I think a man if he doenst want sex with his wife in two weeks and takes care of himself ,although always says he loves you is strange.I just think he is not into you ..........I give up ! What do u think?
2006-12-03 05:04:16 · 15 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What exactly do you mean by "takes care of himself?" Don't bother going into details if it's dirty but it is a little vague. If he isn't interested in sex, see if you can get him to see your doctor. It could be a physical problem.
2006-12-03 05:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do I think of a man who doesn't take care of his image and doesn't want to have sex with you but still says that he loves you?
Usually, whenever a situation like this occurs occasionally, this man might have something on his mind. Normally a man (and this also counts for women) has to have thoughts which he feels strongly for in order for them to be taking over his life like this, be it hygiene or sex.
Apart from this, saying those three magical words is a way of showing that he still cares and that he still loves you, you can read his lips when he tells you that he loves you but do you read his eyes? Sometimes, eyes talk more.
You have to talk to him before making facts. And when I say 'talk' I don't mean that conversation where you throw vases and kitchen appliances at each other. No, arguing won't solve anything...
"I love you" is an amazing phrase. It's nice to hear it once in a while but it's better when this phrase is shown.
2006-12-03 13:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by Riana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jessy, dear....you have said that your man does not wear his wedding ring, he drinks, you have asked about depression and sexual orientation. You also state he does not necessarily require intercourse.
I think, dear, that you are not in a marriage situation. Why did the ex wife divorce him?
I think it is time to give up, too. Its just too hard. Your focus is constantly on his inappropriate behaviors. Maybe it's time to pretend you aren't involved in his mess. Maybe when you wake up in the morning you need to ask yourself what you need or want today. Fulfill your own needs independent of his participation. Remember what you used to do to occupy your time before he came along. Do you still enjoy that? Go do it. Visit your best friend. Take a class, get out of the house.....be your own best friend.
Once you have had some time not focusing on his behaviors, ask yourself if your relationship with him is one where he is fulfilling his promise to love, honor and cherish you. If this isn't happening, and there is no respect or trust, you may need to make some serious decisions.
2006-12-03 13:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I my husband had not had sex with me in two weeks and there is not some good reason (what i have NO idea) but anyway i would so some serious talks need to go on and some therapy if the marriage has any chance to make it.
2006-12-03 13:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by picture 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A woman's capacity to enjoy sex is far greater than a man's. While men are usually more aggressive about sex, they usually do not want it as often as women who have learned to enjoy it. When a man makes love, his sex drive usually declines immediately afterward, sometimes for a week or more.
Sex drive alone is not usually what motivates women--it is their desire to be loved and accepted. Sex makes them feel desirable, and more secure in their relationship.
You and your husband may have a loving and affectionate relationship, and he may definitely be interested in you sexually, but maybe he does not equate sex with being accepted. So for him, his sex drive is all that motivates him to make love, and that happens, for most men, about two or three times a week. In his case, it may be even less often.
2006-12-03 13:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Come on grow up!Why does it always have to be sex,sex sex!do u xpect him to perform all the time?and he shows he really cares about you by doing his things himself and not just boss over you.
2006-12-03 13:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by money money 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happen to me and my ex (he was my bf at the time) he said that he was tired or that we do it all of the time or too much I was thinkin that maybe there is something wrong with him. and I asked him was he cheating or somethin, and he said no, but it just felt like it. He wasn't though, i would've killed him. just try new things, role play, buy new Lingerie, surprise him with a gift, cook naked, do something spontaneous.
2006-12-03 13:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by Honey83 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might have rejected him too many times. If you did, ask him for sex instead of waiting
2006-12-03 13:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by kayef57 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A marriage is not based solely on sex. If you think that it is, your marriage is almost guaranteed to end.
2006-12-03 13:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it's kind of strange too. maybe it doesn't feel like the right time for him, maybe he needs it to be special. i think he loves you and is showng you that by not forcing you to have sex.
~slacker
2006-12-03 13:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by santaz_lil_slacker 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋