Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

I was really into this guy and he said he was really into me too.

We talked on the phone for hours at a time and I had a wonderful time hanging out with him.

We slept together Friday and everything seemed to be going perfectly. I really enjoyed being with him and was hoping to see him again soon.

Yesterday, I got a call from his boyfriend.

Yes, you read that right, his boyfriend called me. According to this guy, the guy I was with was "confused" and didn't know what he was doing. Also told me that this guy has a history of hardcore drug use and was in rehab.

I confronted the guy I was with and he said that he wasn't with the guy and that he wasn't gay. He told me that he did lie about his drug past because he wanted me to accept him.

What the f uck?

2006-12-04 02:16:25 · 25 answers · asked by loislanepoet 2 in Singles & Dating

tom and i were hs sweethearts that met again like fate after 14yrs.he was separated and i was divorced.he told me how he missed me and had thought about me often thru the yrs and as soon as his divorce was final we were to be married.i thought my life was perfect he treated my son like his own,braged to everyone about how lucky he was to have"us".would not let me pay for anything but most of all treated me with respect and told me ALL the time how much he loved me and wanted to be with me forever.he seems so happy but hes cheating on me.the 1st girl he met before me at work and she "pays" him a visit about 3 times a mon.the 2nd one he met about 2 mons after me and she "visits" him on the days i don't or after me!i know they both know about me.when i asked him about them he looked at me like i was crazy and said they were just freinds.so i hired a pi and sure enough the info i got was right he was cheating.why would a man make u think you are his world then cheat on u behind your back?

2006-12-04 02:15:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 02:15:26 · 2 answers · asked by abcpimpz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is from NZ and I am from Spain. We will have our wedding in Spain. I know everything will be great as both our families are very openminded and chatty. Has anybody had a similar experience? I would love to hear about it!

2006-12-04 02:15:23 · 1 answers · asked by aroundtheworld 2 in Weddings

I want to get closer to my parents, but I just don't know how to do it; we've never been a really close-knit family, and now I think it might be too late. My parents are long since divorced by the way, so I need a way to connect with my mother, and another way to connect with my father (with whom I rarely speak).

2006-12-04 02:15:00 · 10 answers · asked by in_my2ndlife 2 in Family

My husband and I have been having marital problems due to his infidelity for the past 2 years. I have been trying my hardest to rebuild our life together.

He has agreed to go on a vacation with me for Christmas. I told him that I just want to go somewhere, anywhere and he told me to plan the trip. He suggested that we go see his parents for the holidays. I am hoping that it will be a romantic week together. What do you think?

2006-12-04 02:14:51 · 9 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do childrend learn from book or parents?

2006-12-04 02:14:39 · 14 answers · asked by kaavi m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Having the idea in my head that this was the one, how now do I get my heart to understand its over and start enjoying my independance?

2006-12-04 02:13:56 · 20 answers · asked by thetruemelain 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend broke up with me 5 weeks ago. Stated he still loved me ad wanted to be with me in the future but needed to get his life together.

He had a falling out with a friend of mine about a year ago. After that he constantly told me how much he hated her, despite the fact that it upset me.

At a party just 6 weeks ago he wouldnt even talk to my friend. And almost didnt come b/c he didnt want to be in the same car as her.

Now I found out that he showed up at her b-day party and gave her a present. I happened to be out of town which is why I was not at the party. But he didnt know I wasnt going to be there.

What was his motive? Why is he going to my friends party? cosidering just a few weeks ago he couldnt stand to be near her?

2006-12-04 02:13:13 · 8 answers · asked by Jenny S 1 in Singles & Dating

The reason I ask is that a lovely and beautiful girl i know thinks she is unattractive, partly because she wears glasses. I have told her that she looks beauitful... But I havent ever seen her in glasses...
What more can I tell her...

2006-12-04 02:12:10 · 26 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl in my art class. i have been really nice to her, and i think she kind of likes me. i want to ask her out, but i need some ideas for moveing foreward. we talk often, are good freinds, and sit next to each other at art every day. but i do not know her phone number. ideas please. thank you!

2006-12-04 02:11:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I have a cousin who is married, last weekend, I caught his wife cheating on him, I took pics of her and her lover in the bar togther as a couple. I have very vivid pics, I think I might post them on the internet unless she makes a huge offer, does this sound divas,Are there certain restrictions on the internet to posting things like this although I didnt have her consent on taking the pictures, but she was in a public place. Help?

2006-12-04 02:11:36 · 13 answers · asked by Jessi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do dishonest men ever feel guilty for lying to girls or cheating?

2006-12-04 02:11:11 · 11 answers · asked by Princesa Morenita 3 in Singles & Dating

I feel so deeply traumatised having been dumped 6 months ago. I have recovered a lot through time, and I have tried to date other girls. However, is it normal to feel so hollow, withered and weak inside? My heart feels like it's in hibernation and I find it so hard to cheer up.
Anyone have any decent advice? I know time is a healer and they say, what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. I am sorry - but I strongly disagree. What doesn't kill you, injures you severely.
thanks guys

2006-12-04 02:11:09 · 10 answers · asked by Christian_80 1 in Singles & Dating

Should we elope? We each have 2 children i feel they should be included. How big of a reception would be appropiate? Any advise would greatly be accepted. thanks

2006-12-04 02:10:57 · 22 answers · asked by anywine4me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

not physically cheat? to me that is emotionally cheating, and is more damaging psychologically. i spent the last couple months quiet about my gf's best friend, she parades him around like a poster boy. i had no reason to believe that she was actually cheating because they live far away from each other. but just the way she brags on this guy, and dogged on me, she made me out to be a second rate man. on top of that my friends kept coming to me showing me her myspace, and all it was was about her and this guy, she even took it to the point to post underneath a picture of her and this guy that he was the only one that made her truly happy. it made me feel like a complete loser, and an idiot for just standing by blindly. so i finally called her out on it and she completely went off the wall and broke up with me. the relationship was failing anyway and i knew this was coming, what do you think?

2006-12-04 02:10:52 · 3 answers · asked by alex l 5 in Singles & Dating

My cousin has been living with her boyfriend for over ten years. The strange thing is he doesn't sleep with her at night, only when they share intimacy. I just found out that he sleeps in the basement. He comes up with one excuse after another such as her mattress doesn't feel right. So she went out and replaced them, he still didn't sleep in her bed, then it was some bull about he likes to fall asleep with the tv and she doesn't. They don't go anywhere together other than to go and eat on occassions. She seems to be ok with their arrangement and she feels he really loves her. What do you all think?

2006-12-04 02:10:30 · 1 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 02:10:03 · 22 answers · asked by golfer1234 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 02:09:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been together for a year now and I was really hoping for a sort of personal gift .. maybe even a promise or engagement ring for Christmas. We're at the point in our relationship where we're living as if we are married. I accidentally found out that he got me an ipod. He has said he is commited to me and wants to live a long happy life. No proposal though. Should I be concerned with traditional standards or is a piece of paper reallty that important when tow people love each other. ?

2006-12-04 02:08:38 · 8 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 02:08:35 · 10 answers · asked by Ebony 4 in Marriage & Divorce

if a guy is flirting with you via text messages when he is drunk, does that mean anything?is he too shy to say the things he is saying otherwise?

2006-12-04 02:07:55 · 15 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

When I reach to an orgasm it seems that the whole place is going down by my yelling.My boyfriend is trying to hush me when am at that phase but he can't!I don't let him....I get totally out of control!But I do it unconciously...It comes out on it's own...What can i do?!

2006-12-04 02:07:38 · 26 answers · asked by Soulla 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to know my qualitys!!

2006-12-04 02:06:48 · 2 answers · asked by cool_girl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does he not like me or is he just really shy ??? He's really nice to me and he stands up for me whenever some1 is mean to me !!!

2006-12-04 02:06:40 · 6 answers · asked by Sweet_angel 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 and i feel myself more comfortable with guys who r 23-30. I also want to stay absolutelly pure till my marriage, cause i feel that its right, romantic and nice. But i wanna know is it ok 4 a guys of age range to wait, and whether they like inexpierience in girl, whether they find the idea to teach her everything to be great, because i know it takes time to become good. How do u feel abt it in general? thx

2006-12-04 02:06:29 · 10 answers · asked by JUSTGIRL 2 in Singles & Dating

Someone i hav'nt seen for years

2006-12-04 02:05:52 · 6 answers · asked by Charlotte W 1 in Family

Not too long ago, i was at a party and i got really drunk and had unprotected sex with a guy, and although he pulled out, i was scared. then, this weekend i was at another party and ended up hooking up with the same guy again, and we didnt use a condom this time either, but he came in me this time. should i be worried?

2006-12-04 02:04:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't buy a lot of junk food but I do get a little bit. I usually always have fresh fruits and veggies for snacking but I do like to have something sweet from time to time.

my problem is that I have to hide it so my husband doesn't eat it all. He can't eat just one or two, he'll eat the whole package of goodies. If it were just the kids and I, it would last a week or two but with him, it lasts one day maybe two, if he knows it's there.

how many of you out there have the same problem?

2006-12-04 02:04:44 · 10 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 02:04:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships