Why is it that the poorest people in the world get everything u want but when u have it its not as good. See there's this family and they have portable dvd players and cellphones movies and everything else but me i have nothing i just had a birthday and i got 5 things and they werent really anything i wanted except the frog and my chemical romance t-shirt and even my friends forgot my birthday. and my parents wont let me do anything becuase while every one else has boyfriends and girlfriends i cant have one and its not fair i cant even have my ears pierced and everyhting is a weight issue with my mom i have to lose weight to do anything. if i want to get my belly button pierced i have to lose 20 pounds and for me the is to much i am 6.1" and weight 105. it is not fair.
2006-12-04 01:08:58 · 13 answers · asked by I Want To Suck Your Blood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am 15 now
2006-12-04 01:19:51 · update #1
You have a lot of maturing ahead of you. Your acting out like a 5 year old. The complaints you have are for material things that do not serve any practical fulfillment. Your friends did not forget your birthday as much as you make it sound. They probably didnt know about it. Write down the name of 5 of your friends and then write their birthdates next to their names. Bet you don't know their birthdays either. Your feelings are a little hurt and I am sorry to sound mean, but, your at a place in your life when you need to act grown up now.
2006-12-04 01:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by BudLt 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be thankful for what you have. and until you turn of age and you still live with your parents you have to follow there rules. I know its not fair. but they love you and only want the best for you. having all those material things doesn't mean nothing. hey you have two parents that love you. and they try to do the best for you. once you turn of age you can get piercing. when i was 17 years old i had to be in the house by 9. and all my friends were out. but in the long run im glad i had that restriction on me , it made me a better person . and if your really upset sit down and tak to your parents . but they are only looking out for your welfare.
2006-12-04 01:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're going through some growing pains; you want everything now, but that isn't how life works. Be patient. Not everyone gets everything they want. As you grow up, and mature, the things you want will change. One day, you'll look back on how you feel now, and will probably laugh at yourself. I'm not trying to be mean with you, just real. As for your mother, that's how they are during the middle teenage years, things will get better as you grow older.
2006-12-04 01:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are 105 lds and 6'1 how in the world are you going to lose 20 when you are 105 lds n if you are 18 or older u can get your belly button pierced or do want u want to do. 18 and under your mom tells you want to do. but i have a question for you? how old are you anyway
2006-12-04 01:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by vanessa b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up in a house where I had to follow everything my mom wanted us to do. I had no choice as I was living under my parents' roof. I believe I grew up to be a responsible adult - and I owe it to my mom.
As a younger person, you ought to be open to older people's suggestions. If you disagree, just wait to be much older then do whatever you want to do. In the meantime, maybe you can communicate your concerns with your mom such as your weight issue - but bottomline, it's still your mom's say.
2006-12-04 01:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Cindy M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't the world's job to give you stuff.
If you really want DVDs and cellphones, get a job, save your money and buy them.
And I can't imagine your Mom is pressuring you to lose weight, let alone 20lbs when you weigh 105lbs and are 6',1"...!
Be thankful for what you have, and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
2006-12-04 01:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Finish the school, get a job and buy whatever you want. There are a lot of people that they forgot their birthdays and didn't get a present for many years.
2006-12-04 01:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
five things is a lot! what are you talkin about? my family forgets my birthday all the time.... and about your mom. it's easy to lose weight. work out a loooot.
2006-12-04 03:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, 5 things for your birthday? Some people are so poor they don't get ANYTHING. Grow up, girl.
2006-12-04 01:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by zoe and skylar's mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you must give and care to get things if you are only 105 dont lose nomore just to get it pierced
2006-12-04 01:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by shaneece h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋