I like this boy but i have a boyfriend and this boy i like is my boyfriends friend and he also has a girfriend and his girlfriend is my bestfriend! What should i do because i really this guy and i really like my boyfriend but since this guy i like is my boyfriends bestfriend and his girlfriend is my best friend i feel really bad about it! But..it is so much easier for me to talk to this other guy that i like than it is for me to talk to my boyfriend i just feel so much more confortable around him!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?????
2006-12-03 04:54:42 · 5 answers · asked by Jordin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should feel a little bad but don't beat yourself up about it.
Your best friend and her boyfriend may be crazy about each other and may have a good and rare thing going on... don't disturb that... leave them alone and let their relationship take it's course. They deserve that opportunity. You want them to be happy don't you?
With your boyfriend... just work at talking to him. Depending on how long you've been together maybe you've reached a plateau in your relationship and you are bored & who's the closest to be looking at? His best friend.
If you like your boyfriend, start talking about different things...out of your normal topics... like maybe what was on the discovery channel or what's going on in the news... Maybe you'll find out something new and exciting about him and visa versa.
Or...
Maybe you need to be single for a while to sort yourself out. Get to know yourself and what you really want in life not who you want because 'the grass is always greener on the otherside'. Maybe he'd be a lousy boyfriend for you and not your best friend... people are different with different people. (Hope you get what I'm saying)
Just be friends with the guy you like... no reason to mess up 4 people's lives by revealing a crush.
Be patient, listen to everyone and relax.
Think about bigger problems in the world.
Keep the peace in your own back yard. Don't create a drama. Things have a way of working out over time... they really do.
2006-12-03 05:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Gigi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, wait for the right moment, and as it comes and then make the right decision. If you believe that he is worth all that you care for and if u are ready to take a risk, then go on take a chance and open up to this guy.....and check if he has the same feelings for you......hey you will do well, don't worry. Best of luck.........
2006-12-03 13:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by confusd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to sit down with your boyfreind and talk things out. there is a reason that you are having issues talking to him. are you nervous when you are around him? if you are of proper dating age maybe around 17 + you could try and think the reson why you are nervous around him is that you are actually with someone tha tyou might consider staying with most of your life or see somewhat of a future with. if your in junior high or the low highschool stick with your bf this is just elementry stuff that you shouldnt worry about, its not worth ruining 3 good freinds to date on guy that you "think" you like.
2006-12-03 12:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by slaughterhousex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him & tell him how you feel ; but if youu don`t like your boyfriend anymore then just break up with him ; because you`re going to be in a relationship you don`t really want.
2006-12-03 12:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy Pookie ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait it out and see what happens.... wait untill they break up and eventually break up with your bf. then flirt with him
2006-12-03 12:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by himynameisbrandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋