i love having sex with my husband, but everytime we make love he only last 3-5 mins. I dont get satisfied, is?

Answer 1

Make him satisfy you first.... Duh...

Tell him to get down there and drink from the furry cup before hopping on top of you and bouncing up and down for a few minutes. Or try giving him a BJ. Guys seem to last a little longer with a BJ and the woman can control things so it lasts.

Answer 2

First are you guys just jumping into sex, or is there any foreplay?
If you are just having sex then that can be the problem, he could be already hot and horny for you and that could be causing him to last only 3 to 5 mins. I would suggest that you speak to your husband and let him know that you are not climaxing, and that you would like to try something different before you have sex with him. Sometimes when a couple is having sex the man gets the urge to *** and what some men do is they slow down there pace. Some call it controlling there urge to ***. Let him know what you want and how you want it done, you will be glad that you told him.

Answer 3

You need to make that the best three to five minutes you ever got, by doing other things. Try using sex toys and also have him go down on you. He can also use his fingers. I am not trying to be blunt. Dont let him feel inadaquate. If that is all he is capable of if you love him you will find a way to have you both be pleasured.

Answer 4

is it what? normal yes the average guy only last 5 minutes... Try your local sex shop Im not sure of the name of it but there is pill he can take last about 24 hours and he is really easy to get a hard on and will keep getting them no matter how many times you do it and will get off everytime..... worked for me

Answer 5

You have to do more than just the "deed" um i suggest that you make a Lil more time for fore-play for you and then more playing/petting etc. after he is done if toy's are out of the question make him give you more than what he does ... or send him to a sex therapist.. Good Luck .. We all want things in life to be faster i guess this is not one of them lol ..

Answer 6

This is all about control. First off he has none. If he can't tell when he is about to get off and stop, give it a rest, then he needs more control. If you can't tell when he's about to get off and stop, give it a rest, then you need more control. Practice makes perfect. Don't expect him to go from 3 mintues to 30 minutes in one night. Tell him you wanna try for 4 minutes, then 8 then 15, then 20. It's all about controlling the pleasure.

Now, if he is just a selfish jerk, he just wants to get off and will not bother caring about any of this.

Answer 7

As an avid reader of FHM and Maxim I have seen a new product advertised that is supose to help the product is called vivaxa. It is a topical cream that is supose to make him last longer without makeing him completly numb and useless

Answer 8

I've about this before from a sex expert. When you are having sex, and he is about to reach his limit, let him stop and calm down, while that happens make him stimulate you, when he's good to go, start again. Keep doing that till your ready. And having a few toys won't hurt either.

Answer 9

well that sucks. do you tell him or do you fake it? you need to tell him so he can pleasure you in some other way. im lucky cause i can have an orgasm in like 2 minutes. i dont know why but thats the way i am, and im glad cause my hubby lasts for 5 minutes too! so we go together perfectly. sometimes i have 3 orgasms in 5 minutes!

Answer 10

I'll assume he wants you to feel pleasure. If that's the case then I would suggest you start rubbing your clitoris before he penetrates you. If you get to the point where you are about to come, then have his insert his penis. While he is thrusting continue to rub your clit and you should climax together.