Men always seem to gravitate towards those women that look like a stiff wind is going to blow them over. Or the the ones that haven't had a decent meal in years. Examples, Lindsay Lohan, Nicole Ritchie, Paris Hilton, Pam Anderson (only thing keeping her vertical is her implants). These aren't average body types. So i'm a little confused as to why they seem to be what men want the woman they date to look like. It's down right scary and unrealistic.
2006-12-03 04:43:05 · 12 answers · asked by BonnieBlackLass 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, to add something. Being curvy, big or overweight doesn't mean unhealthy or that they don't care how they looked. This is a tad TMI, but I think some of the narrow minded people need it. For example...I am 5'4,190lbs and very active, I work out, eat right, and dance when ever I get the chance. Being thin (which I don't want to be) is not in the books for me (happy) per Doctors statement. I'v never been told that I was ugly and I'm not attracted to men with perfect bodies or faces. So what's the big deal?
2006-12-03 05:09:50 · update #1
i think women are more obsessed with womens bodies than men are ie is my bum big, are my boobs too small/big. Its all the womens magazines comparing womens bodies. A lot of men just prefer slimmer ladies over larger curvy gals and vice versa. Its personal taste. Also, if you dont think if somebody being large is a big deal..... stop banging on about it. It seems that you have the issue with weight not other people.
2006-12-03 05:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by theoriginalsource 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with theoriginalsource. Its women that are obsessed, not men. Women's magazines are the problem, pointing out every little problem with female celebrities - with pictures and quotes like 'OMG Paris Hilton has cellulite' of course she has, no one is perfect and no woman on earth will have a life free of some body hang-up. You said it yourself in your question, 'her implants' - she's fake and they all have teams of people dedicated to their appearance, the really beautiful women are those with kids, partners and jobs with no limos and personal trainers that still manage to look stunning when they need to. Every woman is stunning, black, white, tall or short and there is a man for every woman.
Yes, some men are idiots that want the 'fittest chick' they can get hold of, but alot of women are like that too. Im sure most men would say they like slim/curvy girls and not what is perceived as 'fat' - but if that girl was charismatic, caring and funny, they wouldn't turn her down if they had half a brain cell.
As if it doesn't matter anyway, beauty can fade, you get wrinkles, dieases, fat, you have children, these all affect your exterior. Your personality is the important thing - you will never lose that.
Any guy that turns down a woman solely on looks isnt worth it anyway, and vice verse.
xx
2006-12-03 14:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by statichattie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think most men are. I think that the fashion industry and health clubs WANT you to think that that's what most men want, but just like hair color (do most men REALLY like blondes?), eye color, or height, different men like different things.
The truth about Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie is that most guys think they're, well, trashy, for the lack of a better word (and some guys DO like trashy women). They're kind of like the traffic accident you just can't look away from.
I think that if you like how you look, then who cares what other people think. Don't let the media tell you how to think.
2006-12-03 13:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mitch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows? Maybe some men just like how they can lift a woman with one hand and eat with the other. Then again some men just want a woman who's healthy enough to do the things they wanna do. But sometimes some bodies just don't look healthy at all.
2006-12-03 13:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by Iileen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men dont like fat chicks! Its a known fact. They want women that can take of their bodies. Well America is fat and getting fatter. I also agree with what your saying yes it is unrealistic but thats the way men are.
2006-12-03 12:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just nature. We are programmed to seek out the healthiest individuals to mate with even if we are not thinking about it. Women do it too. If a women weighs 300 lbs and cant find a guy then I am sure if she asked a 350 lb guy on a date he would love it.
2006-12-03 12:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like every and anything. Especially thick girls. Mmmm MMM mmmm. But to answer your question, society and every form of media that influences it...pushes this out. Magazine ads...tv ads..everything. People believe thats what all men want. I will tell you right now..if a guy likes you for you...shape..size...whatever wont even matter.
2006-12-03 13:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by ILoveHotgirlsInBed 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same reason women are stuck on men with rock hard abs and chiseled bodies. It goes both ways.
2006-12-03 12:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were all created perfectly! focus on how beautiful you are, and trust me guys like their women better with meat on their bones, they feel its sexy. Plus think about it if you were a guy, wouldn't you pick a more voluptuous chick? Bones dint really appeal to me..how about you?
2006-12-03 13:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by Rerose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a man so I can't answer your question. But I totally agree with what you are saying.
2006-12-03 12:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by LovingAngelsInstead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋