Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

2006-11-29 05:26:11 · 4 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Friends

where you can at least give someone your email addy or IM, name? they used to have webdate.com, but even they started charging a year or so ago.

2006-11-29 05:25:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know - crazy question. But here's why I ask. Eight months ago my husband (now ex) decided to separate - he said he was not happy. Two days later I find out (from his mom) that he was "in love" with a co-worker. I kicked him out and filed for divorce. Six weeks later he wrote me a letter telling me that he had made a mistake - that I was the one he loved and will always loved. I thought we could work things out. I was naive enough to believe that maybe he had not slept with this woman yet. I was wrong. Not only had he slept with her but they actually bought a house together! Needless to say we are now divorced. He is moving in that house with her this week. I have no idea why it bothers me still. I know he is with her, our son had been introduced to her - I am doing my best to move on. I think this still bothers me because the house represents the level of my ex's deception. Any thoughts? Or am I crazy??

2006-11-29 05:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 05:24:36 · 23 answers · asked by Marino 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 6 yrs. and have two boys by my husband. But I've been in this affair with a married man for a year now. I've already met his wife and yes my husband knows about him too. I will always care for my husband cause of our boys together, but I fell in love with the guy I'm having the affair with and he also says the same thing. Me, his wife and him has already all met together and she told him to make a decision, well he said he loves both. Now we are planning on getting a apartment together, do you think it'll work with us? What should I do? My husband still loves me very much but just wants me happy and to make a right decision too. I'm 29 and the guy I'm having an affair with is 42. My husband is 32. I know age doesn't matter. I really need help with all of this. My boys has met this other guy as well and they like him, and they love their dad. I just want to make the right decision.... HELP.....

2006-11-29 05:24:07 · 19 answers · asked by marcella t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked this question in parenting but, I wanted to see if I got a different point of view in this catagory. My middle son is having a bday party next week and has asked that I dont invite the child of a family friend. He told me he still wants her parents to attend though. The kids both started Kindergarten this year and ended up in the same class. I also babysit this little girl. He told me he doesn't want her here because he is tired of her always being around. I have several dicipline issues with this child, and I dont know how to address her parents with my sons request. I don't want to be rude, but I also want my son to enjoy his day. Yes, he will only be 6, but he has expressed his opinions several times. What would be the proper way to tell this little girls parents? They treat my 3 kids as their own, and we help each other out when we can. The little girls mom even drove me to the hospital when I was in labor with my son. Please.... any advice will help. THANKS

2006-11-29 05:23:52 · 2 answers · asked by kutskova29 3 in Friends

I am a 24 yr old guy. A girl always smiles when I smile at her, and will always talk to me when i make the effort. Does this mean she likes me? I don't think it does necessarily but my question is: How would I know if the girl likes me? I'm not sure if she's single. She's about my age.

Thanks for answering my question.....

2006-11-29 05:23:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had sex after nikhaah but before rukhsati...did i do the right thing? i feel that i did...but when i think about my family and up bringing i get depressed. i also feel that one day may be 10 years down the line he will say to me i was a bad character girl...but i have trusted him and taken this step...is their anything wrong in trusting ur husband thatn ur family?
i even said to him...i hope u dnt ever think im an easy girl thats y im taking this step...im trusting u...somebody helpp meeeeeeeeeeee

2006-11-29 05:22:49 · 11 answers · asked by sq 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this person for two months, and although things are wonderful, I find that since we got closer, he's a bit detached at times, so i am not sure if it's a lifestyle thing, or a personal thing. Either way I am willing to give it a shot, but I wonder if i need to learn more about it. He's a big boy, been in the force for 16 years, so I am not worried about him getting hurt. Just want to know other's experience and see what I should expect.

2006-11-29 05:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by grldragon101 4 in Singles & Dating

out there like me who still think about it? i am a man now. it all started with my dad and after a while my mom found out what he was doing and she wanted me to. i am not tramatised by it now but i do still have the memories.

2006-11-29 05:22:18 · 30 answers · asked by to old 1 in Singles & Dating

when i was sick i was playing online poker and i met this guy...we email back and forth and i now feel extremely attracted to him...am i crazy??

2006-11-29 05:21:08 · 9 answers · asked by onetwothree 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are both 31, have been together for five happy years, and lived together for three of them. We are from different cultural backgrounds, which is wonderful and difficult at the same time. I am frustrated with our relationship progression, we have so much fun together, and are the envy of all of our friends, yet when I bring up the topics of the future/marriage/family, he gives me the same answers; he's too young and just not ready to 'settle down'. I have only seriously broached this topic for the past year, and there has been little progress in our communication on the subject. This, for me, is a big deal. I know I we want to have a future together, but I feel like "talking" about what you want out of a marriage and family are important. He seems to feel like getting married will be the end to any fun or freedom. I would like to talk to someone (therapist), to understand eachother better, but he is not very open to it. Sometimes I (sadly) feel like moving on...

2006-11-29 05:21:00 · 6 answers · asked by NYC olive 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 05:20:25 · 15 answers · asked by phyllis_gene_levy 1 in Family

2006-11-29 05:20:08 · 15 answers · asked by littleone24t 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 05:20:03 · 12 answers · asked by noga 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Now my boyfriend had already cheated on me but he text his so-called friend on my phone then she text my phone hey boo to him he keeps saying its just his friend was I wrong for getting mad?

2006-11-29 05:19:59 · 5 answers · asked by chinese baby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so I am not getting hitched anytime soon but as I have reached the marrying age I have, naturally, begun to consider color/floral schemes. I'm not exactly a sugary pink kind of gal and would love to do black dresses for my wedding party but have opted for midnight blue instead so my mother wouldn't have a coronary. Along with these deep blue gowns I would want my flowers to be white daisies, yellow roses, and orange tiger lillies, with silver & blue accents.

Does that sound horrible? Oh, and for the record, I plan on scheduling a late October/Early November wedding once I get a ring around my finger.

2006-11-29 05:19:55 · 7 answers · asked by mistress minx 2 in Weddings

My g/f don't trust me talking to anyone so when we have problems I have no one to vent to what should I do????? I love her and want to marry her but this has to stop. What should I do?

2006-11-29 05:19:22 · 22 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I do not fear getting it but i hope she comes back she had to go back east but said she's coming back

2006-11-29 05:18:56 · 11 answers · asked by Victorio 2 in Singles & Dating

for christmas.?

2006-11-29 05:18:38 · 6 answers · asked by LiL MaMa 2 in Singles & Dating

If someone of the opposite sex isn't able to be emotionally available for me, then why should someone like this have to waste my time? The person should have left me alone in the first place. It's kind of hard to tell in the beginning whether someone is capable of being able to have a non-committed relationship.

2006-11-29 05:18:05 · 3 answers · asked by Debbie M 1 in Singles & Dating

I love everything about them, their hair, eyes, build, smile, ect.

2006-11-29 05:17:53 · 13 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Divorce almost final and house be split later after sale. We changed the locks (my fiance and I) and she is threatening to hire locksmith to break in this weekend while we are away. Her name is on mortgage of course but she does not pay anything towards it and has her own rental.

2006-11-29 05:17:28 · 12 answers · asked by Julie H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 05:17:11 · 30 answers · asked by roxie k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love everything about them, their hair, eyes, build, smile, ect.

2006-11-29 05:17:11 · 24 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Singles & Dating

I am really impulsive, so a while ago, I married this guy named Ryan. And we lived happily and he was so sweet and everything, but then I met this guy named Ashton, and I fell in love-but I was still married to Ryan, it was love at first sight with Ashton and me, so I made the decision between them, and divorced Ryan. Ashton and I are living happily now, but Ryan is really hurt and mad at me-I feel like such a whore because Ryan never did anything to hurt me-and I did, but I love Ashton-but Ashton doesn't want me to have anything to do with Ryan anymore because Ryan hates Ashton with a passion now, and they got in a fist fight at a club. I'm torn between both guys, and if I don't make a decision soon, I'll lose both. Ryan told me he'd take me back if I wanted to, and I think its really sweet-but what about ashton? I know I messed up totally, but I'm pregnant with twins with Ashton, and I never had anykids with Ryan. What do I do?

2006-11-29 05:16:42 · 24 answers · asked by maconheira 4 in Singles & Dating

some holes in her paper with my hole puncher so she could put them in a folder.

What stationary item do you think comes in handy?

2006-11-29 05:16:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-29 05:16:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im looking for my sn in pheonix az and im in Hesperia calif and i miss him alot and today is his birthday e-mail me if you know him or nancy. thank-you

2006-11-29 05:16:30 · 1 answers · asked by LORI Partida 1 in Friends

hi there, i've known a girl fo about a month now..and i know her through some mates that introduced her to me...well we got talking for a month and we're really close...and my mate that goes to the same school as her(im 15 by the way) , told me she talks about me.....then i asked her if she ever liked me before....and she said kind of, but then i told her i dont like her, sorry (EVEN THOUGH I DO IM SO STUPID)...so she covered it up by saying that she meannt liked me as a m8....which i know isnt true because its obviously covering up...what should i doo? thanks in advnace

2006-11-29 05:15:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating