when I am in his sight? I notice it everytime but I know I shouldn't let it bother me. My other friends say that he is a jerk and is really bossy, thinking that he is right about everything. He used to be my best friend before we started dating but now when I try to be myself around him, he flirts with my best friend and makes me feel like crapy? Why do ex's do that? Does that mean that they want to back but want to hurt you first because I don't get it? And if he did want me back, why wouldn't he tell me? Is he stared of being rejected because I see no point at all? Please help!!!!
2006-12-03 05:03:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You broke his heart so he is being stupid by flirting with the best friend just ignore him and move on it will be OK once he sees that it does not bother you he will move on
2006-12-03 05:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like too many games to me. Life is too short to get caught up in that kind of drama. Find someone who doesnt play so many games. Or, maybe he really is interested in your friend and he does flirt with her when you are not around and you friend doesnt want to hurt your feelings by telling you. Boy, I'm glad I don't have to date anymore! Good Luck! P.S. If the second idea is right, it is nice of your friend to try to save your feelings. If it is really over with him, it shouldn't matter who he is flirting with.
2006-12-03 05:09:33 · answer #2 · answered by Yomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple, if you dumped him his pride is hurting and that's how the male population normally deal with it, if he dumped you then he wants you to always have him in your thoughts so if he decides he wants to come back then he could as you wouldn't be over him.
My advice is you need to try for best to get over him and even go somewhere else to help stop seeing him.
Good luck hun.
2006-12-03 05:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by JD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is flirting with your best friend he is probably just doing it to get your attention. If he didnt want your attention he wouldnt even be talking to her. He probably dosnt want to tell you that he wants you back because he is scared that you might not feel the same way. Dont listen to what your friends say about him, if you want to be with him then be with im. Its ok to listen to their advice but not if its not what you want to do!
2006-12-03 05:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by ashley m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey don't worry. He didn't think that you meant so much to him. And now he wants to make up with you, but since he doesn't know what to expect from you, he's just trying to see what your reaction would be.....whether you care or you don't..........if you don't want to make up with him, then just ignore him..........otherwise show him that it hurts you ...........
2006-12-03 05:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by confusd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might like your friend. Don't let it bother you though, it's his choice and you can't do anything about what he feels.
2006-12-03 05:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by Everything falls apart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone you don't deserve that piece of crap
find a better guy or slap the sh*t out of him
2006-12-03 05:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
pfft get over urself, he might just like ur best friend...not always about u chick
2006-12-03 05:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is trying to make you jealous. find a mature man.
2006-12-03 05:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by intelligent80000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋