I STILL LUV HE Need HELP i dont knowe what to do, Should i wait, Should I call if so when, Is she confused???

Question

me n my girl have been dating 4yr it was a shock when she left me last mounth. she then comes back 2 me n says how much she misses, luvs me. Then she gose to see her girl thats at school, when she comes back she breaks up w/ me again 2 day later. I met up w/ her yesterday a wk past the break up. She says she came back b/c she really misses me, loved me. When she left for her friends she really missed me. "but when i came back i felt different" "i still care about u just not romanticly." She sware there is no1 ealse. n she just want to be alone. she then huged n kiss me n we walked away. Now my heart broke i luv her n i just want 2 know what to do. Is she confused is it just b/c want to see what life has to offer. Do you think she will eventlly miss me and try n come back. I am not going 2 chase her unless i know their is something2 chase. i guess only time will tell. Should i not call her to make her think i moved on. i gave her everything n alwz been ther. + she came from broken home

Answer 1

Going through the simular circumstances here. The way I got her back was, do not call her, no matter how much you think of her. She'll call you and want to come back. The first few attempts, act like you have a date and you can't see her right now. She'll be begging you to come back after about two weeks of not seeing her. Just say no.

Here's the deal! WOMEN want what they can not have. When they know they can have it.... they dont' want it any more. You have to make her think she can't have you the way she did before. She's the one that tossed it away!

The best move would be to date her girlfriend. Put it on her girlfriend like you never put it on her. Her girlfriend will say to her "How did you leave this guy?" She will come running!

Answer 2

Give her some time to really miss you, don't call or contact her at all for a few weeks. Sounds like she's really confused, and doesn't know what she wants. It also is possible that her friends are influencing her decision to break up with you. Be patient, and see what happens. Best of luck to you!

Answer 3

Here's the deal. Relationships are like jobs, only a fool would quit one before they had another.
You say she went to school to see her friends, could be her friends said something about you. However, don't put yourself through this emotional roller coaster, find your self another woman and forget about this girl.

Answer 4

AND SHE,S STILL BROKEN, AND YOU,RE NOT GOING TO FIX HER...........SHE,S MESSIN WITH YOUR HEAD .......BAD, GET AWAY FROM HER, BEFORE SHE DOES ANY MORE DAMAGE TO YOU...........SHE NEEDS HELP !