I am talking to this guy. We spend hours on the phone whenever we talk. When I say hours I mean 4 hours minimum. We have been talking like this for about two weeks now, and what's good about it is we are able to talk about nothing. We share a few things, exchange points of view on things, and we enjoy just getting a feel for each other. The thing is he is overly expressive with his feelings and he moves to fast with the idea of being in a relationship, and I am the kind of person who takes a while to open up and share my feelings and I have shared this with him. The other night when I was talking to him he was like I want to share something with you and it's real emotional. He said it's the way I feel about you. So I told him not to say it because I was not ready to hear it nor was I ready to deal with the fact of hurting his feelings for not feeling the same way. Well he decided to tell me anyway. He told me he loved me on the phone and in two text messages now I don't know what to do
2006-12-04 01:52:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to hurt his feelings which I think I have already done, but I asked him not to tell me what he felt. It has only been two weeks, and we have never even hung out. How would you handle this since he is a really great guy but he's just moving way to fast. Again I have already told him about how fast he is moving that's why I said I have probably already hurt his feelings.
2006-12-04 01:54:24 · update #1
ok, 1st. you havent done anything wrong at all.... you didnt hurt his feeling, he hurt his himself.... 2 weeks is way to early.... talk to him and explain that you want to take things slow....
2006-12-04 02:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should express your feelings too. Tell him that he's a great guy and that you really enjoy spending time with him. Also, tell him that you take a while to commit to those type of feelings due to your past experiences. Just try not to crush his spirit by telling him that you're not sure if you feel the same way.
Unless you want to end the relationship, tread carefully.
2006-12-04 01:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just an open and secure person, don't try to change that about him because most men aren't. all you can do is be open and honest about your own feelings, or lack there of and go with it!
2006-12-04 01:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by sassy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋