Over the weekend I went to a guy friends house and stayed the night. there was 3 guys and just 1 female. I had 5 bergardi Strawberrie wine coolers and didnt go to bed untill 6 in the morning. Yesterday I was driving with one of the guys when my boyfriend called asking were I was and who I was with. I told him who I was with and where I was going. He told me that I needed to get home and if I didnt then he would leave and not come back. I got home and he told te guy to leave. After 2 hours of being yelled at because I didnt come home I felt horible. He kept asking if I slept with any of them and I kept telling him no. Which I didnt because we were all nothing more but friends and I care way to much for who I am with. I would never do anything that stupid again. Was I wrong because I went to hang out with some friends? I admit that It wasnt so smart of me to stay the night but I think he over reacted. I dont think he beleieves me and I dont know how to get him to believe me. I love him!
2006-12-04 02:28:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is just upset. As long as you didn't do anything with the other guys then NO, you didn't do anything wrong. It will take time for him to cool down and it's natural for him to be a little upset. Put yourself if his shoes. If he never came home one night and then you found out it was because he got drunk with three other girls and crashed at their place...would you be a tad upset?
2006-12-04 02:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kurt S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you have reacted if he spent the night with four of his best female friends? Seriously, you would probably have broken up with him without even listening to an excuse, right?
Don't worry about getting him to believe you. He either will or won't. Make yourself above suspicion from now on. Don't be caught in a situation where he has any reason to suspect that something went on. And for a while at least, you've given up your right to be jealous. He might do something "stupid" just to kind of show himself that he's not being played for a fool. Let it slide. Be there to catch him when he falls out of it. That might prove to him that you're on the level, or it may just make him feel "even." Either way, be above suspicion from here on and encourage him to be the same way after he's worked through this.
2006-12-04 10:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even I wonder whether you slept with any of them!!!! Take it as "Ye Reap What Ye Sow" You deserve it.
Your bf is the injured party in this whole episode. I am with him.
But dont worry; everything will be back to normal in a while. Love eachother and enjoy
2006-12-04 10:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by ByTheWay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well instead of asking us why dont you for instance put yourself in his shoes and try to view the situation from there? What would you have done if you were in his position? Wouldn't you have turned the house upside down? so just calm down and reassure him.
2006-12-04 10:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah well he needs to trust you I can understand his concern but at the same time he needs to chill you didn't cheat on him so let him blow his steam and reassure him that it won't happen ever again but you are allow to have friends and you didn't sleep with any of them and he needs to let it go HUGS
2006-12-04 10:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋