OK so im 13 and my boyfriends 14 and he asked me can i take a shower with him......i scared to take a shower with him because it might lead straight to sex....should i or no??????HELP ME!!!!!!!!
2006-12-03 04:43:22 · 33 answers · asked by Alexia S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! That is a very bad idea
2006-12-03 05:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are wise beyond your years and your feelings are exactly correct. Horomones do funny things to young men; they just think about sex and nothing else. If he wants to take a shower with you - say NO. Besides, 13 is just too young to be doing these types of things. If you were over 18 - living together - then it would be part of your relationship. Anyone under 18 does not really understand anything about relationships anyway. If this is all he wants - move on. Focus on school and your future. You are only a child and you need to enjoy your childhood. The last thing you need is to get pregnant. If he insists on taking a shower with you - say no and tell him to take it with someone else. Stay with you gut instinct - he's not worth taking the chance with. You can find someone else who will respect you.
2006-12-03 04:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, no way. Dont do this!!! U would regret about it much. First time should be in a right time, with a right guy, in a right place and when u r totally ready! Not with a 14 yo guy, who cant really know how to make it right 4 u. Not, while being 13, when u r not really ready for this. And obviously bath is not the best place 4 such a romantic event. So wait till u r older, till u r really ready, till u r sure this is the proper guy and till guys around u r experienced enough to make it unforgettable!
2006-12-03 04:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by JUSTGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, if it that tempting to begin with don't take a shower with him, at 13 you shouldn't even be thinking about getting naked with a boyfriend, you should be going to movies holding hands and kissing, but not much else.
2006-12-03 04:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sublimebaby69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.... 13, humm.. that alarm going off in your head... yea.. it is trying to tell you something and your not listening...
Your b/f is curious about your body, but clearly both of you are two young... it's nice to have such an admirer but he will want sex if he has the chance and taking your cloths off with him, in the shower... yea... takes you that much closer...
stand your ground and tell him to come back when he is 18, also any future dating if you guys have done any? is double dating only... say... my mom won't let me single date.. you have too go out in doubles... till 18.
cool his jets.. don't get naked with him.... don't be mad at him but he is pushing you too hard, tooo fast... just tell him no and if he doesn't slow down, dump him... and tell him you kept everything in a journal and wounder if his mom would like too read it?
2006-12-03 05:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No freaking way!!! First of all both of you are too young to have a mature body the other person can apprecaite. Wait until you're older to take a shower with anyone. That way you'll feel more comfortable with your body.
2006-12-03 04:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by Callie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh boy, as you're only 13, don't do it. You're too young for that stuff. Say no. He might try to force or bully you into it. Don't give in, no matter what. Tell your parents if he keeps asking.
2006-12-03 04:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. No one takes a shower with each other unless they're going for sex. If you don't want sex don't take a shower with him.
2006-12-03 04:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by andra s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're way too young for that and yes it will probably lead to sex or attempted sex (by your boyfriend). Why do you think he wants you to go in? So you can lather his back for him? NOOO, it's because he wants to get some.
2006-12-03 04:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by LaissezFaire 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable with it don't do it. At this age it's a little soon to be going into that. I'm 15 I should know. If anything e-mail me and i will be glad to give you advice ok?!! Hope I helped!!!
2006-12-03 04:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young for sex at the moment. Don't do it unless you're ready. If you don't want to tell him that. If he's a good boyfriend, he'll understand.
2006-12-03 04:47:47 · answer #11 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋