I am 19 and i feel myself more comfortable with guys who r 23-30. I also want to stay absolutelly pure till my marriage, cause i feel that its right, romantic and nice. But i wanna know is it ok 4 a guys of age range to wait, and whether they like inexpierience in girl, whether they find the idea to teach her everything to be great, because i know it takes time to become good. How do u feel abt it in general? thx
2006-12-04 02:06:29 · 10 answers · asked by JUSTGIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant whats ur idea on it? how would feel emotionally abt it? I am talking primarily abt guys who had quite a lot of girls b4.
2006-12-04 02:25:53 · update #1
I'd say go for it!!!! I know a couple of guys that waited till they were married in their late 20's... Now, they are happy as can be...
GO FOR IT!!! There is nothing wrong with that...
And about the experienced girl...well, its two fold. An experienced girl is fun to be with...but not to marry...
I wish I could find a girl with your beliefs...thats refreshing!!!!
Good luck!!!
2006-12-04 02:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is purely speculation since I am married but...
On the surface the idea of a 'pure' girl sounds great! All sweet, innocent and fresh. But then the teaching part of it is just not very appealing. Plus how would I would I know that you are not a prude in bed? I would have to marry you to find out if we were sexually compatible? Sounds horrible to think about, but you just try 10 years of marriage with someone who you are not sexually compatible with, and I will show you a line at the divorce court.
I personally think you should wait for the right guy, but I certainly think you should at least try to be slightly less than 100% pure before marriage. There are more than a few things you can try without going all the way.
2006-12-04 02:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's the comparison with previous lovers that makes guys want an "innocent" bride. And yes, it is just as OK for guys to wait as for girls to wait. Peer pressure be damned.
A little experience on the part of one partner is good, because going by instinct isn't that easy. But a guy (or girl) who has tomcatted around all his life isn't likely to know much about what makes regular lovemaking "great". As they say about schoolteachers who have taught one grade all their lives, they haven't had thirty yearse of experience, they've had one year thirty times.
2006-12-04 02:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by Dick Eney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different standards and cultures. the female must always remain pure, while the male must be experienced to some degree. If you wait until marriage, i believe that you will last a long time with your husband and can experience things together. As a male, when a female tells me or shows me that she is experienced, i have a lot of questions.
2006-12-04 02:10:52 · answer #4 · answered by exel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would prefer my future husband to wait for me like I am waiting for him, but if I do get married to someone who didn't wait then I could look past that, because alot of guys his age probably had sex but not lovemaking because there is a differnce. Oh and I do not think it matters that you are a virgin because alot of guys want to be a girls first.
Hope this helps :)
2006-12-05 19:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way I feel. I believe all girls should be virgins on their wedding day, or at least the man they marry should be the first one they have sex with. I have no problem with teaching a woman what I like about sex, because even women who are not virgins need to learn. What a woman did to please one man may not please me. So I want to teach her the things that please me and I want to learn the things that please her.
So just because you are a virgin don't think you don't have anything to teach, get married as virgin, then teach your husband what you like and don't be scared to try new things, do everything you are both comfortable with (except sharing sex with others) and have fun doing it.
2006-12-04 02:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R realy nice thinking gal. U will get along well with everybody. All The best
2006-12-04 02:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by g_hnst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no worries, as you get older you may change your mind. Just do whatever feels right and don't let ANY guy pressure you into anything you don't feel comfortable doing. If he really cares about you he waits.
2006-12-04 02:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by Atousa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart...Your future husband will respect you even more. You are a Special Lady.
2006-12-04 02:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by R W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so sweet!
2006-12-04 02:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by cherrysnowcone08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋