i really like this guy and he likes me too and he asked me to his formal but me n my ex jus broke up a month ago n i still think about him sumtimes even tho he was a jerk. i really like the new guy n i kno he wont hurt me cuz he doesnt have much experience. i jus dont wanna go too fast. if he asks me out should i say yes or should i wait awhile? im more experienced n i also dont want him to not like me for what i did in the past. should i worry about that?
2006-12-03 04:46:01 · 13 answers · asked by =] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say yes. I went out with my now fiancee about a month after breaking up with my ex. I wasn't over him at all, but you know what? My fiancee was the better person - so much so that I was able to realize on my own that my ex was not someone I wanted to be with.
Take a chance on the nice guy. If he is as you describe, then he'll treat you better than any jerk would and you'll realize that you're not missing out on anything.
2006-12-03 04:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him. Why should he not like you because of what you did in the past? Are you an axe murderer? I didn't think so. Just because you have more experience, doesn't mean things have to go fast. Having more experience should've taught you to take it slow. Much better that way, all round.
One of the best cures for a broken heart is a new love. Don't be afraid, and don't look back. Good luck.
2006-12-03 12:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bc ur afraid of things going too fast doesnt mean u cant go out with him. say yes, and then see how things go from there. make sure u let him know that u dont want things to go too fast. with him not having too much experience he probably wants the same. if u wait awhile he might lose interest. so go for it now, and it doesnt mean that things automatically become serious.
2006-12-03 13:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by beatles luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, um, i can only say 1 thing, go for it, this other guy, betrayed your trust, he's not worth it, forgeting the past can be hard, and when your hearts involved, its even harder, because you are emotionally attached, but you will proberly find that once ur in a relationship with this new guy, you will forget all about ur ex, and move on, but yes taking it slowly might be best, just say it, if he likes you then he will be more than happy 2, and if he doesn't have that much experance with this kinda stuff then he would proberly find it to his advantage to go slowly anyway, live life with out regrets, why don't you ask him out on your terms rather than waiting for him 2 ask u?
2006-12-03 12:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure go out with him! But you should say that you want to go slowly. And.... You "know" he won't hurt you because he has little experience? Guys GET experience and even if they don't they still want it. He could still hurt you in such a way. Just a little less likely.
Anyhow, if you get in a deeper relationship, he may be kind of sad about what you did in your past. But it's not his fault so he probably won't worry too much.
2006-12-03 12:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gemini: that depends how he acts towards you or just maybe
it's time for yourself to find an better person. Because alot
of dates comes & goes pertty fast were girlfriends end relationships with their boyfriends as usal those guys don't know
how much responisibility from himself shows at all !
well what I would reccomend is to wait until the right one comes
Good Luck & Be Paient
2006-12-03 13:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's fine that you still think about your ex, it'll take time to get over him but it helps to find someone new. Go to the formal. If he asks you out tell him you want to know him well enough but you'd love to. You can always tell him you're getting over a relationship and you need a little time but you'll hang out with him and everything and you like him.
2006-12-03 12:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Don't make your ex a factor. You two are done with and he was probably an *** to you so get over him. A new b/f would help. Just give it a try and if you don't like the new guy, get rid of him as well.
2006-12-03 12:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by LaissezFaire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide if your ready first. If you would like to go out with him, say yes, but let him know that you are just out of a relaionship and that you would like to take it slow, until you are ready. When somebody truely wants to be with you they have to be willing to accept your past. Remember everyone makes mistakes.
2006-12-03 12:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by a h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the guy but make it clear you want to take things slow. Have fun and don't give it up.
2006-12-03 12:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by AnswerGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋