Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

I've been with hubby for almost 3 years now and we've been living together this whole time, but I've noticed that we don't spend time together at all! the only time we r together is in bed or in the car, other than that we r all the time with friends or apart because of school, work and activites... the thing is he never ever thinks abt taking me somewhere at least like once in a lifetime.. never even sees that we r not spendin time together..never crossed his mind at all..we talked abt it many times before and he told me he's goin to make some changes...but I dt see any change..I guess he just like the way we live...he likes being with his friends all the time-assuming that we already live together, so we're goin to see each other anyway-...am I wrong to think this way? what should I do? has he had enough of me??


ps: I'm a fun person and it really makes me wanna go ou out there and find someone who will have time for me...laugh w me..talk w me...go out w me...do crazy things w me..

2006-12-04 02:02:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Jot down the answer then I can think how kind I am...
I am please to hear from you..
Thanks..

2006-12-04 02:02:16 · 1 answers · asked by als 1 in Weddings

We live in a world that teaches us what relationships (between a man & a woman) are suppose to be like. I'm 30, how many people do you know ages 35 and under that have a relationship that you can actually saw you admire. Most of my friends are single and haven't come across Mr. Right yet and those that do have a mate aren't truly happy, they just fear being alone. I talk with married people, married people say stay single. What's your take?

2006-12-04 02:01:48 · 5 answers · asked by So What 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband watches porn when I am not around. He hasn't suggested seeing it with him. Help!! what does this mean?

2006-12-04 02:01:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, this girl I know, her husband cheated on her with girls who do porn. She told me that he has some sort of brain malfucntion that triggers him to sometimes do the unthinkable. I told her he needs to see a doctor then, and that I don't believe something like that would trigger a person to go off and have sex with someone else. He is addicted to sex, and she as well as I feel like he used his condition as an excuse. He must not love her that much if he can't get help and talk to her about it. What do you think about the whole sex addition excuse?

2006-12-04 02:00:37 · 38 answers · asked by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 in Marriage & Divorce

What could that mean is he shy or does he just not like me ..... he's always nice to me and when someone is mean to me he stands up for me so what's wrong ???/

2006-12-04 02:00:24 · 12 answers · asked by Sweet_angel 3 in Singles & Dating

he ends all his messages with a smilie face :-), does that mean anything?

2006-12-04 02:00:19 · 18 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

anybody from the apache tribe?

2006-12-04 01:58:19 · 4 answers · asked by korey 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in love.

2006-12-04 01:57:56 · 17 answers · asked by Indigo 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone else like role playing in the bedroom.I like to dress my wife up as a five pound note then shout "im going to be cumming in to some money soon"

Discuss -

2006-12-04 01:57:35 · 9 answers · asked by mjc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when no one loves you?

2006-12-04 01:56:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 01:55:33 · 18 answers · asked by Simon G 1 in Singles & Dating

I know I shouldn't be feeling sad because I'm no longer a kid, but I feel so sad about the things that are happening in my life right now, and I can't stop worrying about them and about the welfare of my parents who are past 60, and I just wish God would listen to me for once and give me the assurance that he watch over my parents and keep them safe from all harm and danger and give them only happiness and true joy till the end of their lives. Even my old school friend won't return my calls and I understand what I could have possibly done to deserve this sort of cold treatment from him, because I know he is doing fine, but I just wish he would return my calls or emails some time and he hasn't done so in months. I wish someone would remember to give me a present this Christmas because I feel like I'm the only one in my family who thinks of everyone else and for the second year in a row, my family members, all 7 of them have decided not to exchange presents. I wish someone cared for me:(

2006-12-04 01:55:08 · 21 answers · asked by xander 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My siblings are 50 and 54 respectively and are basically bums. They mooch off of my mother and soon she will not have a savings left. She already pays their bills and hands them over cash. When my father passed away my mother put my name on the accounts -- is their anything I can do to protect my mother? She feels sorry for my siblings -- but they have caused their own financial difficulty with drugs, alcohol, and gambling. Help!

2006-12-04 01:54:53 · 11 answers · asked by Isabel 1 in Family

what can i do to get my brothers to leave me alone?
they keep being allup in my space help?!!!!

2006-12-04 01:54:50 · 2 answers · asked by *~LaDy SmOoK~* 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it worth to get the DS or shuld i squeeze in a little more $$ to get the psp?

2006-12-04 01:54:35 · 8 answers · asked by Sam 3 in Friends

Please Answer Soon...Thank you...

I am not trying to offend anyone...If I did I am Sorry !

2006-12-04 01:53:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this one guy for over a year now, but lately it has been hard to want to be with him. He has lost respect for me, purposely tries to make me feel guilty and doesn't try to see me as much anymore. I would like to move because I am just not happy, but don't know how. I do not let him take control too, I always tell him what I do not like and at times avoid his calls. However, I have not completely moved-on simply because I love him or more like loved him when he was nice. Any suggestions?

2006-12-04 01:53:30 · 7 answers · asked by sendwad 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I broke up this morning as I was leaving for work. I spent the night at his place. Last night he mentioned to me that he was moving next week. He said that he was moving in with his brother and his mother. I noticed that he was a bit reluctant to tell me where he was moving to. I left it alone last night because we were having a good time and I didn't want to ruin it. However, before I left for work I asked him if there was a reason why he didn't want me to know where he lived. He said no, that the house wasn't available to see. I told him that if we were going to be close in this relationship why couldn't he tell me where he lived. He refused to at which point I told him that if I couldn't know where he lived there was no point in me being here with him. He said I was taking too personal and I repeated myself at which point he showed me the door. What was up with that?? Why do you think he didn't want me to know. I assume he might be moving in with someone

2006-12-04 01:52:39 · 11 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone been to the Caesars Pocono Resorts?....trust me...you don't have to pack much..

2006-12-04 01:52:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am talking to this guy. We spend hours on the phone whenever we talk. When I say hours I mean 4 hours minimum. We have been talking like this for about two weeks now, and what's good about it is we are able to talk about nothing. We share a few things, exchange points of view on things, and we enjoy just getting a feel for each other. The thing is he is overly expressive with his feelings and he moves to fast with the idea of being in a relationship, and I am the kind of person who takes a while to open up and share my feelings and I have shared this with him. The other night when I was talking to him he was like I want to share something with you and it's real emotional. He said it's the way I feel about you. So I told him not to say it because I was not ready to hear it nor was I ready to deal with the fact of hurting his feelings for not feeling the same way. Well he decided to tell me anyway. He told me he loved me on the phone and in two text messages now I don't know what to do

2006-12-04 01:52:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 01:50:45 · 35 answers · asked by sonu m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

because i know some people that does it while on the pill and want to kno and if you were pregnat wud ur belly feel pushed out and underneath your ribs ache or is that boobs???

2006-12-04 01:50:31 · 13 answers · asked by tootytoon 3 in Marriage & Divorce

They seem to be growing up to be wussy submissive brats, and probably the closest they will ever get to a vagina was when they were born.

2006-12-04 01:50:19 · 19 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now I have nightmares a few times a week that my kids die, my parents, my husband, my other siblings. Now that it is Christmas time it seems like these emotions are compounded. He lived here and this Christmas will be so different with out him, I miss him so much and can't seem to shake myself out of this slump. Any advice would be apprecited.

2006-12-04 01:49:47 · 40 answers · asked by mikelizmarsh 1 in Family

What are the negative points of the debate title- "Accepting an Arranged Marriage"

2006-12-04 01:49:43 · 18 answers · asked by ng_resa 2 in Weddings

its a lil early but i want to know...lol.

2006-12-04 01:49:14 · 10 answers · asked by forrest_115 1 in Singles & Dating

me n my girl have been dating 4yr it was a shock when she left me last mounth. she then comes back 2 me n says how much she misses, luvs me. Then she gose to see her girl thats at school, when she comes back she breaks up w/ me again 2 day later. I met up w/ her yesterday a wk past the break up. She says she came back b/c she really misses me, loved me. When she left for her friends she really missed me. "but when i came back i felt different" "i still care about u just not romanticly." She sware there is no1 ealse. n she just want to be alone. she then huged n kiss me n we walked away. Now my heart broke i luv her n i just want 2 know what to do. Is she confused is it just b/c want to see what life has to offer. Do you think she will eventlly miss me and try n come back. I am not going 2 chase her unless i know their is something2 chase. i guess only time will tell. Should i not call her to make her think i moved on. i gave her everything n alwz been ther. + she came from broken home

2006-12-04 01:46:23 · 4 answers · asked by ken hill 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 01:45:28 · 7 answers · asked by yup 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 01:45:15 · 11 answers · asked by Moonmoon 1 in Friends