tom and i were hs sweethearts that met again like fate after 14yrs.he was separated and i was divorced.he told me how he missed me and had thought about me often thru the yrs and as soon as his divorce was final we were to be married.i thought my life was perfect he treated my son like his own,braged to everyone about how lucky he was to have"us".would not let me pay for anything but most of all treated me with respect and told me ALL the time how much he loved me and wanted to be with me forever.he seems so happy but hes cheating on me.the 1st girl he met before me at work and she "pays" him a visit about 3 times a mon.the 2nd one he met about 2 mons after me and she "visits" him on the days i don't or after me!i know they both know about me.when i asked him about them he looked at me like i was crazy and said they were just freinds.so i hired a pi and sure enough the info i got was right he was cheating.why would a man make u think you are his world then cheat on u behind your back?
2006-12-04 02:15:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some men are just like that, tell him GOOD BYE, you deserve some one alot better. Move on not too quickly though. Keep you head up God has someone for all of us and he definetly isnt the one for you.
2006-12-04 02:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants the best of both worlds. He wants to have the sure thing at home and the exciting secret sex on the side. He may very well love you in his way, but unless your willing to put up with his mistresses, you need to break it off. Did he happen to mention why he was getting a divorce?
2006-12-04 10:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say..he is not the only dog out there that does it...
the thing is are u strong enough to let him go?
alot of women know that their man is cheating and chose to look the other way because the love them so much or dont think that they can do better...
have u watched something to talk about with julia robers..i love the movie and like what her sister does to him and what julia does to him to pay him back...
sad to say i just dont know if there are any good men left out there available...
i just dont know why men think the grass looks greener on the other side...some feel remorse after words...but by then its too late...
so its up to u now...i think of the kids...do u really want your son around someone like that?
be strong...
there is some one out there for u..just not him..
why do men get married if they arent finished dating yet?
2006-12-04 10:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by luvutaz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some men are just like that {as are some women}. I am sure the women know about you but what do they know? Most men wont cheat on you to your face however I do know this that a man will not cheat or see affection or attention else where if he is 100% taken care of sexually, emotionally, mentally etc in the relationship he is in.
2006-12-04 10:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if u know all this, than the reason is odvious, he doesn't love u as much as he said he does. he also denies it so u can't fix what u deny, what u won't even admit.some men just feel the need to do this, this is just who he is, unfortunatly we can never know for sure when we marry someone if they will be faithful or not, first thing is u have to accept it, and go from there. he isn't ready to admit to it, so u can't do much about it.
2006-12-04 10:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted his cake and to eat it too....or so that is the saying. HE is a dirty rotten man that deserves everything he gets for doing this to you.
Move on and make a better life.
2006-12-04 11:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men think with their male counter part and not their brain. Thank God you found out before you married him.
2006-12-04 10:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on now before you get more involved!
2006-12-04 10:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Jack Knauf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be grateful he is just a boyfriend and not a husband.....no strings attached...just walk away from this bum.
2006-12-04 11:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So he can have his cake and eat it too. Move on sweetie, you deserve better!
2006-12-04 10:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋