Guy One: Right now this one is my boyfriend. He's not the hottest guy in school but as of what I've seen so far he's nice. We have alot of similiar interests and I find him fairly funny and I have a really big crush on him. Although oftne he acts like an idiot and does immature things. He's also friends with a couple of my enemies at school. Ontop of this no one in family approves of him and all my friends think I shouldn't 'waste' my time on him too. We're both friends with a guy I've known alot longer who's asked me out more times then I can count. I don't like his friend but I know his friend likes me. Alot. I'm afraid to hurt his friend since he's so nice to me.
Guy Two: This guy is VERY shy, funny, and nice. He's really nice to me and always tries to make me laugh. He's a year or two older then me and he's my older brother's friend. My mom says he likes me but I'm not sure. I like him, maybe just as much as Guy One, and my family and friends 'approve.'
2006-12-03 04:36:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
'Hot' guys don't always make the best husbands. They have a certain thing about themselves that other sense and this makes others to not trust them. Your family is absolutely correct in their feelings about him and you should appreciate your family and trust their instincts about him because they're only thinking about you in the long run - they just don't want to see you get hurt.
Guy two; sounds like the one for you. He is the good one because; your older brother really knows about him otherwise he wouldn't be his friend and your family really likes him. Go with your family - this guy sounds like a winner with a bright future and he will be the best for you. Remember, always trust your family's instinct about people. They've been around longer than you and they can always spot the good and the bad.
2006-12-03 04:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the final analysis pick the the one that you have the most in common with...if it is going to be a lasting relationship you will need more than just looks...if he make you laugh,and at the same time knows when and how to treat serious matters,it sounds like it may be the right balance...I would pick the guy behind door number two!
2006-12-03 12:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by iamhhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that your family approves but it's up to you to decide, it's what you like, not them. Guy number one sounds alright, guys have immature times and everything. Guy number two sounds good. Basically I'd say hang out with number two and see how it goes, it could grow into something and if you know the both of you like each other well enough, you can leave guy number one.
2006-12-03 12:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither:
Focus on growing up, school, getting into a good college.
You don't need this stuff distracting you right now. Be a strong independent girl so you can grow into a strong independent woman and find a strong independent man to share your life with when the time is right.
2006-12-03 12:43:25 · answer #4 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks has nothing to do with it. Choose the guy that makes you the most happy, who treats you right, and makes you feel great.
2006-12-03 12:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose the guy you think you could be longer with. personally i think guy one he sounds like he has a great personality, guys that goof off are cool with me as long as they are serius when it comes to relationships, ihes hot so i think you are good how you are but if you guys ever brake up, then you should go out with the next guy you feel best with :] :D
2006-12-03 12:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by all_4_the_boyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One.
2006-12-03 12:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The very fact that you are having to ask, shows you shouldn't be with either. You're young - don't get tied down. Just have fun.
2006-12-03 12:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by Agony Aunt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares you are in school and should be thinking about that and then college or some other type of school.
2006-12-03 12:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't receive baggage and you won't have any. Choose a person that is not so complicated and especially not one that plays games especially yourself, it complicates your life.
2006-12-03 12:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋