Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

okay,your boyfriend starts hanging out all night til the next day time and time again,4 years and hes taken off edleast 36 times.he leaves you at work with no ride home and just takes off til the next day,then he comes home says he sorry and he will stop,then does it again.all you ask for is for some attention once and a while and you will have no problem with him going out til the next day,his idea of attention is watching tv together. you stress when he is gone because you worrie he is driving drunk,and might get in an accident.so you ask him to leave you the car so he wont be tempted to drive and he bitches.he doent really show any kind of emotion but anger he said he doesnt know how,im going to let him read this so he can see other peoples point of view,i feel the need to say,i do EVERYTHING for him,when he gets home he has to do NOTHING,and all i ask is for a kind word,but he said he feels stupid saying things like you look nice ect...whats your take on this honest.

2006-11-29 04:32:57 · 11 answers · asked by joannluna1974 1 in Singles & Dating

1) what percentage of what age group marry to have kids?
2) What percentage of what age group of men marry for companionship ?

2006-11-29 04:32:48 · 7 answers · asked by Bachelor boy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not married, but have been with this man for 9 years.. I was having problems with perimenopause and yelling and screaming a lot.. I was a witch... Just found out he visited a massage parlor complete with happy ending and has been on the internet at his work with porn sites and dating services... Swears its over.. I have problems with forgiveness right now... NEVER ever would have expected this.. Tolerated low testosterone problems in the past and never thought of cheating myself.. He said it was a mistake and will never happen again.. I have trust issues.. He is wonderful with my children and was generally a very stable person.,.. Help!!!

2006-11-29 04:32:32 · 9 answers · asked by Its me!!! :) 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not married, but have been with this man for 9 years.. I was having problems with perimenopause and yelling and screaming a lot.. I was a witch... Just found out he visited a massage parlor complete with happy ending and has been on the internet at his work with porn sites and dating services... Swears its over.. I have problems with forgiveness right now... NEVER ever would have expected this.. Tolerated low testosterone problems in the past and never thought of cheating myself.. He said it was a mistake and will never happen again.. I have trust issues.. He is wonderful with my children and was generally a very stable person.,.. Help!!!

2006-11-29 04:32:10 · 3 answers · asked by Its me!!! :) 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my an x broke up with me in june but we were basicly still going out untill last week we still had a boyfriend girlfriend relationship wit no tittle.THEn we stop talking this friday the next day i seen him he pushed me away when i tried to hug him days later i figure out that same night i seen him he had this whore at his house and i think they had sex cause my friend say dat the talk wit the girl now but from what she know he dont relly like her he's going to be 18 in s few months so yeah we are both young but i wanna be wit him i know i shouldnt still want him but i do. at first i was gonna say forget him but then this guy started flirtn with me and the guy knows i dont like him but he just kept flirtn wit me infront of my x, and my ex was tryna be all sweet to me and talk 2 me but a few days ago he wouldnt even hug me but now i know he still feeling me what should i do to get his attention if ur gonna tell me leave em alone and if ur gonna tell me im a bad writer dont write me

2006-11-29 04:31:57 · 9 answers · asked by Lovely_lady74 1 in Singles & Dating

She will usually only be with older men, 50's/60's, and says she doesn't feel attracted at all to anyone who isn't that age. She also comes from a very abusive background, has no family in her life, and has relationship issues. Plus, she's a virgin who never had sex because her first experience was almost forced and not concensual but the guy never went through with it.

What should the guy in this case do? If she's not with him she will be with other older men.

2006-11-29 04:31:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are separated. Things started getting better.

Then we had an arguement over the phone and she swore on her baby cousin that she wouldn't call me again. She emailed that he's ill now and she feels guilty.

Now, instead of calling me, she's been emailing me to call her and sending me text messages.

I called her and left a message that it's ok to call and her words have nothing to do with him.

She text me again and I told her "no more texts and emails, use the phone". She text me again to call her and I said "no".

What's happening here?

2006-11-29 04:31:53 · 9 answers · asked by Sexual Chocolate 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when you tell your friennd something personal about ya family promblems and she tells people and it's starts to go around school should you kick herass are confront her

2006-11-29 04:30:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I tried, it's hard, I tried to talk to my bf about my problems, and i feel better, then later on i feel the same problem again..this is beginning to hurt us...I tell him i will stop worrying and stop being jealous and i will trust him and i will try to become more interesting (Routine sucks!) And i want to!! But I cant become the person I want! HELP??? What the hell is my problem?? Its like it goes in one ear and out the other!Help! The relationship is dying because of me!! Please help! I don't want it to die...and weve talked so many times!! Nothing is working, Im happy after we talk, and then I get the same feelings again! Am I bipolar?? whats going on??!?! I never use to be like this?? Help? He tells me he loves me, and I love him, why am I being like this?

2006-11-29 04:30:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 04:30:03 · 7 answers · asked by tracy r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it's best to hold your tonge if you get mad or speak your mind?

2006-11-29 04:29:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How long have you been married? If the love died, how did it die? Why are you staying in the marriage if it is dead? How do you bring love back to life again?

2006-11-29 04:29:08 · 17 answers · asked by :-) literary cappy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone left a comment on another question of mine that my marriage could be made stronger. MY EA was my first love and I never felt those intense feelings I had with him with my husband. How do you fall in love with your spouse again, and it be more existant than before?

My husband and I have had a lot of differences over the years. The biggest problem we have had is a lack of communication, and no common interests except our children. Now we work opposite schedules and hardley see each other. We have been married for 13 years and have two children.

2006-11-29 04:27:02 · 15 answers · asked by :-) literary cappy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i havE KNOWN SOMEONE THROUGH MARRIAG SITE,HE IS NICE, HE IS LIKE A BIG BABY..AND KIND I STARTED HAVING FEELINGS TOWARDS HIM AND HE HAD ALSO,BUT HE IS HESITATING IN GENERAL,DIVORCED SEVERAL TIMES,FINANTIALLY UNSUPPORTED,ONEDAY TELLING ME HOW MUCH HE LOVES ME,THE OTHER DAY SAYS I'M SORRY I CAN CONTINUE I HAVE A VERY BAD CIRCUMSTANSES

2006-11-29 04:26:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mail man is realy hot! and hubby works all the time he would never know. If you could cheat without signifigant other ever finding out would you.

2006-11-29 04:26:27 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

herpes is my nieghbours cat who escaped 3 days ago and she was upset so i got herpes back for her.

Have you ever helped out an elderly nieghbour??

2006-11-29 04:26:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-29 04:26:01 · 13 answers · asked by Marino 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-29 04:25:00 · 14 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK I AM IN HIGH SCHOOL AND I LIKE THIS GUY ALOOOOOOOT! WHEN I GO TO SLEEP I THINK ONLY ABOUT HIM AND WHEN I GO TO SKOOL AND SEE HIM I GET CHILLS. I LOOK FORWARD TO SEE HIM DURING THE DAY AND WHEN I DO HE SMILES AND CALLS MY NAME.... HE WRITES ME SOMETIMES AND TELLS ME I AM PRETTY.. HIS BEST FRIEND AMANDA TOLD ME THAT HE SAID HE REALLY LIKED ME BUT HE DOESNT WANT TO HURT ME IF WE DATED. I AM SOO CONFUSED WHAT DOES HE MEAN BY THIS????!?
HE IS A VIRGIN AND ME TOO AND HE IS 18 BUT I DONT GET WHAT COULD HE POSSIBLY HURT ME ABOUT? I IN HEAD OVER HEALS FOR HIM AND I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT....??!? DO I ASK IF HE LIKES ME OR WAIT FOR HIM TO TELL ME? HE IS ALSO VERYY SHY.. PPL GIVE ME SOME GOOD ADVICE PLEASE I AM GOING CRAZY THINKING ABOUT HIM?

2006-11-29 04:25:00 · 12 answers · asked by saved 3 in Singles & Dating

I've heard that when you loose a mate or parent/grandparent that somewhere down the road you hear from them! Well I lost my husband almost 7 yrs. ago & I never felt him, senced him, heard him, drempt him....what gives? Does this mean he never loved me enough to let me know he was OK after he past?

2006-11-29 04:24:47 · 21 answers · asked by trueheart14225 1 in Family

A few days a go i met up with my guy. When i got to the park, which is like our hang out place, he was just having a big go at me saying how i keep bugging him about his drug taking and how i should just back off! he was shouting so loudly it made me cry so his best friend who is also mine took me home and then he says i shuld just forget about jack because he will never love me properly. Is he right or not?
And also when ever we meet we fight but when we are texting or phoning each other its fine!

x...X....x15 yr old girl UKx...X....x

2006-11-29 04:23:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why are women sooooo difficult for men to understand?

2006-11-29 04:23:51 · 27 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 6 in Singles & Dating

i found out that she had sex b4, its really killing me guys, i expected that shes a virgin and am gonna be the first and only man for her, i know am from a different culture and place, but doesnt it bother u guys too ?, i dont know should i leave her or forget this and move on, knowing that its hard for me to forget it, and i know that she really loves me so much.
another thing, i had some troubles and like a medical condition lately, and the only way we could contact now if am not able to be online is just texting, when i had this bad times, she was not texting much, so i felt like she doesnt care and shes not supporting me, it happened in other situations too, do u think its the distance or that i want her so much more than i should, like am so greedy or what ?
i really need ur help guys, am so depressed

2006-11-29 04:22:16 · 6 answers · asked by Tarek M 1 in Singles & Dating

is that a turnoff?

2006-11-29 04:21:47 · 8 answers · asked by gateofdoom1 1 in Singles & Dating

or does it mean that some just took a dump on them

2006-11-29 04:21:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The story - I met this guy and his buddy a couple weeks ago after the bar, we went out (his buddy & my girlfriend) had a BLAST! Two days later we all went out again, again, had a blast and I stayed over. Couple days later - again, same thing....then that weekend I just hung out at his house and watched TV with two more of his friends - it was OK, had fun, but I didnt know how to act around these new people, so I guess I was a little reserved...but still got a good night kiss when I left...but now its been 4 days and I havnt heard from him. Do guys really play this 'game' where they dont want to call and seem anxious, etc? He had instigated everything before - and now Im at a loss...so I called last night and he didnt answer his cell...will he call? what do you think? Hes really nice! his friends are cool and we had a super super time...Dont want the fun to stop now!!!!

2006-11-29 04:21:23 · 5 answers · asked by Broken 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 04:21:07 · 8 answers · asked by cristal D 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prostitute. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so. He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad. He is silent since 15 days now. WILL SUCH A GUY TRY TO CONTACT OR TEXT MESG ME AGAIN???

2006-11-29 04:21:04 · 10 answers · asked by saikiena 1 in Singles & Dating

shes always round me and that and shell come up 2 me and give me a hug and that and the other day we wa in science and she sat on me knee and held me hands and that im really confused but she likes this other lad and i rate dont know what to do

2006-11-29 04:20:25 · 4 answers · asked by adam s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 04:20:04 · 8 answers · asked by apple 1 in Singles & Dating