Family & Relationships - 3 December 2006

My step-daughter lives with her grandmother and mother. My husband has visitation but not standardized. We have a court date for a standardized visitation hearing, but it is not until April. I have been the one to work with the child's mother and grandmother on visitation since last April because of a big fight over custody that got ugly. Both the mother and grandmother make it very difficult for us to see the child and refuse to let her come over for more than a few hours. Everytime we try to see her they come up with an excuse. I think they are jealous of my family. I told my husband I was tired of begging to see a child that's not mind and having to pretend to like two people who repluse me. I told the mother and grandmother I was sick of asking to see her and that when they get ready to let her come over to call. I am just so sick of dealing with them and hearing them try to make my husband look bad. I have my own life and kids to deal with. Should I give up?

2006-12-03 05:08:53 · 8 answers · asked by bamagrits84 3 in Family

This girl who was a former crush of me. Fell for her. Previously we used to text each other frequently. It gone less. but still we text each other. I give her wake up call everyday as she has problem waking up in the morning to work. 3 days back I express a bit of myself to her. then she start ignoring my text until i text her asking what time she need to wake up the next day. she reply. following the next few days. she did not reply and i get her meaning. I will move on. However should i give her a wake up call tomorrow?

2006-12-03 05:08:45 · 11 answers · asked by Eddy W 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay my toy is really soft and smooth....and whenever i touch it and rub it, becomes tight. Whenever i spend long periods of time playing with my toy, it starts to become wet and even smoother....
i really enjoy playing with it. so why do my best friends want me to stop playing with it? i tell them that i dont want to give it up and throw it away, but they dont understand how my toy helps me pick up jocks and sexy girls alike.
This is where you all come in.....i need you to give me a thorough and honest answer to this question....i need time to vent. Let me get my toy......

Sydney Bree

2006-12-03 05:07:50 · 11 answers · asked by Little Black Riding Hood 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so there is this guy i like and we went to the dance sort of together (my date was being odd so i caught a ride with the guy to the dance and we ended up staying together the entire time) and he danced with me every slow dance except for one and held my hands and was really acting like he liked me, but then one day someone told him that i liked him and he said he liked me to, but didnt want to date me, and now he is doing the same thing to a friend and he keeps telling her that he never liked me. im not sure if i like him anymore, but i dont understand why he did this to me, and im still hurt. help please! i need to move on!

2006-12-03 05:06:20 · 9 answers · asked by Ash 3 in Singles & Dating

I just hope this dosent sound obserd,Im in need of a friend .someone to talk to literally and have fun with .when I engage in convo, it aleays gets deep and I blurt out too much that I'm feeling inside and some look at me like I have issues ,that only makes me feel more depressed and unwanted.I find myself searching and longing for childhood friends,as if it was a favorite doll that was lost and its the only thing that made me happy, thats how I feel about finding that loyal friend who understands me ,I have a kind heart and I noticethe essence in peoples hearts that others don't because Ive been hurt.but I feel alone inside.It's just in my lifetime of hurt ,fake friends take my emotions and joke about them,I'm not some sort of freak ,I grew to not even want to be around crowds because I feel like everyone can see thru me and see that I 'm lonely and laugh and taunt with my wanting to belong, even growing up I always found myself wanting to belong at ahome and in school.Is this normal

2006-12-03 05:06:01 · 10 answers · asked by blessings78 1 in Friends

2006-12-03 05:05:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are certifiably crazy on this site? And why do they gravitate to me?

2006-12-03 05:05:29 · 30 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

I really liked this guy then he asked me to the Christmas dance. I said yes, ofcourse. Now the whole school knows and makes fun of us all the time. He is really peeved and i don't know what to say to all those kids who always go like "Gawd, you are going with him?" What should i do? Do you think he will break up with me?

2006-12-03 05:05:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think a man if he doenst want sex with his wife in two weeks and takes care of himself ,although always says he loves you is strange.I just think he is not into you ..........I give up ! What do u think?

2006-12-03 05:04:16 · 15 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband put a receipt from a motel in his vehicle so he knew I could find it, why did he let me find out he was cheating on me?

2006-12-03 05:03:46 · 33 answers · asked by may s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 05:03:10 · 3 answers · asked by Rerose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when I am in his sight? I notice it everytime but I know I shouldn't let it bother me. My other friends say that he is a jerk and is really bossy, thinking that he is right about everything. He used to be my best friend before we started dating but now when I try to be myself around him, he flirts with my best friend and makes me feel like crapy? Why do ex's do that? Does that mean that they want to back but want to hurt you first because I don't get it? And if he did want me back, why wouldn't he tell me? Is he stared of being rejected because I see no point at all? Please help!!!!

2006-12-03 05:03:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes when i think of the girl i love, i will have some 'dirty' thoughts. and when i look at pictures we took together, SOMETIMES i tend to look below her neck.. is this considered pervertic?

2006-12-03 05:02:46 · 10 answers · asked by advisor 1 in Singles & Dating

please ladies help me out!I feel my wife of 14 yrs may be going through a pre mid life chrises.she is having an affiar with some younger guy ,we are 32 and 33 yrs old and she is loosing weight like its going out of style.she says she feels better like that.and defefnds her 25 yr old fling.dam I dont feel like living anymore, the woman I've been married to for 14 yrs is trying to leave me in the dirt for some younger guy wholives with mommy and says he understands her .she married with 2 kids for gods sake and this assh-le.doesnt give a dam all he sees is booty I think.I love and am in love with my wife ,why the hell is she doing this to me after I've dedicated my life to her and only her.these days shes making up any excuse just to justify why she is doing what shes doing.shes got deppression problems and sorry to say but now its me whos depressed.Icant take it no more.are there any ladies out there who have gone through this?

2006-12-03 05:02:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-03 05:01:35 · 17 answers · asked by Jim R 1 in Singles & Dating

I am true romantic, so I would like to know how you met your spouse and how you got engaged?

2006-12-03 05:01:09 · 14 answers · asked by BritLdy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We have a 7 month old baby and now another girl is 5 months pregnant with his baby. whenever i ask him what his feelings are he tells me that he doesnt love her but they have contact and everything. Im sure i want to move on but i dont know how to forget him. Im now living alone with my baby and its not easy cuz im a student and i have no family in this country to help me im completely alone. Have no money to do somethings which will distract me from my husband. Please help me what should i do???

2006-12-03 05:00:53 · 10 answers · asked by natty t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she wants me to go but i dont think is such a good idea and i dont know what to do If anyone can tell me what should i do n give me sum tips i would be gratefull

2006-12-03 05:00:19 · 3 answers · asked by EG 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean what do u love the most after your girlfrnd/boyfrnd (if any,lol but every1 has) ???

2006-12-03 04:58:28 · 6 answers · asked by Choclate thunder 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive known my girlfriend for over a year and i knew i really liked her straight away. She liked me too but she had a boyfriend at the time. We became really close though and just over a month ago she broke up with the b/f and is with me now. We've officially been together over a month and i told her i love her and she told me she loves me.......is it too soon to say something like that? To be honest i knew i loved her after a couple of months. How long do people normally wait to say something like this?

2006-12-03 04:57:46 · 26 answers · asked by macmurphy45 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 04:57:38 · 5 answers · asked by Khaled Y 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 04:57:13 · 1 answers · asked by vinnie g 1 in Singles & Dating

i have liked this woman for a couple of years but i didnt do anything about it as she was with someone so i moved on and dated other people..but now she is single but dealing with the break up....i told her i have always liked her..she was surprised..she told me she has stuff to deal with so she wasnt saying yes or no to us dating..but we have slept together since and her ex is playing mind games with her.. i have tried backing off to give her space to get over her ex but i like her a lot and its hard...and i dont like to see her hurting..what do i do??

2006-12-03 04:57:04 · 4 answers · asked by kiwitboi 1 in Singles & Dating

STATE IF YOU ARE A MAN OR WOMEN.

2006-12-03 04:55:58 · 21 answers · asked by Gianda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

but the other... well she is sorta a problem child. she is over weight and is really laxy she is making it seems like she is so helpless when really she is a lazzy bum! she went to camp to try and change herself but now she is still wearing the same old stupid boy cloths. also she is not that great of a student. so, my mom is always mad because shes off screwing up something which makes my step dad (rene) mad because my mom is yelling about how caroline (the step sis) is bad and then they get in a fight. also my reall dad is on the side and hes a bad person/father but when i am with him he makes it seem like hes really great even though i know hes not but i just cant help thinking hes a good dad (i KNOW hes not) Also my blood related sis and I used to be rEALLY close and now she is a bi t ch. Sometimes I feel far away form the family and that caroline is taking my mom away. I just wish that things were like they used to be with just my mom, my sis, and me. wht do i do?????

2006-12-03 04:55:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-03 04:54:51 · 5 answers · asked by Confused66 1 in Singles & Dating

dude if u saw her u would shiet urself and puke at the same freaking time. this chick is horrible. she also is not sociable, dun know how to eat right and yes ladies and gentlemen she is fat and literaly( i am not being an as,s,hole this is true) deformed. her fore arms are nasty as_s shiet. jeeeeses! christ! u would not believe it. however my bro loves this little biach, and it appears as if their relationship is getting serious. and dont get me wrong, my brother is an athletic and good looking guy, and there is gorgeous chicks that would love to be with him, however the reason he chose this dinosaur remains a mistery to me. i am not an a,ss hole but serioulsy the prospect of having my nephews and nieces to be deforemed and probably retarded, and my brother suffering and sheding tears like crazy just sickens me to my stomach, so i ask if anyone could assist me in getting rid of this plague, this subhuman trex looking like character and help my family to get out this nightmare.

2006-12-03 04:54:48 · 29 answers · asked by Fortew3 1 in Family

I like this boy but i have a boyfriend and this boy i like is my boyfriends friend and he also has a girfriend and his girlfriend is my bestfriend! What should i do because i really this guy and i really like my boyfriend but since this guy i like is my boyfriends bestfriend and his girlfriend is my best friend i feel really bad about it! But..it is so much easier for me to talk to this other guy that i like than it is for me to talk to my boyfriend i just feel so much more confortable around him!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

2006-12-03 04:54:42 · 5 answers · asked by Jordin 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-03 04:54:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Umm...confused - everyone's opinion appreciated !!!?
just 3 nights before,i told my 3 month crush that i like him & he replied with a "i would have said yes,but i'm not looking for a relationship right now & i like someone else".he was VERY sweet abt it & we spent an hour talking abt life in general.

now,bear in mind that happened at this youth grp we attend & that was actually the last day of school too.so i won't be seeing him at school for 5 weeks.but i will b seeing him during the hols cos my friends are having a cookout thing at my place & he's coming too(generally,we'll be having a lot of hangouts this season).

ok! so,my question is,how should i act around him,now that he & everyone knows.there's nothing to hide.(i'm usually very shy around him & don't talk to him as much as i do with my other friends but after that conversation,how should i act?)my usual self?like hyper & very friendly?

thanks & ppl,i'm 17 so don't tell me 'go around & play with my barbie dolls'...i'm just learning to face certain challenges.hehe :^)

2006-12-03 04:53:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends