why do women always want to change men?

Answer 1

LOL That is THE question. Why are mens actions ok while dating, but when married the mans actions suddenly become wrong.

Answer 2

Majority of women who want to change a man, is because the way they represent themselves. If you are talking about them trying to change their boyfriends or husbands, it's usually because their men cheat, or he hasn't any goals, he's not their ideal man. And if he is a jerk, then yeah, it's a good cause. But then some women who aren't the ideal woman, like faithful, understanding(basically the *****) wants to change her man, to satisfy her taste, and he's usually the good guy. Women and men in general get with the wrong person, so they fell it's their need to mold someone into what you want them to be. Noone can change anyone, it's up to that person to want to change, whether they are girlfriend/boyfriend material or not.



Krazy Libra

Answer 3

They don't... it's just that some women go for it in a major way and make the rest of us look bad!

I believe that you shouldn't be with someone for what you can make out of them. When you choose to be with someone you take on their faults as well as their good bits. Love who you're with, enjoy what they are, and if you would rather be with a different sort of person then that's up to you.

Anyway, trying to change people is a useless exercise - you can only ever change yourself. With other people, the best you can hope for is a compromise.

Take Care

Lx

Answer 4

because we don't want to eat canned spaghetti for the rest of our lives and live in a dump. but men change women too, i now know more about sports than many men due to my fiance. i've been known to get into in depth sports conversations with other men now lol.

Answer 5

I believe this has to do with the idea of the perfect mate. We all think of what are perfect mate should be and act like. There is one problem with that though... nobody is perfect and there is no one male or female that is going to do everything you want them to. People who go into a relationship with an open mind and respect not their mate and theirselves will find a much more rewarding situation. However, if you find yourself in a relationship where you feel you are comprimising too much of you, its time to consider moving on.

Answer 6

They're emotional and lazy. In stead of passing on a defective guy they take on a fixer upper. People do this when buying a house or a car. When the foundation is bad, repair is darn near impossible.

Answer 7

It's not that we want to change you, it's that we ourselves don't want to have to change for you.ever since I have been with my man he has trie to get me to be who I'm not.I can't wear my hair a sertain way or color it or wear makeup.you know what you guys are so worried that if we look too good someone might want to steal us away that all you can think of is that we want you to change.If I could change one thing about men it would have to be...removing the stick from there A****!!!!

Answer 8

I KNOW! Horrible isn't it! When will people understand that you CANNOT change anyone.

If someone does something that you do not like, you either have to ACCEPT them for who they are and what they do, or you have to tell them "Buh Bye"..you can't change someone!

Such as if your bf/gf is a crackhead and does not want to stop, you either have to accept him/her and love them for the crackhead they are, or tell them to get outta your life!

Sorry..Crappy Truth

Answer 9

because men are not what women want to be

Answer 10

It's not that they want to change them, it's just that they see things differently and express that. In expressing that it feels like change!