Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

2006-11-29 04:48:01 · 2 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Friends

He got drunk with college friends from 6pm onwards.He then offered to walk a girl he thought didn't like him to the train station.She missed her train.Between the two of them they got a hotel room-double/single I didn't ask.Once in the room he said he wanted to just sleep, but she suggested sex.She guided him into her and they had sex "twice but in the same sequence of events" he also remembers going down on her.The next morning he says he felt awful about it.

Roll on 3 weeks. I notice he hasn't been calling as much as usual. We go out for a meal and when I get flirtatious and suggest going home with him, he backs off.

So last friday. He comes over and tells me what happened. I am shaking. Up to this point we have only ever slept with and gone out with only each other.We have been together for nearly 5 years.Basically its total devastation.But VERY oddly I went home with him that night...Now I feel like I'm losing the plot....HELP ME!!!We're both 24.I thought we'd last another year!

2006-11-29 04:47:57 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iv been seeing this lad for the past 6 months, its a very strange relationship we have got. When were together i couldnt wish for a nicer person but then he just goes cold on me. I dont hear anything from him then he texts me like nothings wrong.I really dont know where i am with him. Iv tried talking to him but i get nowhere.Any tips i can use on him,play him at his own game,what do you think???

2006-11-29 04:47:44 · 19 answers · asked by skin 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 04:46:58 · 10 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Friends

I know I am on the verge. That makes me a vergen.

2006-11-29 04:46:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so there is this guy who i've known for about two and a half years now. i've kinda had this big crush on him the entire time. but about a year ago we had a big fight about something stupid. so stupid i dont know what it was about. neither does he. and about october we began talking again. and flirting. but he has a girlfriend. and they're off and on. and shes always breaking up with him for stupid things. and recently when they were off, we hooked up. and he said they were done for good. so i was all excited. then two days later a friend told me they got back together. and i dont want to be that girl he calls when he wants something, ya know? and i really dont know what to do. i know i would treat him better than she does. but hes so confusung. he likes to play mind games with me. i suppose i do it to him to. but i really dont know what to do here. should i keep pursueing this or let it go and stay friends? please help me.

2006-11-29 04:45:34 · 6 answers · asked by hunnyz_heart 2 in Singles & Dating

How do they act if they just wanna sleep with you as opposed to genuinely fancuying you and wanting you for a girlfriend? I know they all want to sleep with you in the end but whats the difference in the beginning? Bear in mind that this guy is 36 (not sure if it makes a difference!)

2006-11-29 04:45:02 · 13 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Singles & Dating

What is a realistic price for a DJ in Michigan? A friend of mine who owns a bar, DJs on the side just off his computer and wants $700.00. However, one of the banquet halls we're looking at says we can use theirs for $600.00. How reasonable are those rates?

2006-11-29 04:44:53 · 7 answers · asked by angel 3 in Weddings

He never used to do this to me ,Ive done a lot of bad things to him in the past but this is getting out of hand,Ive had enough,he beat me up a couple of hours ago and the cops came, he took off,he hit me very hard.I dint press charges on him,the cop asked me why, he was very upset at me for not doing so ,and now that I think about it so am I ,I feel sorry for him though he wasnt like that before he was on drugs,what should I do ?I dont want to hurt him but I think I need to press charges Im very hurt right now Phisicly thatis1

2006-11-29 04:44:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Dad has joint custody with the mother of the child and the child stays 2-3 nights a week. In the year the Dad and I have been together the child has slept in his own room a handful of times. I am fit to be tied and trying to talk about it results in a fight. Child does not sleep in our bed but has to be in the room. Dad thinks this is completely normal. Dad has been divorced for 12 years and I believe it is something that they have always done. I also think that Dad does not want the child to grow up. I have stated that the child is almost at puberty and that he needs to start being more independent. No matter what I do I am looked at as the "bad guy" because I think that it is creepy. I get along very well with my fiance and this is the only source of stress between us. On top of everything I am a Social Worker and feel like I should know what to do! Any advice?

2006-11-29 04:44:13 · 30 answers · asked by MSW worker 1 in Family

old ?married ten years,and now its time to move on but my little guy is crushed about the idea of having to sell the house its always been home.in florida can a wife stay in the house until the child is 18 if i can make the payment? mysoon to be ex wants to sell it and wants his share,im not sure what to do

2006-11-29 04:43:25 · 3 answers · asked by resigned 5 in Marriage & Divorce

How long it took you to know that person is the one? Is there anyone took a long time to know that person is the one and have a successful long relationship after went through many things?

2006-11-29 04:43:02 · 6 answers · asked by jian l 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and i have been together three years i am 22 and he is 26 years old.His family is well off to put it lightly and he went to hardvard . I went to rutgers and then NYU and my family is upper middle class hard working.Recently we have started to talk about marriage but i am not really sure.He travels a lot and is obsessed with his job and we do not spend that much time together anymore. He buys me expensive bags, jewelry, new car for my b-day this year, and gives me his credit card when i go shopping.I have a job and it makes me feel usless when he pays for everything but if i say anything he get offended. He told me when we get married i need to change my wardrobe, find new friends, and take an etiquette classes to prefect my skills.Whenever we go out i feel like i am on parade and being spoken to as if i were a child.He never used to be like this and now i feel like i cant talk to him or i dont know how?I feel guilty for having feelings for another guy.

2006-11-29 04:42:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

3 years ago there was this girl in my class called ophelia. she was one of the popular girls, i wasn't (i was pretty geeky back then).

then she moved away 1 year and a half ago and now she's come back.

she's being really nice to me (i guess i'm not such a dork anymore).
she keeps giving me all these complements, saying about how she secretly admired me 3 years back.

i'm friends with her now, and she wants me to join the "popular group".
the only problem is that they're all bitches and they look down on me.
i'd love to go with her, but what do i say? how do i act?


this could be huge! and i don't know what to do!


and what about my old friends? would they take this badly even if we're not all that close?

2006-11-29 04:42:03 · 4 answers · asked by chocolate.smartie 2 in Friends

I told my husband that I think him going to a strip club would be the same as him cheating on me. There are naked women there that put their "parts" in mens faces. If I found out that my husband went that's how I would look at it....cheating. So many women are ok with this though. If I walked into a room on a normal day and saw boobs in my husbands face, I would think it was cheating so what's the difference, What do you guys think? Some of my friends think that that's too harsh. Either way that's how I feel. Just wanted some input.

2006-11-29 04:41:35 · 45 answers · asked by Regina D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex bf is talking to some other girl right now. but says he still loves me and still cares about me. do you think it will take him time to realize that he really loves me and will come back to me? we were together for 2 and a half years. he said that it just wasnt there anymore for us. and said he has been thinking about doing it for a while. he waited a month to actually break up with me. i dont know why he waited so long. but love just doesnt fade away that fast. i want him to realize what he is missing. will he come back to me?

2006-11-29 04:40:50 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone who have been there done that and think they can really help me out, WHERE????

2006-11-29 04:39:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with the people I rent my house from for about 3 years. They are like family to me. Well, their nephew moved in about 6 months ago after going through a nasty divorce, so I felt really bad for him and decided to be his friend. I have always been there for him and we hung out regularly. We got to be pretty close friends and then he said I was his best friend. Here lately he has been getting pretty possesive of me and getting mad if I don't hang out with me. He texts me about 20 times a day and wants me to call him all the time. I told him that I felt smothered and overwhelmed and to chill out, but he didn't listen. On Saturday night he kept calling me and I didn't answer, so the next morning I had 9 voice mails on my phone. They were really creepy and obsessive like messages. So, on Sunday I went over to his house and explained that I thought that was wierd and now he is mad at me and is being malicious...

2006-11-29 04:39:03 · 5 answers · asked by hbunch11 1 in Friends

My boyfriend is always browsing myspace for other women in our area. What's up with that?

2006-11-29 04:38:32 · 31 answers · asked by Jennifer S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, the love of my life just killed me. He broke up with me because I don't know why. He tells me that he still loves me and always will and he says that he still wants to be with me. then i found out through a friend that he doesnt know if he wants to be with me anymore. So when i confronted him he said he still loves me and he wants to be with me. so i asked him if he loves me and wants to be with me why aren't you and he said because It makes it easier on us. If throwing up constanly not being able to sleep and crying for 4 days straight is easier ok then but this is rediculous. Whats he gonna choose? Is he gonna come back? Or will he just kill me completely. He was "mi ceilo", my heaven I need him to survive. without him im nothing im dead. what to do? what to do?

2006-11-29 04:38:20 · 19 answers · asked by Just another xXemoXx kid... 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend only has sex with me less then once a week. I seem to never be able to get him in the mood. When he gets home from work he falls asleep. I try putting on londray and kiss him on the neck but he rolls over and goes back to sleep. What could I do to get him to want to have sex with me more?

2006-11-29 04:37:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just went back to work after 15 years. I now have a child (she is 10) and I can no longer do the room mom thing, field trips, bake cookies for class, etc. She misses me but I love my job. I don't need to work for money, but I love my job. Help???

2006-11-29 04:36:44 · 10 answers · asked by brainsandcute2 3 in Family

bet I get reported for this one.

2006-11-29 04:36:32 · 9 answers · asked by oldsoftee2001 6 in Singles & Dating

I need to buy my boyfriend's little sister a Christmas present. She's 16, all of the clothes I've ever gotten her I've never seen her wear so no clothes, and I don't want to get her a gift card. So what should I get??? What's on your wish list? Thanks!

2006-11-29 04:36:32 · 14 answers · asked by Pink Girl 4 in Friends

well one of the love of my life's ex boyfriends has stepped into the picture and well i see him trying to take over me by sending her love letters saying this and that well i dont know what to do...do i fight back...give her space....or do i do the same back....or what should i do

2006-11-29 04:36:29 · 9 answers · asked by big W 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 04:35:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well basically iv'e been with my girlfriend for alomost 2years now. But resently i have been having dreams about someone else. who hapens to be my bestfriend. In my dreams me and my bestfriend are so happy and just living the good life, but im so inlove with her. But when i wake up and my girlfriend is in my arms...i feel like i dont want her to be there. its like im falling outta love with my girlfriend but inlove with my bestfried...but my bestfriend from my dreams. its like my dreams are making me fall outta love with my girlfriend and i dont know what could be the problem because i love my girlfriend with my heart!! and i wanted to be with her forever. what am i to do? whats is wrong with me? what does this mean?

2006-11-29 04:35:08 · 12 answers · asked by Ms.rainbowlove 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 04:34:55 · 15 answers · asked by Abhi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Y girls think negative.

2006-11-29 04:34:04 · 11 answers · asked by Tanmay 1 in Friends

so what are you thinking\dreaming of????????

2006-11-29 04:33:21 · 10 answers · asked by Rooster 3 in Singles & Dating