Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

Do you like it when it stinks when you make love?

2006-12-04 01:24:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are 5 yrs a couple and have a son of 2. I moved countries for him and stopped working having the baby. Now I have no money, and though he earns well, I am always in red numbers. He says it is not his problem I am not working. I then show bills & he pays me back. I am busy setting up an online store (with a loan I might get) and take care of our son as we live far away from family & I hardly have any friends over here.
Last weekend he cancelled the 2000 euros I need to have to get the loan. He would help me with that. So within moments he cxld my 18 mths of preparation, following courses.
Besides, he accused me of abuse. Later on recalled that, as seemed that court would want to hear me too. (which would be bad for him) We had 1 fight and I defended myself. My family advices me to come back. I went once with the fight as reaction.
He is a very well respected person in his business. We are in counselling. I dont want my child to fly ibetween countries. what to do?

2006-12-04 01:23:54 · 16 answers · asked by belgium 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 01:22:24 · 16 answers · asked by lili h 1 in Singles & Dating

is there a deoderant for black people?

2006-12-04 01:21:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I scared to ask my daddy!! but I'm 14 years old in the high school. I am very intelligent and athletic. I am a virgin, but I don't know if I should have sex or not. Should I be older? Am i to young to start or should I wait? Its not the matter if i'm ready i just want to know if i'm to young! Because some people are the same age as me and there having sex. But some people are older than me and are not and tell me I'm to young to be thinking of sex! Please tell me!!! and be honest!!!

2006-12-04 01:20:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, my fiance always trys to wake me up at 5am to have sex.. I really cant stand this. I'm asleep damn it!!! I just cant wake up from a dead sleep and be in the mood for sex... especially simple sex.. Its usually just wham bam thank you ma'am in the morning. It way different at other times, when I'm awake that is.. What should I do about this.. Is there other people out there that feel this way?

2006-12-04 01:20:03 · 26 answers · asked by Indymom 2 in Singles & Dating

My Sisters were having a party and invited a bunch of their girl friends over, after a while I popped a 2 Live Crew CD in and played that song that says "Shake that as.s biatch and let me see what you got". I then yelled hey Ho's, Shake that As.s Biatches. Now everyone is mad at me.

2006-12-04 01:19:38 · 8 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my guy for three years now and we have kids together. 2 weeks ago i found emails that he had been sending to his girlfriend. im so crushed. i went into his email account and possed as him and started sennding emails to her. i found out that he thinks i treat him like crap that he was only with me because of the kids and that he was waiting for me to go back home so they could be together. this is what she was telling me she thought i was him though. he denies that any thing happened other then a friendship. well later on in the first week i msnd her i wanted to know what was going on. she didnt say much untill my hubby told her to leave us alone. then she said that he got her pregnant and that he was always over there when he was sappose to be out with his friends. the onaly reason i believe this is because she was able to tell me some deep secrets about me and him. its been 2 weeks now.he swears that he was never over there that he had never touched her.who do i believe

2006-12-04 01:17:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been a very good gorgeous fluffpot all year and deserve a big and special Christmas present. So what are YOU going to buy me? (Anyone who promises me a red Ferrari will get a special Christmas kiss from the gorgeous fluffpot herself!)

2006-12-04 01:16:29 · 21 answers · asked by gorgeousfluffpot 5 in Singles & Dating

Is it just a world of make believe where two people think that there's more to a relationship than there is or is it using people as a band-aid?

2006-12-04 01:15:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was friends with this guy - he asked me out and cus i like him i said yes! But like a week later i told him i thought it would be better if we were just friends! thing is, now I really miss him. we haven't talked since! I really regret breaking up with him! I don't even know why i did it - he was like my first boyfriend and i guess i just paniced!
I know i was his first girlfriend too - When i said i would go out with him, he said it was the best day of his life!
I miss him so much - I guess i just wanna know that if you've liked someone for ages then go out with them, and then break up - would you automatically not 'fancy' them anymore - or could there possibly be a chance he still likes me!
I do really like him - do you think there's any way he would ever like me again - is sending him a text a reeeeally bad idea?

2006-12-04 01:13:24 · 5 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy for about 3 weeks and we have a great time together. I am not sure if I should get him something for -mas or not. I don't want to get something for him if he doesn't get me something cause I wouldn't want him to be embarrased. Not sure if this is to early in the relationship to start gift giving. Help please.

2006-12-04 01:12:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 01:12:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is 32 and pretty much has everything! if he wants something he goes out and buys it...we've been together for about 4 months, but 2 of those we haven't seen each other because he's been away (learning to be a pilot). So we don't know each other very well but text or email each other everyday. I want to get him something for christmas but I'm not sure what, or how much to spend. He likes all the usual stuff, music, films, video games, planes! Any ideas very gratefully received!

2006-12-04 01:11:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 01:10:59 · 4 answers · asked by ronnie 2 in Singles & Dating

that girls who are on the telly, (SIZE 6) and blonde with fake boobs and the personality of a fish, are what men really want. Men would you prefer PROPER curvy girls or stick insticks -x-

2006-12-04 01:09:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 01:09:11 · 8 answers · asked by 0007 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that the poorest people in the world get everything u want but when u have it its not as good. See there's this family and they have portable dvd players and cellphones movies and everything else but me i have nothing i just had a birthday and i got 5 things and they werent really anything i wanted except the frog and my chemical romance t-shirt and even my friends forgot my birthday. and my parents wont let me do anything becuase while every one else has boyfriends and girlfriends i cant have one and its not fair i cant even have my ears pierced and everyhting is a weight issue with my mom i have to lose weight to do anything. if i want to get my belly button pierced i have to lose 20 pounds and for me the is to much i am 6.1" and weight 105. it is not fair.

2006-12-04 01:08:58 · 13 answers · asked by I Want To Suck Your Blood 1 in Friends

I luv my GF too much, but everytime She speaks OR do something tht teribbly hurts me mentally. This have had happened again & again & again. I have talked with her but she just dont change her ways. I dont know what to do - i really feel like leaving her because of this, but then i think i love her and so i stop.

Please tell what to do ? I mean how to overcome this probelm and YES she wont change.

Just tellme a way or something, to live with the problem happily....

2006-12-04 01:08:24 · 13 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 01:07:38 · 9 answers · asked by hassan b 1 in Friends

I'm 14 and I don't get allowance. Christmas is coming and I don't know what to do!

2006-12-04 01:07:08 · 10 answers · asked by joey r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been dating thie girl for two months. I like her and always let her know how strong my feelings are for her. I found out not too long ago that she is sexually adventurous because she told me she slept with two guys at the same time. It hurt me at first but now im over it. Shes been telling me that she didnt feel right about having sex with me yet and that she wanted to wait. Last night she made it clear that she still wasnt ready but towards the end of the night we ended up doing it anyway. We were about hafl way through and she said she wanted to stop so we did. It was kind of disasterous and now im feeling kind of............... im not really sure what im feeling.. angry? sad? embarrassed? confused? my feelings are mixed. what should i do? it doesnt feel like this should have happened. shes did say before she left that its not the big of deal.. but idk

2006-12-04 01:05:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl is very pretty and she's a cheerleader. I asked my uncle what to do and he said to buy her a flower and give it to her and ask her out. I did and she threw the flower at me and said she would never be caught hanging with a looser that rides the short yellow bus. I told my uncle what happened and he says that all women suffer from being biatches.

2006-12-04 01:04:59 · 9 answers · asked by Special Olympian 1 in Singles & Dating

Plz can all the good people here explain this to me???????Men and women plzzz?
What does it mean when a guy likes this girl and takes this girl out for dinner,drink and dance and while going back home they walk and this guy holds her hand all the way on their way while walking ?Why would a guy hold her hand on the first date while walkinging home,what do you think is his feelings for her,what is the reason of him holding her hands all the way long?Whats on his mind?

2006-12-04 01:04:06 · 9 answers · asked by kahuna_khazana 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-04 01:03:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you rather be (a) lonely and be in a friends with benefits relationship or (b) lonely, no friends wtih benefits and looking for a long term relationship?

Is it possible to be in a FWB relationship and feel 100% valued? Can a FWB relationship distract you from creating your own longer term ones?

2006-12-04 01:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 01:00:12 · 2 answers · asked by Sharad T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i asked this guy who i really like if he wanted to meet up for a drink, he said yeah, give me a call the next time your in town.

i have done this and we have met up a few times. i have only kissed him despite staying over his place a few times and him wanting to take things further sexually. i think i have been giving him the wrong signals here but i do like him and want to make sure that he isnt after one thing!

he still wants to see me but again its, give me a call when you next in town and ill meet up with you.

is he just too shy to ask me out?
if he was just after sex wouldnt he have given up by now?

i have known of this guy a while. i met him through my ex. hes not a friend of my ex though and my ex has moved away.

he always pays me compliments and wants to be around me when we are together. he says that im a nice girl etc etc....

he is 29 and single.

2006-12-04 00:59:39 · 10 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 00:59:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is a serious question that I need help with.
I am a 20 years old female and I have a hugh grush on this guy. Well that isnt the problem. See he is my younger brothers good friend and the problem is he is only 16. But I wouldnt of guessed he was so young by the way he acts and looks. See its fine if a male dates a much younger female But a older female dating a younger male, it seems like people think its wrong and I think its fine I just wanna know your a opinion on this matter. Thanks and please dont be rude this a serious thing that I am totally confused about.

2006-12-04 00:58:54 · 18 answers · asked by jdnsmama1 3 in Singles & Dating