i have liked this woman for a couple of years but i didnt do anything about it as she was with someone so i moved on and dated other people..but now she is single but dealing with the break up....i told her i have always liked her..she was surprised..she told me she has stuff to deal with so she wasnt saying yes or no to us dating..but we have slept together since and her ex is playing mind games with her.. i have tried backing off to give her space to get over her ex but i like her a lot and its hard...and i dont like to see her hurting..what do i do??
2006-12-03 04:57:04 · 4 answers · asked by kiwitboi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've been friends with her for awhile now and she knows that you have feelings for her. The best thing to do is just give her the space she needs. You cant make someone love you. She knows how you feel and if she has the same feelings for you, she'll come to you. So just wait and be patient. Theres really nothing much more you can do, even though you see her in pain. Just be there for her when she needs you.
2006-12-03 05:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be like most of us guys and want to run in and be the knight in shining armor. you got to be there for her first, give it time to fester and let your relationship bloom. start by being her close freind. if she dates another guy right after this and its not you, STAY ON THE SADDLE. dont take it personally because all that is is a rebound and those dont last long at all. you could see it as almost a good thing because the one after the rebound normally is the one that stays on as the new bf! but like i said be her freind, even if it takes a while to get there you will eventually get there. i knew a girl once and left and saw her 5 years later, ruined it by charging in to fast, dont do that. be her best guy freind and by doing that it will by default soon bump u up to her bf! good luck man
2006-12-03 13:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by slaughterhousex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know your feelings But dont pressure her! dont get involved till the path is clear!
2006-12-03 13:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by MICHAEL J P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just be there for her until she gets over this other guy, then she will probably come to you.
2006-12-03 12:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋