They seem to be growing up to be wussy submissive brats, and probably the closest they will ever get to a vagina was when they were born.
2006-12-04 01:50:19 · 19 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hitting the dating scene again when I was 37, and after my divorce... Most the women I dated had children.
Knowing how needy it was for my ex to go out on dates and leaving our children home alone just to schmooze some eager stud...
Knowing one lady I dated, she had one sister leave her kids with her mother to go off and meet a guy 900 miles away... Leaving her kids behind and not telling her mother she was going...
And her other sister take a bus from Mpls. to Louisianna, ditching her kid too...
And another gal I dated left her kids with a friends/friend so we could go out on a date... Never meeting her friends/friend or knowing anything about her...
Then seeing the hoards of kids mouthing off to their single-moms... And the moms not doing a thing about it...
And the tons of single mothers on the Internet complaining about just about anything with respect to how their kids drive them nuts...
I must say, most of them aren't worth a sh*t.
Maybe 10% are good mothers.
2006-12-04 02:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think children raised by single mothers grow up respecting women and probably appreciating their mothers for how hard they had to work to support the family on their own. I don't know why you would assume they grow up to be "wussies". The question is dumb really because a lot of children growing up in single-family homes have extremely loving extended families. In the case of a single-mom raising a son (which is what I'm assuming your talking about) their are uncles and other influences who can teach them things they need to learn from a man. It is VERY HARD being a single mom, and getting close to a vagina I'm sure is the least important of the concerns involved....what about emotional trauma these kids go through when their dads are dead-beats and just walk out on their families????
2006-12-04 14:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by gicargo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pimp of the day with a name like yours I would suggest you keep your pants zipped up! You don't want to be the guy who goes around fathering those WUSSY SUBMISSIVE BRATS Cause I hear it's in the gene pool not the people who are raising the children.
2006-12-04 10:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you speaking from personal experience? I was a single mother of a beautiful little girl for 12 yrs after my divorce from her father. I she is far from a wuss, or submissive brat. She is a strong, independent{as independent as a 13 yr old can be}, determined young lady. Before you pop off at the mouth you need to highly educate yourself.
2006-12-04 10:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i think that maybe if it was a boy they may need a male role model in their lives but i think that single mothers are just as fit and married parents to raise a child.
2006-12-04 09:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by _so_confused_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I have the most respect for single parents because it is hard and I was raised in a single parent home.. It made me stronger and learned not to rely on a man for anything that I could do it myself... So you are just stupid and i guess your parents didnt take the time to love you.......
2006-12-04 10:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm about to be a single moher, and it's because my wussy submissive ex boyfriend walked out on me because he got a sudden attack of concience from 2 years ago. is that my fault? no. is that my child's fault? no. he will definitely be happier without his father in his life.
2006-12-04 10:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i think your completley wrong. I know lots of children that have grown up in single homes and arent wussy at all. I dont think you have a clue of what your talking about.
2006-12-04 09:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, speaking as someone who will be a single mother----
My children have a father and he is teaching my boys that it is okay to be a jerk, to treat your kids like dirt and that the wife and mother is nothing more than a slave.
So which is better?
2006-12-04 10:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by emily 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there are times when its in the child's best interest, to be without their father. A Mother can do the job quite adequately.
2006-12-04 10:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋