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How can I get them to shut up about this?
Okay there is this boy I really like and I have liked him on and off for 3 years
But I have liked him alot all year
Last night at the dance every1 who knew about me liking him (I accedentally told a blabbermouth about it) and they were all either bugging me to make a move on him and ask him to dance or telling him to ask me to dance and I never ask guys to dance I think its there job. But I told them to stop so many times and it was embarresing and I had to just keep walking off

How can I get them to stop this crap

I cant say anything like "i like him, so what" because they do this stuff when he is RIGHT NEXT TO ME
Im not really sure if I really wanna let him know I like him because I havent really had great bf experiences

2006-12-03 04:50:49 · 13 answers · asked by Skittles 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

i think with all those people talking about you to he probably knows that you like him. but that's okay. just take a deep breath and hear me out. don't make a big deal out of liking him, cuz, trust me that doesn't help anything. and next time someone opens their mouth ignore them and don't let them get to you so easily. if you like him, good. if he likes you to, great. but if he doesn't that's great too. there will be plenty of time to deal with boys, but i learned that my future with a job and a lot of degrees is way moe important than who i'm gonna dance with now, marry later and then have kids with.

~slacker

2006-12-03 04:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by santaz_lil_slacker 2 · 0 0

Ha ha ha I absolutely have da similar challenge except I absolutely have 2 wrk wiv da 30 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous dat fancies me like im purely 16! i tried tellin him that and that i had a b/f and he nonetheless didnt get the point on the same time after I informed him 2 piss of and leaf me on my own yet a minimum of hes given up phoning me about 6 situations on a saturday nighgt after ive performed a shift with him LOL u imagine youve were given complications get a lady pal to come back round and pretend shes ur g/f dat might want to get the pint accross

2016-11-23 14:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

the young man should have gotten the word through the grape-vine... yea.. you should ask him too dance.. or talk.. or what ever.. your g/f are acting a bit childish....

next time you see your romeo make up some lame excuse to walk over and talk with him.. just a causual high... sorry about my g'f acting so weird kind of thing... blaa, blaaa, blaaa... you will become a better person buy steping out of your comfy zone a bit... if you get shot down.. then oh. well.. at least you tried and just didn't giggle about it like your friends...

seize the day....

2006-12-03 04:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0 1

I think this is childish. just tell him you like him. whats the big deal. Since he hasn't said anything like "eww" or "no way" then he probably likes you too. And what's wrong with girls asking guys out??? You think guys don't have enough pressure. They practise like probably everyday how they are going to ask that girl out. Just go up to him and say hey do you like me? (make sure he is alone when you ask him) So he doesnt have any pressure from his friends.

2006-12-03 04:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Haley 2 · 0 0

Tell them it's none of this business. And besides now that the boy you like knows that you actually like him, what are you afraid of? Ask him out and leave it to him to either say yes or no.

2006-12-03 04:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by Callie 2 · 0 0

He must already know. It would probably be better to tell him because if he doesn't end up liking you back then it'll all be over and done with.

Kids are stupid. If telling them not to say stuff doesn't work.... I don't know. Just say "mind your own business!!!!!" or something. That's tough.

2006-12-03 04:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

your friends are immature and childish and that is what children do. If they do this and he is next to you then he hears this stuff to so it is no secret now. You can't get them to stop they know is bothers you so they will keep doing it.

2006-12-03 04:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by picture 1 · 0 0

Don't tell your friends too many things, especially if you don't want them too involved.

2006-12-03 04:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by andra s 2 · 0 0

i think you should just ignore them. if you dont react, then it wont be any fun for them to make fun of you anymore so they will stop!

2006-12-03 04:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by Ash 3 · 0 0

Just ignore them...!
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2006-12-03 04:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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