in my culinary class at boces are these two really cute guys, one wants sex and the other one doesnt. i like them both. i want a relationship thats good for me, but due to past experiences, im not really sure if i want to make a commitment....i want to have fun, and im young....but i dont know if i should go for the temporary fix, or whats good for me in the long run....
2006-12-04 02:24:38 · 19 answers · asked by So over-used 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do them both. Play the field. Have a threesome.
2006-12-04 02:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a 3 some
2006-12-04 02:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by ilovebuttonmoon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love isn't about sex. It's all about commiting urself to the person u love whole heartedly... Love means willing to wait. If this guy only wants sex, don't u think u are making a big mistake by commiting urself to this guy??sides this other guy whom doesn't want sex sounds nice and might be someone whom treasures u alot. mayb u might think i'm wrong , but to me and every other girl out dere, surely our love deserves someone whom is willing to wait and stand by us in our lives.Wouldn't you agree? And the part about u being young and wanting to have fun, well there are other ways to have fun rightio?? and if u r afraid of commiting, then don't go all the way and start dating him yet. Get to noe him better and maybe, soon u will realise that ur going to be willing to stand by him and u will be ready to commit to him..
Remember that love is not just a feeling or a small- time fling thing that u have with people. It's an emotion that comes from the deepest and innermost part of our souls. I hope that u will make the right decision and best of luck in your love life...
Trust your heart in the long run please....>>>
...DArk Aurora...
2006-12-04 02:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Aurora 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dearest So-overused
You need to think of your happiness first. You stated yourself many things.
You want to have fun, you don't know if you want what's good for you or a quick fix.
Before you pick either consider what it is you want. Stating both shows you don't know yourself what you want at the moment. You know what both guys want from you, there wants are out there. however most important you need tot hink about yourself in the long run not a realtionship, people come and go as you know, but who would make you happies? Try to go for your happiness and see there goals in life and then yours as well.
2006-12-04 02:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to ask yourself do you want Mr Right Now or Mr Right so if you want to have fun and be used go for the player if not then go for the other guy good luck HUGS
2006-12-04 02:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with the one who doesnt want nothing for you. I mean if that other guy who wants sex..well he is pretty much using you. You can do better. You know you can. Other wise just find someone else to love...good luck. =]
2006-12-04 02:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by bananaboo517 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not able to stand there and answer that question - I'm not sure you're ready for a serious commitment. Just my opinion though. :) Good luck.
2006-12-04 02:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by razor_sharp_redhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you don't like either of them. You just have a perfect guy right here...one for satisfaction and one for real based relationship...they can't be both in one :)
good luck.
2006-12-04 02:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opt for the one who want sex. The gay cook just wants to be friends.
2006-12-04 02:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one that does want it, will probably just stick around for a little while.
the one that doesn't want it...may stick around "in the long run" as you say. get the good guy while you still can
2006-12-04 02:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by ** i Am hiS giRL ** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋