Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

earlier i asked a question about me droppin someone because he's already acting over protective and possesive and we are not even together. I've decide that I dont have to put up with it...Im done with him. I let him go. And for those viewers who spoke and said oh its my fault. I neva asked u. ANd to those who gave good advice thanks

2006-11-29 05:15:33 · 5 answers · asked by Mrs. Pryor 1 in Singles & Dating

someone that u dont want to talk to them no more without braking their heart??? well im tlkiing to this guy but i dont really have feelings for him but he said he really likes me and i dont feel the same way but im scared to tell him i see him the same way he sees me he said he loves me and i brought joy and happiness to his life what should i do?????

2006-11-29 05:15:20 · 2 answers · asked by Ms princess 1 in Friends

overall she is skinny but her butt is mushy and flabby and she has no muscles in it or her legs cuz she refuses to do any kind of work out. I have suggested working out would be good for her but she just continues to say "I have never been the workout type." She is 36 now and it will only catch up to her. I run and workout everyday but can never do it with her. also, because she does not have to alot the time and commitment to it, she can't relate to me having to. she lives in an area full of hot chicks, so she can surely see what is out there...

2006-11-29 05:15:17 · 13 answers · asked by keepingitgoing 2 in Singles & Dating

What if he's totally ugly but really sweet, caring, nice, loving, kind..etc would u still accept him? Would u be afraid of what others might think?

2006-11-29 05:15:07 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Butt3rfLyKis5ez 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm ugly and no one in the world loves me even my own family ,all they do is pissing me off cause they look good and I don't(my father tells me how ugly I'm and my brother&sister are Embarrassed to go out with me..........I don't have friends in college, I tried but people are so shallow.I have severe depression and I think about suicide a lot.
I'm studying dentistry and wish to become rich and powerful but can I survive till then ??

2006-11-29 05:14:50 · 6 answers · asked by James 2 in Family

2006-11-29 05:14:32 · 10 answers · asked by Jason S 1 in Singles & Dating

I just recently started dating this lady, and Christmas is just around the corner. Is it too early to get her gift? If not, what would you suggest?

*I personally believe it isn't too early, but I would like to hear everyone's point of view.

2006-11-29 05:13:50 · 8 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl months ago in one of my classes. we became friends and started going and and spending time together. A couple of days ago we were one step away from doing it but i opted not to, since i felt that it would be unfair for her. After that she just stoped talking to me.. then a friend told me earlier today that shes telling her college friends that my size (ok mine's only about 5" L. and 5.5 g..) didn't met up with her expectations.. wth!!

and what pisses me off like hell.. is that i think i love her. she's become an important part of me somehow.. whatever happened to the times we've spent together? was that all it's worth? wth!!

2006-11-29 05:13:36 · 13 answers · asked by Torenin 1 in Singles & Dating

I was with this guy for over a year and I still love him. It ended because I cheated on him but it really wasn't cheating because I never kissed or did anything with the guy except talk on the phone. I still have really big feelings for him and he told me that he has feelings for me too so what should I do? He's a senior this year with a very promising carreer. So what should I do about this?

2006-11-29 05:13:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes i get instantly upset over a little tiny thing. how do i cheer myself up?? i usually eat - and its not helping my body.

2006-11-29 05:13:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Last week I was down at the senior center,and this lady who is about my age that I've known for over 15 years asked me if me,and my husband would like to do some partner swapping? I thought it was the craziest thing in the world,but I don't want to hurt her feelings. Should I tell her I don't wan to be friends anymore or should I try this partner swapping stuff?

2006-11-29 05:12:33 · 9 answers · asked by Gertie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i've been talking to this dude since the beginning of the semester,and i think he may be interested but i dont know if i am just reading over his signals wrong....Like he is always dancing around me, and he always is trying to get me to smile... We always joke around with eachother, and he always wants to either tell me or help me with my love life...Like he said if i ever dated this one guy he would quit talking to me...It was funny, because he'd laugh when he said it. but he said he would sabatoge the relationship... Usually after class when we are walking down the hall together he walks with me to my locker, and always stands there and talks to me... .

2006-11-29 05:11:36 · 11 answers · asked by Nikki M 1 in Singles & Dating

or youth? Please explain.

2006-11-29 05:10:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband does not have a relationship with his family. They didn't even do Thanksgiving this year. I know that it bothers him, but when we go see my family, he has a major attitude and really makes my time with my family hard to enjoy. His mother died one and a half years ago and his father has remarried (which he can't come to terms with) His and his fathers relationship has always been a strained relationship at best. His older brother is jealous b/c we have a stable life, so that relationship is strained as well. To say the least, he is from a disfunctional family. What can I do? He interuupts me if I talk on the phone to my family, rolls his eyes, and talks sh*t about them and says that we act stupid when we get together. I had a fairy tale childhood and still have great relationships with my family members. I only get to see them about five times a year so when I see them, I like to share stories about our childhood. Please help me understand why he acts that way.

2006-11-29 05:10:15 · 7 answers · asked by surelycoolgirl 5 in Family

Since I have become older, my relationship with my mom has became harder. We do not live together but do live in the same town. Even talking to her about most things causes us both to be irritated by the other. She has said that now that I am more independant that she will back off but she still butts in and gets made at me when I point this out or even when I talk, sometimes. Seems she thinks she is always right!

2006-11-29 05:10:10 · 3 answers · asked by Rosey 2 in Family

....E. I was supposed to leave at 6 but due to messing about on here while waiting for a phonecall back from a hotel Im organising an event at, I am now going to be late, and as he is on the tube there is no point calling / texting him.
He wont believe I was working late and therefore will make me buy the popcorn. What excuse can I use that will work?!

2006-11-29 05:09:06 · 25 answers · asked by Georgie 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years & he has been separated from his wife for 3 ½ years. The wife filed for divorce 1 ½ years ago when she filed for child support, but did not finish the divorce, just the child support case. I am not trying to pressure him into marrying me, but I am tired of him still being married or legally connected to her. It is over between them, why not file!? He always uses money as an issue, but he got a bonus from his job & spent all of the money on other things, not the divorce. A few weeks later, I got a bonus from my job, & I offered to give him the money for the divorce & he agreed to do it. Yesterday he had a day off so I gave him the money & told him he should go talk to the attorney since he had time. He gets mad & tells me that he isn't doing it today, he will deal with it later. Everytime I mention it, he changes the subject or gets mad!! I understand its not my place, but what should I do? I don't feel he can commit to me if still married.

2006-11-29 05:08:44 · 36 answers · asked by flowergirlsdy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok lets face it we've all done it and some of us still do . and those who say never ,,,,LIEING,,,,, so ladies why is it if you catch your man doing it you get pissed or mad????? sometimes we all nedd a little self relaxation. i'm sure you do it too.

2006-11-29 05:08:32 · 12 answers · asked by Rooster 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Plz reply

2006-11-29 05:08:09 · 20 answers · asked by Marino 3 in Singles & Dating

Or just casual making out? Me and my friends are debating this- I usually bite the lower lip/ tongue when making out but then the guy expects more. My friend insists that's because any sort of biting is foreplay, but I don't agree. For some reason, I can't make out without biting or it gets boring. But that doesn't mean I want more. What's your opinion on the whole biting thing? Oh and do you like it when girls bite during just making out or not? If so, where are you most sensitive to bites? These are too many questions, so feel free to answer just any :-)

2006-11-29 05:08:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Baby you're all that I want.
When you're lying here in my arms
I'm finding it hard to believe
We're in heaven.
Oh, thinking about all our younger years,
There was only you and me,
We were young and wild and free.
Now nothing can take you away from me.
We’ve been down that road before,
But that's over now.
You keep me coming back for more
Baby you're all that I want.
When you're lying here in my arms
I'm finding it hard to believe
We're in heaven.
And love is all that I need
And I found it there in your heart.
It isn't too hard to see
We're in heaven.
Now, nothing could change what you mean to me.
There's a lot that I could say
But just hold me now,
Cause our love will light the way.
Baby you're all that I want.
When you're lying here in my arms
I'm finding it hard to believe
We're in heaven.


And love is all that I need
And I found it there in your heart.
It isn't too hard to see
We're in heaven.
Now our dreams are coming true.
Through the good times and the bad
I'll

2006-11-29 05:07:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive liked this guy 4 a year and a half. ive asked him out alot, but he kept saying no. how do i get him 2 like me?

2006-11-29 05:06:55 · 23 answers · asked by galaxyhunter101 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what's the matter with me but whenever I'm around guys I like or find attractive I always act all cold and quiet. This doesn't happen with guys who I'm not attracted to. I talk a lot with those guys. I don't feel awkward and I'm more relaxed. Why am I like this?

2006-11-29 05:06:13 · 8 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Singles & Dating

I know they say birds of a feather flock together, but this bird wants to fly the coop. The majority of my closet friends are negative, unhappy and promiscuous. I will admit that I was that way but I have been changing this past year and I just don't have anything in common with them anymore and I don't know what to do. Should I just break away completely or just deal with it and hope that they change. NOTE: They are all more than 5 years older than me. I am just scared that if I continue to hang around them I will become them. What to do? What to do? What to do?

2006-11-29 05:06:04 · 5 answers · asked by Sweet M 2 in Friends

My wife and I have been married over a year & been living together for 3 yrs. We met at work. Problem is that I have been in love with another of our co-workers and good friends for several years (before I met my wife).
I do love and care about my wife and don't want to hurt her, but I'm not in love with her. My wife and her have become good friends the past few years, she was a bridesmaid in our wedding. I've never told anyone I feel this way and the stress of the secret is starting to overwhelm my thoughts.
Our friend has been with the same man since I've known her, who happens to be an alcoholic & treats her like crap. She's never been "single" so I've never really had the opportunity to ask her out, I had given up on trying to be with her, which is when I met my wife and we started dating. Her boyfriend is out of the picture now & I think she may have feelings for me. I don't want to ruin our friendship or hurt my wife, but I don't want to live wondering what might have been. Help

2006-11-29 05:04:41 · 9 answers · asked by J Walker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this new friend in class. She is a really nice girl. She has a car and will give me a lift whenever I need one. Sometimes, we go out together. Yet, I feel sudden fears in me that she might find me boring or irritating. I know this is all inside my head but I really appreciate this girl's friendship.

2006-11-29 05:04:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a movie to see. Plus how should I get my female friend to be my GF , we are good friends now but I would like to be more and I am not so sure about her, maybe.

2006-11-29 05:04:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 05:03:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 05:03:24 · 8 answers · asked by Grasshopper 5 in Singles & Dating

now I do not have to care for my mother and I would like to move(I own a home) because I am getting where I need help from time to time. I am behind on my health issues and need knee surgery. Knee surgery was cancled because I have no one to stay with me. I just can not go out and say " will you be my friend and help me out"
My daughter said to come live near them out of state. I have had my house on the market, sold furniture and am living in a house that is all packed up now for 6 months.
My daughter is giving me a long set of rules to abide by if I come near her to live. Such as I am not allowed to call her house at all during Monday-Friday because she stays home and that is her place of work..and do not discuss to her inlaws that I like to go to the Goodwill...
I really feel I am not really wanted there. I think I should take my losses with money on a new home I am having built near her and stay put. My medical issues will be on hold again and I will be alone. Move or not?

2006-11-29 05:03:19 · 7 answers · asked by lizr 2 in Family