there is this guy...?

Question

okay so there is this guy i like and we went to the dance sort of together (my date was being odd so i caught a ride with the guy to the dance and we ended up staying together the entire time) and he danced with me every slow dance except for one and held my hands and was really acting like he liked me, but then one day someone told him that i liked him and he said he liked me to, but didnt want to date me, and now he is doing the same thing to a friend and he keeps telling her that he never liked me. im not sure if i like him anymore, but i dont understand why he did this to me, and im still hurt. help please! i need to move on!

Answer 1

Sweetheart, the boy has issues: he seems to like the power he gets by wanting you to want him, but he's too shallow (or immature) to take it to the commitment level. He likes playing games with people's feelings, and you're lucky to be rid of him so soon.
Find a guy who says what he means and will be there for you tomorrow, and forget about this loser.
And don't blame yourself for this, some people just like to hurt other people and you were in the wrong place at the wrong time. It doesn't make sense, but that's just the way it is sometimes.

I hope this helps.

Answer 2

I know how you feel. I know a guy like that. Maybe hes afraid of commitment. Some guys dont want to be in relationships because
1: they want to explore all options first.
or
2: they dont want do deal with all the problems that comes with relationship and are in it for the fun.
Either way, this probably isnt the right guy for you. He seems as if he doesnt know what he want. Dont let him fool you. He might be treating pleanty of girls the same way. Your better off waiting for someone else. Any more questions .. e-mail me at [e-mail] =)

Answer 3

If this guys 'suddenly' decided that he doesn't like you anymore, you need to ask, did he really like you in the first place? I know it's hard but a guy like that is most likely using his charm to get into a girls pants.

You are so much better than him, so what you need to do is just laugh at how pathetic he is and forget about him! When you find a guy who likes you for more than what he can get, you'll thank your lucky stars you had an easy escape!

Answer 4

ok

i'll tell u what to do

if i wanna know if he likes u or not.....
Do the same as he does.

Choose a guy (a friend of u) and ask him to do u a favor.

And go out with him in the same place that guy goes to with the other girl.

If the guy likes u he'll come to u and ask u what are u doing with that friend.

Or try to forget what happened bcoz i see that he was just having fun and good time and he never liked u.

Answer 5

What a jerk well Ash someday you will find a better guy for now cut your losses and know someday a better person will come along but most of all respect and like yourself to heck with that jerk !

Answer 6

Maybe he liked you, but he liked your friend too, and he didn't know which one to pick. Or maybe there was a miscommunication which happens a lot. Maybe he couldn't date a the time. Or maybe he didn't like you enough to go out with you.

Answer 7

One word... asswhole.. if your friend was really a friend shed see where your commming from and not put up with the b.s that hes giving out.If he was really worthy half of your, time he wouldnt treat you this way

Answer 8

He is probablly a gentlemen but has a girlfriend. If not he is not allowed to have a girlfriend. Or just doesn't want a girlfriend at the moment.

Answer 9

Move on
He was just probably using you,donm't their are more
fish in the sea