Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

Over the weekend I went to a guy friends house and stayed the night. there was 3 guys and just 1 female. I had 5 bergardi Strawberrie wine coolers and didnt go to bed untill 6 in the morning. Yesterday I was driving with one of the guys when my boyfriend called asking were I was and who I was with. I told him who I was with and where I was going. He told me that I needed to get home and if I didnt then he would leave and not come back. I got home and he told te guy to leave. After 2 hours of being yelled at because I didnt come home I felt horible. He kept asking if I slept with any of them and I kept telling him no. Which I didnt because we were all nothing more but friends and I care way to much for who I am with. I would never do anything that stupid again. Was I wrong because I went to hang out with some friends? I admit that It wasnt so smart of me to stay the night but I think he over reacted. I dont think he beleieves me and I dont know how to get him to believe me. I love him!

2006-12-04 02:28:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get so bored and love to email and write so I thought I could see if anyone wanted to become friends and email?

2006-12-04 02:28:30 · 10 answers · asked by Sleeping Beauty 2 in Friends

Pls refrain from sending meaningless, obscene and silly answers.

2006-12-04 02:28:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anne 3 in Friends

2006-12-04 02:27:50 · 19 answers · asked by CheckTheCoolWax 2 in Singles & Dating

Are there any attorneys reading this that could possibly help? I'm in Virginia. We were married 17 years and two years ago my wife just packed and left. We have no children. I later learned she had moved in with her old boyfriend. A few weeks after that, I found bags of "love letters" and sickening photographs, conveniently dated. We drew up our own separation agreement and we both signed it. It was not "filed" though. I'm filing my own divorce petition now. I thought I would prepare two petitions; one simply claiming irreconcilable differences so as to avoid the embarrasment, and another containing the lurid details in case she refused to sign the "sanitized" version. If she refuses to sign, do I need to go ahead and file the "un-sanitized" petition? I will have both ready. In preparing the petition, I noticed I'm required to state that the court "may fix the rights of the parties" regardless, apparently, of what we've agreed to?? Would the "details" help prevent this?

2006-12-04 02:27:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Not many details to give, she works at the deli, I buy food there. Would like to get to know her better but can't seem to grab an opportunity, its always busy, there are ALWAYS others around, be they co-workers or customers. I am not even sure she is available, just going on a feeling with this one. Thanks for any ideas.

2006-12-04 02:26:46 · 16 answers · asked by M K 1 in Singles & Dating

My huband and I were recently married in September of this year. We have been together for 6 years. My mother in law is all of a sudden making a big deal about the holidays. For instance she wanted us to go to her house this year for Thanksgiving and go to my moms next year.My husband told her this wasn't going to work because we want to be with both sides for the holidays. I offered to do Thanksgiving at my house so that we could all be toghether and she wouldn't have to feel that the holidays are a big rush. She refused my offer. So I thought we agreed on splitting the holiday we would go to her house at 11am and have appitizers with her. Her dinner was in the middile of the day and this year was our year to have dinner with my parents because last year we only got to spend a few hours at my moms. The night before Thanksgiving my MIL called my husband to discuss Thanksgiving and he must have told her agian about how our day was planned we would show up at 11 have appitizers and spend

2006-12-04 02:26:35 · 9 answers · asked by BabyDolll128 3 in Family

I have seen where people will "ring in the new couple" by having little silver bells tied to personalized ribbon. This is to avoid the environmental hazards of rice and the sticky mess of bubbles. Has anyone else ever seen this? Where could I purchase these?

Thank you!

2006-12-04 02:26:06 · 12 answers · asked by ELL 2 in Weddings

2006-12-04 02:25:37 · 26 answers · asked by john d 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend like to describe the feeling he gets when he enters my vagina and how I feel when he is inside of me...It's such a turn on by the way (i suggest you try it with your bf/gf)...but is it considered to be "dirty talk"?

2006-12-04 02:25:22 · 6 answers · asked by Soulla 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 02:25:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in my culinary class at boces are these two really cute guys, one wants sex and the other one doesnt. i like them both. i want a relationship thats good for me, but due to past experiences, im not really sure if i want to make a commitment....i want to have fun, and im young....but i dont know if i should go for the temporary fix, or whats good for me in the long run....

2006-12-04 02:24:38 · 19 answers · asked by So over-used 2 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy I like who's 26 years older than me. My friends think I should go for it and ask him out. My mum thinks I'm mad. He's cute, he's sexy, has an amazing sense of humour and is very intelligent. The thing is, how do I ask out a guy so much older than me?

2006-12-04 02:23:50 · 4 answers · asked by ilovebuttonmoon 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom hasen't I think that is harsh just a little to long to stay in your room don't you think!!!! I hope you respond to my question!!!

2006-12-04 02:23:22 · 6 answers · asked by Jessica C 1 in Family

I've heard about it from a few people and wanted to find out if it works before I shell out $100

2006-12-04 02:22:56 · 2 answers · asked by nyc_pharoah 2 in Singles & Dating

I've my relationship (engaged) with my bf and we gonna married next year. He's from the States and I am from Dominican Republic. well, as his wife i will become, he wants me to go the states and live with him together. For that, we need the visa. he had been working alot and me too for save up money. Yesterday we were talking about the spends it requires for succeed the marriage visa which is kinda expensive ($600-1000 dls). he told me what we gonna do is to share the spends (each of us will pay the half-to-half). I didnt offended by that, but im just wondering if in the future things will be this way. Is this correct? I mean i'm not a spoil who wants everyhing-i-wish and neither I dont have any problem sharing.

is this a good sign of a good marriage? i mean,... the fact of know how to share things with your couple... can someone clear up this to me?

I will appreciate even more answers from experience ppl, thanks in advanced!

2006-12-04 02:21:58 · 26 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 02:21:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just need some direction! In May I met a really great guy there was instant chemistry however shortly after we started dating he had to leave town for a few months, during this time, he cheated on me and I decided we would be friends until he returned. While he was away I started talking to another guy and he and I fell for each other the only thing was that he lives 15 hrs away. He tells me he wants to be with me and that he will be moving to my town so that we can be together, get married and start a family. But he seems to just be putting it off almost as if he tells me these things just to keep me. Now my ex calls me late at night telling me he really screwed up and that he wants me back so that we can repair our relationship and he also tells me he wants a family with me. I love both of them so much and I don't want to hurt either of them and people tell me to follow my heart but its the reason im in this mess. Some please help me!!!

2006-12-04 02:21:05 · 10 answers · asked by Sumone U 1 in Singles & Dating

Thanks!

2006-12-04 02:20:22 · 2 answers · asked by vintageprincess72 4 in Friends

Me and my husband used to fight and separate all the time, but we always have this VERY STRONG connection, and we always wind up back together. He agrees that there is a bond. Why is this? I think he's my soul mate.

2006-12-04 02:20:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ive split up with my partner of 7 months, we were friends for a year before a couple; it was a serious and close relationship and spent most of our time together. i do miss him and he me. but between it cant work as a couple. can a frienship start immediately, if not what amount of time do you think you should be apart before that can occur

2006-12-04 02:19:45 · 22 answers · asked by poppy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What did you do about it?

2006-12-04 02:19:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well this is what happened m boyfriend (now ex) worked with me and we knew that it couldnt get in the way of our jobs and it never did then out of the lue last thursday he just stops talking to me. why do guys do this and its not like we have to be together i just want to know what happened he is supposed to be 5 years older than i am what is the deal?

2006-12-04 02:19:31 · 11 answers · asked by LiL mAmMa 2 in Singles & Dating

... if you are planing to have two or three.

2006-12-04 02:19:18 · 7 answers · asked by aroundtheworld 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this guy likes me but i dont like him i have told him but he is still the same

2006-12-04 02:19:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have my younger brothers around me a lot, and I am uncomfortable enough approaching people alone, so please give me some advice on how to go about meeting people, thanks.

2006-12-04 02:18:21 · 1 answers · asked by Ajay B 1 in Singles & Dating

i miss my cousin very much...my heart is bleeding the pain is extremely painfull more painful then death to me

2006-12-04 02:18:15 · 10 answers · asked by hot guy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Family history...abuse and ridicule from adult siblings. No one really gets along. I have a relationship with two siblings, one is going, the other is not. Had it out with sister planning the event over her lack of sensitivity (well, actually flat out rudeness to me). It's at her home. She and another sister are abusive verbally. Another sister is just unpleasant in general. My husband works 6 days a week for a total of 90 hours. Party is 2 hours each way on his only day off. I am opting out. I do get along very well with my parents but with just them and one nice sibling there, I really don't think the hardship of the drive is worth the trauma. What do you think. No abuse please. Just sincerity...

2006-12-04 02:17:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-04 02:17:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hey again!
it isnt much to me except my friend is falling for the guy...i just wanna make sure she is doing the right thing or not...
simple things he cares abt are like remembering her choices and also smiling at her in that mysterious guy way...
dunno wat to do

2006-12-04 02:17:31 · 3 answers · asked by geet 1 in Singles & Dating