Ok, my fiance always trys to wake me up at 5am to have sex.. I really cant stand this. I'm asleep damn it!!! I just cant wake up from a dead sleep and be in the mood for sex... especially simple sex.. Its usually just wham bam thank you ma'am in the morning. It way different at other times, when I'm awake that is.. What should I do about this.. Is there other people out there that feel this way?
2006-12-04 01:20:03 · 26 answers · asked by Indymom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know what you mean my husband does the same thing? What is up with that we are suppose to wake up out of a dead sleep and be in the mood? why is it that men like morning sex more? could it be thier morning pee ons that get it going?
2006-12-04 01:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by mom of two 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my father's kinda the same way. I don't know why some guys are like this. Personally, I don't enjoy it like that. The best time for me is in the middle of the afternoon, around 3 or 4 pm. A lot times, what happens is that early in the morning guys tend to wake up with a stiff, so they might want to take advantage of it.
On the other hand, it could be a symptom of a deeper psychological problem where he wants to start off his day with sex, much like and alcoholic needs a little pick-me-up before breakfast, or the smoker who lights up before hitting the shower, or the crackhead who needs a hit before starting the day.
2006-12-04 01:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by Nestor Q 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's rare that I get morning sex, me and my man are both in the military so we always gotta get up early and work out. But I think morning sex is cool and spontaneous if both of ya'll are in the mood. I don't know how long you have been married, but although predictability is boring. I already know when my man wants sex from me, he's got like a schedule. You need to get your man's schedule down, so you can be ready or be like I am have to go to work early or something like that.
Because he is going to start tripping on you if you get an attitude about having sex when he wants. It's stupid but that's the way men are sometimes.
2006-12-04 01:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Tristen T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys have to strike a balance - if morning sex is a huge turnoff for you, what time of day ARE you in the mood for sex? Let your man know you'll give him some at the time of day that you're in the mood, but in return you expect him to NOT ask for it at 5 AM when you don't want to do it.
2006-12-04 01:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not taking his time like he does at other times because you seem very uninterested so he basically just want to get over and done with so you are not so annoyed. Morning sex can vbe a lot of fun if you are recipracating, it's a little bit more wild and hungry not to mention more energetic and primal. Just go with it and see the difference.
2006-12-04 01:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by Roxy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look he wants to have sex with you, don't go complaining yet. You know how many people are on these sights that have problems with their spouses cheating on them? Have him wake you earlier so you can wake up better, before he start waking someone else up...When you look at it that way it's not so bad is it?..Now about that ..So quick thing, you picked him.
2006-12-04 01:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by Hollywood Marine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm with you 100%. I hate anything to do with sex in the morning. I just think they are getting rid of their morning woody. It's real convenient if you know what I mean.
2006-12-04 01:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by june clever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what id tell him if he woke me up at that hour constantly! Especialy if he just giving it the old Wham bam thank you mam routine.Hes obviously not taking you into account at all. He seems to be just satisfying himself.
2006-12-04 01:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by Vada 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex in the morning can be very fine, but to awaken someone for that purpose (or for any purpose, except to escape a fire) is inconsiderate.
2006-12-04 01:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i love sex first thing, best sex there is, you dont have to wake up babes, just lie still as he manouvers you into position and makes use of his glory....if you feel like waking up then you can, otehrwise it will be over quickly, but leave you feeling like you have had a very sexy dream and make you smile mysteriously all day long.......
i love it!....
2006-12-04 01:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by kt_sub2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋