I just hope this dosent sound obserd,Im in need of a friend .someone to talk to literally and have fun with .when I engage in convo, it aleays gets deep and I blurt out too much that I'm feeling inside and some look at me like I have issues ,that only makes me feel more depressed and unwanted.I find myself searching and longing for childhood friends,as if it was a favorite doll that was lost and its the only thing that made me happy, thats how I feel about finding that loyal friend who understands me ,I have a kind heart and I noticethe essence in peoples hearts that others don't because Ive been hurt.but I feel alone inside.It's just in my lifetime of hurt ,fake friends take my emotions and joke about them,I'm not some sort of freak ,I grew to not even want to be around crowds because I feel like everyone can see thru me and see that I 'm lonely and laugh and taunt with my wanting to belong, even growing up I always found myself wanting to belong at ahome and in school.Is this normal
2006-12-03 05:06:01 · 10 answers · asked by blessings78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am the same way I have been burned by to mant of my friends and just keep a few around. But you need not to put your life on hold because of these friends who hurt you in the past. Not everyone will use you then toss you out. Go and get a social life find people who make you happy life is to short to be lonely.
2006-12-03 05:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Its normal.
Me too though.
I need a friend too. Maybe a few of them. Everybody has issues. Its ok to blurt out whatever you want to say. Thats what friends are for.
Its sounds to me like you need to get some kinda protective something around yourself so other people can't hurt you as much though. If somebody takes your emotions and plays with them or jokes, its not you has the problem then, its them so just don't even worry about that. Just get away and stay away from people who do that. Nurture your own strength. Its good to be a kind perceptive person. Just don't let other people take advantage of that.
2006-12-03 14:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its normal. Sounds like you could use a little help though. Talk to your doctor about this. He/She may be able to help. I went through the same when I was young and my doc gave me something for the depression and I regained my confidence and started a whole new, happy life. I understand that pills might not be for everyone but at least talk to your doc about some steps to take. Once you start feeling better and you gain some confidence, you can share your wonderful personality with the world.
2006-12-03 13:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal - i was the same when i was younger.
i have friends now, but none that date back more than 4 years (1'm 22 now).
I found that going out and getting a hobby or a job - somewhere where u will meet new people - will introduce u to different people than u know at school, and will give u the confidence to make and retain friends.
go slowly with new people, u don't have to tell them everything about u. listen to them!
good luck :)
2006-12-03 13:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still sounding so sad...again...you need to stop being so sensitive. Get some hobbies...enroll your (out of control 4 year old) in tumbeling or something. You will make friends. Try to figure out what the problem is and then work on changing it. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Smile for a change!!!
2006-12-04 22:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by ascloud@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that way. I have a couple friends but I know they talk about me and they don't listen when I speak. My boyfriend says to ignore that because someone is always going to be talking about me. I have trust issues just like you. When you meet someone give them a chance, hang out with them and have a good time. I try not to let it bother me that people talk about me.
2006-12-03 13:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to chill out and relax...stop worrying about what other people think.....you are just an extra sensitive person who needs to feel out people BEFORE you tell them your life story.
you would be amazed at how many people feel the same way you do....so id agree and say its normal...you just gotta pick your chin up and love yourself enough and show everyone that your cool to be around :)
2006-12-03 16:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need someone to talk to talk to me i dont think it would be strange yeah im a stranger so i dont think their would be a possible way for me to hurt you but if you want to talk then you can talk to me anytime
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2006-12-03 13:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe for u but for me it would be a nightmare
2006-12-03 13:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry , everything will be fine dear..happy to be your friend. ^_^
2006-12-03 13:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Angel Of Fallen Stars*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋