Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

ok so there is a semi formal next weekend for my school and there is this one guy that i have been trying to talk to for a while and i finally did talk to him..on msn..cause he added me...and now like i am crazy about him and stuff...i dont no why there is just something about him that makes me want to be with him...but thats not the point....i asked him to semi but he said no cause he wants to ask these other girls first....but then he said that if they say no then he will definetally ask me to semi....i feel like im the last resource ...but i dont want to move on cause i like him so much....and yeh of course i want to go with him...but like im not sure wht that means...does it mean...well if i cant get anyone else ill just go with you cause i have no choice or wht?>...plz help i dont understand...oh and i asked him even if he has a date will he dance with me..he said yeh for sure....?...i dunno im just confused :S??

2006-12-03 04:53:21 · 1 answers · asked by Cutie101 3 in Singles & Dating

This girl who was a former crush of me. Fell for her. Previously we used to text each other frequently. It gone less. but still we text each other. I give her wake up call everyday as she has problem waking up in the morning to work. 3 days back I express a bit of myself to her. then she start ignoring my text until i text her asking what time she need to wake up the next day. she reply. following the next few days. she did not reply and i get her meaning. I will move on. However should i give her a wake up call tomorrow?

2006-12-03 04:53:08 · 20 answers · asked by Eddy W 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 04:52:26 · 9 answers · asked by ervin 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I get them to shut up about this?
Okay there is this boy I really like and I have liked him on and off for 3 years
But I have liked him alot all year
Last night at the dance every1 who knew about me liking him (I accedentally told a blabbermouth about it) and they were all either bugging me to make a move on him and ask him to dance or telling him to ask me to dance and I never ask guys to dance I think its there job. But I told them to stop so many times and it was embarresing and I had to just keep walking off

How can I get them to stop this crap

I cant say anything like "i like him, so what" because they do this stuff when he is RIGHT NEXT TO ME
Im not really sure if I really wanna let him know I like him because I havent really had great bf experiences

2006-12-03 04:50:49 · 13 answers · asked by Skittles 4 in Singles & Dating

Im left with just enough to live on .I cant even afford to buy my kids any presents .I love my kids and feel that im letting them down because of this.

2006-12-03 04:50:10 · 12 answers · asked by trixy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 04:49:33 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 04:48:54 · 13 answers · asked by jw 2 in Friends

About 3-4 years ago, I started dating a girl during my senior year at an undergrad school.
We broke up after 15 months of dating and tried the ‘friends’ thing afterwards. It didn’t go so well until she moved far away and had no one to talk to but myself. So I was there for her and it was all good until she made new friends and didn’t need me.

After a fight, she completely ignored me for a month. I tried to contact her but she ignored me. Then she called me because she was driving from FL to IL and needed a place to crash. She apologized for ignoring me, but went on to justify ignoring in future arguments.

One time when we were arguing, she abruptly ended the conversation to go out with friends. We talked the next night only because I called. She then told me that I was no longer a priority to her any longer. Upon hearing at this, I ended our friendship and hung up the phone. I then wrote her that she was coldhearted for what she put me through, etc., and said ‘have a nice life.’

But I’m not over what she did to me. I was there for her when no one else was. She betrayed my trust by using me and throwing me away. I’ve tried to talk to her about it recently but she ignores me. Any idea what to do?

2006-12-03 04:46:43 · 14 answers · asked by jolt9157 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and he likes me too and he asked me to his formal but me n my ex jus broke up a month ago n i still think about him sumtimes even tho he was a jerk. i really like the new guy n i kno he wont hurt me cuz he doesnt have much experience. i jus dont wanna go too fast. if he asks me out should i say yes or should i wait awhile? im more experienced n i also dont want him to not like me for what i did in the past. should i worry about that?

2006-12-03 04:46:01 · 13 answers · asked by =] 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 04:45:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not generally a jealous person, in fact I am usually very comfortable with myself. Or at least comfortable enoughto feel secure in my relationships....Why then, am I having an issue lately feeling extreme jealousy towards not only my boyfriend's ex.....but also his co-workers, kids, what is wrong with me? Could it just be a result of my pregnancy, or should I be a bit more concerned than that??

2006-12-03 04:45:15 · 6 answers · asked by stefanie s 2 in Singles & Dating

Several months ago i took my neighbour's child out and while out at the mall I cut her hair in a style the parents did not like. They are now threatening a lawsuit for $18,000 stating they were planning to cut the child's hair in India in March 2007 at a religious ceremony and what I did was a"Huge mistake" as they are going to India in Dec and March and i need to pay for the trips etc.
I tried to apology and sent a letter and now I am going to the SIHK temple to get a formal prayer and letter from the Temple stating I did this and do not disrespect their religion ,but Icannot pay $18,000 for their trips to India to have prayers and special oil done to remove the "spell " I put on the child etc. The parents are not willing to accept any APOLOGIES OF ANY SORT I THINK. They want me to bow to them and make me feel bad about the situation . I will not pay their expenses for their trips!!
Can you see any other solutions?? What is the real issue now???

2006-12-03 04:45:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I AM REALLY REALLY SHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-03 04:44:45 · 2 answers · asked by LovingAngelsInstead 2 in Singles & Dating

OK so im 13 and my boyfriends 14 and he asked me can i take a shower with him......i scared to take a shower with him because it might lead straight to sex....should i or no??????HELP ME!!!!!!!!

2006-12-03 04:43:22 · 33 answers · asked by Alexia S 2 in Singles & Dating

We are aware of what it is for you husband to give you respect, but what about ULTIMATE respect. Examples of respect is not cursing at you, etc. But giving you ULTIMATE respect would be like, not allowing female friends to call your home (even if he growed up with them), another example of ULTIMATE respect is when a friend or family member needs to borrow money, your husband considers your opinion, instead of hiding it from you. Not allowing women (not relatives) to come to your house and visit. Not allowing his family to run yours, especially not to come to your house and try to run things. Give me some examples as a married woman you've dealt with that you may think is not respectful.

2006-12-03 04:43:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Men always seem to gravitate towards those women that look like a stiff wind is going to blow them over. Or the the ones that haven't had a decent meal in years. Examples, Lindsay Lohan, Nicole Ritchie, Paris Hilton, Pam Anderson (only thing keeping her vertical is her implants). These aren't average body types. So i'm a little confused as to why they seem to be what men want the woman they date to look like. It's down right scary and unrealistic.

2006-12-03 04:43:05 · 12 answers · asked by BonnieBlackLass 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for nearly 2 years. I have already been through one terrible divorce and admit that I have some trust issues. My husband owns his own company and has began to travel alot this past year. He is maybe home only a few days a month. I fly out to see him when it is possible for me to arrange a sitter. I have two children from my previous marriage and he has two from a previous marriage. It is a strain for me to be able to travel so much and he is "married" to this business and very adimant about being successful and has done very well. I quit my career to be able to have the option to travel to see him when it could be arranged. He is obsessing about his business and our marriage is suffering tremendously. I am alone and just feel terribly lonely. I worry that my children are not getting the father figure they so desperately need in their lives because he is away so much. [ My ex-husband is not a good role model and never see's the kids].. What do I do???

2006-12-03 04:42:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why does my boyfriend always like to bring me down ???? Everyone tells me to leave him but i cant cuz i love him.i dont know what to do.....

2006-12-03 04:42:37 · 20 answers · asked by selinamcnatt@yahoo.com 2 in Singles & Dating

ask you for advice about relationship/friendship/family issues?

2006-12-03 04:41:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 35 year old stay at home mom. I am not a party animal and never have been. My BF, also my chlidrens father, has social anxiety and has no desire to go out and do anything fun. He is 30. Im sick of staying home. I usually go out with a girlfriend of mine every other month. I usually have a really good time. I am beginning to make friends and having an adult social life. I am meeting men and women.......nothing sexual. I am exposed to various types of bands, art, and trendy little bars. Im thinking once a week is good to get out of the house. What do you guys think?

2006-12-03 04:40:56 · 13 answers · asked by Sqrlll 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok....my boyfriend and i have been together for going on three years, he and his technically still legal wife have been separated for close to four...my boyfriend has filled out the divorce papers, but not filed them yet(he says he scared of child support payments...they had 4 children together) He says he wants to be with me, I mean he and I have 2 biological children together, and one on the way, plus we have a house together, bank accounts, cars etc....What I want to know is should I just be patient a little bit longer,so that he can do it on his own?? or should I tell him he needs to file now!!!!!Before he pushes me away? I think he obviously wants to be with me(we have house, finances,and both of our families(parents,etc) all accept our relationship, and his mother just adores me, and my family loves him, too. I just don't know what to do here......any and all (serious) advice would be greatly appreciated!!Thanks!

2006-12-03 04:40:41 · 18 answers · asked by stefanie s 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband i got married for the second time and the marriage is failing worse than it did the first time around.We met when i was 13 in middleschool then became friends when i was 16 and finally started dating when i was 18 i became pregnant at 19 and we got married it barley lasted two years it was awful.His parents paid child support for him so he could go to law school. I somehow managed to finish college with the help from my parents during this time ex. husband and i had no contact.We ran into each other when i was 24 yrs old and he wanted to see his daughter. We got back together on and off finally married again.Everything was fine we even took in his sisters son also my god son (both his parents died in car accident) because his grandparents could no longer care for him.But know everything has gone to hell we argue about everything and anything personality wise we have both changed dramatically. Is it worth it?

2006-12-03 04:40:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend just started dating but for some reason we never really talk. What should i do to get him to talk to me and what can i do to stop being so shy? Please help me because i dont want to lose him over this!!
P.S.What are some good thing to talk with him about?

2006-12-03 04:39:48 · 9 answers · asked by Jordin 1 in Singles & Dating

If I meet a guy who mentions in his personals ad that he wants to be friends first, and I choose to meet him and if things work out, well, I guess be friends with him. He seems very busy with his education although he is close to 50, so I wonder how much time he has to put into a relationship and in my case I am interested in marrying again and really don't want to just drag along waiting for him to persue all his dreams. I wouldn't mind dating him but since he probably isn't going on the same timetable as I am, I want to continue to meet other guys and continue searching for mr. right. Since he wants to start out as friends, there isn'lt anything wrong with me meeting other guys right? Because you can have as many friends as you want and if we arent' committed to each other, he shouldn't mind should he? I haven't even met him yet but I just like to plan things out ahead of time if things did work out.

2006-12-03 04:39:36 · 10 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

Men should die and they're stupid.and develop 2 yrs behind girls.Good thing i'm a guy so that i can marry girls.Girls,how can you put up withsuch jerks? more power to you.They are so immature.and they play alot.that gets on my nerves.or they talkabout you like a piece of meat.or that they want sexall the time.I like hang with girls because they are so much fun. Or how they to talk about muscles all the time.Power to all the girls.

2006-12-03 04:39:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guy One: Right now this one is my boyfriend. He's not the hottest guy in school but as of what I've seen so far he's nice. We have alot of similiar interests and I find him fairly funny and I have a really big crush on him. Although oftne he acts like an idiot and does immature things. He's also friends with a couple of my enemies at school. Ontop of this no one in family approves of him and all my friends think I shouldn't 'waste' my time on him too. We're both friends with a guy I've known alot longer who's asked me out more times then I can count. I don't like his friend but I know his friend likes me. Alot. I'm afraid to hurt his friend since he's so nice to me.
Guy Two: This guy is VERY shy, funny, and nice. He's really nice to me and always tries to make me laugh. He's a year or two older then me and he's my older brother's friend. My mom says he likes me but I'm not sure. I like him, maybe just as much as Guy One, and my family and friends 'approve.'

2006-12-03 04:36:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 04:36:46 · 12 answers · asked by cherie 3 in Singles & Dating

i mean ever since i remember myself ive been fancied by lots of boyz but i always rejected them coz i was afraid of gettingcloser and the first kiss. im already 16 and i avnt expirience that feeling. i feel so .........anyway. itz not the problem that i cant find a boyfriend but itz after that. everytime when we get to that first time kiss i break up with him cz im scare wot hell think when he understands that i cant kiss. i rele want to do it but then i dont. i just hate myself for the fact i didnt do it when i was younger and now im 16 . oh god i feel very stupid

2006-12-03 04:36:23 · 18 answers · asked by vamy189 2 in Singles & Dating

my dad and my stepmom are getting divorced here within the next few months, she cheated on him, with one of his friends and right now she is at a hotel with the guy she has two kids, son-20, and daughter-15, and her son is married living at hom with his wife and the thought his wife might be pregnant. my dad hasn't eatten much to nothing all weekend, i just came down friday from my moms house and all my dad has been doing is, clean, chat on the internet, watch tv, and try to keep the house warm. what is something i can do to make him happy, i have been working my butt off cleaning the house, keep wood in the house, pickin up and everything. what can i do to make him smile again? Oh, and he said that if his soon to be ex-wife doesn't stop f*****g with her daughter (not calling, she even told her not the call her unless it was an emergency) then he was going to press charges against her for adultery. but yeah please help FAST!

2006-12-03 04:35:59 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been writing back and forth to a woman another state away. he found her through myspace and is very flirty with her...such as calling her babe and complementing her legs and saying things like "if i weren't married you would be in big trouble" this has been going onf or a week. we havea very happy marriage and have only been married for 2 months!!! he says he contacted her cause we had a fight one day and he wanted to feel better. he has apologized and cried and cried and even went so far to say he would kill himself if i left. he is very sorry and i dont think he would do it again. but i dont know what to do. and is this cheating? any advice would be helpful!!!!

2006-12-03 04:35:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce