alpha male, good looking, good provider, takes care of himself and his loved ones, but almost always ends up being an a**hole.
Blah dude, not-so-good looking, caring, sweet, but almoys always ends up as a pain in the a**?
Safer bet?
2006-12-05 06:37:58 · 14 answers · asked by dianabarff 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yup gotta go with many here
Stay single and hope their is a third option.
Looks are not all that important to me. The caring and sweet I could go for, without the pain in the a**? Emotional stability would be cool too.
Anyone out there that's an emotionally stable, nice guy who wants a companion, not a mother, maid or secretary?
No huh....where have all the good guys gone? Far far away. Or taken I guess.
Oh well, guess I'm havin another bad people day :-)
2006-12-05 06:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The blah dude is the safer bet. Always.
But the alpha male is the one you women end up having affairs with.
My wife got lucky she married me as the blah dude and I later got a high paying job and became a so-so bodybuilder. She gets the best of both, but I am still a low-confidence dork in social situations.
2006-12-05 06:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Between the two choices, safer bet is staying single.
How about a normal-looking person, a good provider, caring, respectful, intelligent, not an a**hole or a pain in the a**?
It's not impossible, I found mine.
2006-12-05 06:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alpha males are only good as dogs, as in canines. There really is a lot of middle ground with human males. We aren't all domineering jerks or blah momma's boys.
2006-12-05 06:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jesus Pleaseus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ahole or pain in the a**......
I can't decide. Okay, neither.
There are many men who are not alpha males who are not aholes and also aren't boring pains.
Are those your only 2 choices? Is there a 3 or 4 that you haven't mentioned yet?
2006-12-05 06:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The safer bet is to be alone and find a better match.
Good luck
2006-12-05 06:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Delta Force!
2006-12-05 06:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by Lightbringer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the Alpha male in my house, but I try not to be an a**hole.
2006-12-05 06:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With those two choices, I'd suggest a lifetime supply of KY warming lotion and some enjoyable porn and go it alone.....
2006-12-05 07:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd pass on both and stay single until I met someone who was more of a "complete package"
2006-12-05 06:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋