriend is a cheerfull person most of the time then all you have to do is be there for her and let here know that you still care. If however your girlfriends is hard to keep happy and cheerful then there is really nothing you can do. Don't give up tho keep trying. This is just my opinion

Answer 8

Hmmm... first of all, you are NOT responsible for other people's emotions... they choose how they are going to act. So your girlfriend taking her stress out on you is HER problem... not yours. You cannot MAKE people do anything they do not want to do... so if she is unhappy, you cannot MAKE her happy. With that being said, the first thing I would tell you would be DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY. Then tell her...maybe in a quiet, better moment... that she is hurting you by taking her stress out on you... be sure to use "I" statements... "I" feel.... "I am..." and so on. You have to set boundaries or she will use you as a punching bag forever... and you guys will eventually break up.

Now... if you want to HELP her... when she is taking her moods out on you, sweetly, nicely ask her if there is anything you can do to make her feel better... I realize we can't MAKE people feel things... but maybe she just needs someone to vent to and you are the safest thing around... or maybe she does need a backrub or a shoulder to cry on... and be there for her. BUT... if it is making YOU feel abused, stop her the next time she starts to do it... cuz she WILL abuse your kindness if you allow it.

My boyfriend is my champion... I vent and tell him all my crazy life stories... and he is ALWAYS on my side... and I love that about him. And I don't abuse his kindness... I always make sure I tell him thank you for listening to me... and I let him know right up front if I want his advice or if I just want to ***** about something... and he is the best guy in the world!!!

SO... my advice to you is be nice to her... let her vent... but protect your own soul as well. You don't need a toxic girlfriend.. and set your boundaries to protect yourself. If she loves you, she will see that what she is doing is hurting you and STOP.

Answer 9

Talk with her, ask her abtou her day, & try to figure out what went wrong. Don't add fuel to the fire. Do be a gentleman & offer to help out with housework (unless you already do it all). If you are already doing these things get a new girlfriend, she obviously doesnt respect you enough or trust you to tell her what her problem really is.

Answer 10

Well truthfully you've got to talk to her and ask her what's up, if you really care for her, let her know and tell her you want to help her out if shes so stressed. And if she's a hopeless romantic, then buy her some roses or something and take her out to dinner and be sweet.

Answer 11

talk to her polite and kindly manner. try to get the reasons for her behaviour. give her a hug and a kiss. this will definetly elevate her mood. try taking her to a place where she loves.buy her what she likes. try try and try. if nothing works out just act to move away. she will definrtly be after you because girls usually make a fuss..if nothing works out forget her. when as a freiend cant get together how are you going to get along after marrying her.