2006-12-03 04:48:54 · 13 answers · asked by jw 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes! your trust has been violated by that person. you have forgiven and moved on and dont wish to be friends any more.that is o.k. if you see them just say hello and go on. im sure they realize that they hurt you.there are more friends out there who will be there for you. go on and make new friends and dont look back. but if you still want to be friends with the other person then you will have to build your trust in them again. forgiveness is good .but trust is something they will have to earn from you.
2006-12-03 04:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Just like in a marriage or partnership when the trust is gone so is the heart. If a friend has done you wrong and apologizes the christian thing to do is except the apology graciously but that does not mean you have to be Friends any more. Once you forgive, move on with your life, there is no need to keep the friendship intact.
2006-12-03 12:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness must come from the heart first before you apologize. By forgiving that person you are showing that you are able to leave the past behind and move on with your life. It doesn't mean you'll have to stay friends with them though.
2006-12-03 12:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by Callie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if someone does something that takes away your trust. You can forgive them, because you come to a realisation of what they are really like. And perhaps realise you were friends with them in the first place because you felt they were another person. Friendships should be formed slowly and without the aid of rose coloured spectacles i think.
2006-12-03 12:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by : 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can forgive but you won't forget.
It's a painful thing to move on from a "friend". Friends make your life go round.
But yes, you can forgive but move on.
2006-12-03 12:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
you say that "its ok" when they ask for forgiveness but then say u don't really need him/her anymore as a friend because of what he/she has done
2006-12-03 12:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by himynameisbrandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving sombody makes you the better person! It will make you feel better.depending on what happened. you dont have to still be the friend! (but they will feel like hell) WORKED FOR ME!
2006-12-03 12:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by MICHAEL J P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always good to forgive, but letting go is a good idea
2006-12-03 13:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
There are alot of people out there that we can respect as a person but should not become or be our friends.
2006-12-03 12:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-03 12:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋