I am not married, but have been with this man for 9 years.. I was having problems with perimenopause and yelling and screaming a lot.. I was a witch... Just found out he visited a massage parlor complete with happy ending and has been on the internet at his work with porn sites and dating services... Swears its over.. I have problems with forgiveness right now... NEVER ever would have expected this.. Tolerated low testosterone problems in the past and never thought of cheating myself.. He said it was a mistake and will never happen again.. I have trust issues.. He is wonderful with my children and was generally a very stable person.,.. Help!!!
2006-11-29
04:32:10
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It was allegedly a hand job... Also found numbers when he was going out of town about a week after we seperated and got back together.. I was receiving phone calls and the like from the agencies wanting him to update his profile... We have no computer at home... I teach computer at school... I did some snooping when things didn't add up and he is pissed at me about that... Says it wasn't cheating... I say it was.. How would he have liked it if I did that?? His ex-wife did this and he divorced her...
2006-11-29
06:05:09 ·
update #1